am I gay? I am married and love my wife but I have a friend and he is big, like in his early 20s muscles and he is hung We got joking once and he showed me a pic a girl did of him its 10.5 and when we work out it shows also. So I finally asked and he like yeah its 6" soft I think I am gay becuase all I want to do is ask more and more. Sometimes he cool and other times he like yo its just a dick man no big deal. I think I have a crush? All I know is its wild and so big I can't help but think about it and him...