Any pumpers with some advice would be great. I'm not sure if I'm supposed to just stick my flacid dick in the pump and start or have a full erection, semi erection or what? My flacid size is small as I am really a grower and doesnt fill the tube very well, should I get a semi first? Are you supposed to be erect in the pump while your pumping because I feel limp? If u are, how do you stay hard while pumping?