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I'm a bisexual male and have fallen for a guy that is of similar stature of myself, very attractive. My dilemma comes to sex, but before I ask the question, I'll give a little back story to each of us. He has lived a straight life and been in the closet with very limited gay experiences and I have lived a straight life while remaining in the closet and have had plenty of gay experiences, including dating a guy. When it comes to sex, I am always the top but after a couple months, oral sex isn't doing it for me and I need to have more sexual depth(pun not intended) in our relationship. He has tried to bottom twice and both times were with me. I have bottom' for him a few times now and each time I feel like shit and less of a man after he is done; I don't hate the sex but I'm looking for someone else's wisdom or advice that can help me overcome this barrier. I'm hoping that someone on here can relate to me and offer some advice or share some kind of experience they have had with a similar situation.
So my question for other Bi/gay guys. When your playing the role of top with a guy, what do you get out of it and/or what's going through your mind. When you bottom for a guy, what's going through your mind, what do you get out of it, and how do you enjoy it and be ok with yourself after the deed is done?
I posted this in the Bi section considering that we both live straight lives and I still have interest in women, I'm sure I'll catch some heat for that.
I know this is a stretch and probably going to get a few replies saying to man up or quit being a bitch, but if anyone has some serious words or advice, PM me so I can learn from another's experience.
So my question for other Bi/gay guys. When your playing the role of top with a guy, what do you get out of it and/or what's going through your mind. When you bottom for a guy, what's going through your mind, what do you get out of it, and how do you enjoy it and be ok with yourself after the deed is done?
I posted this in the Bi section considering that we both live straight lives and I still have interest in women, I'm sure I'll catch some heat for that.
I know this is a stretch and probably going to get a few replies saying to man up or quit being a bitch, but if anyone has some serious words or advice, PM me so I can learn from another's experience.