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jmann93

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So I came out 7 months ago today, actually. But anyways, there is this guy I went to school with and on his Facebook and stuff he is straight but I just have this feeling he isn’t. I want to ask him out on a date. Something simple like dinner. What should I do.
 
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Ask him to hang out for drinks or play pool or something. Doesn’t necessarily have to be a date. Just hang out as friends. If he is your friend, have you come out to him yet? Perhaps you can use that opportunity and test his reaction test the waters go with the flow
 

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why don't you just ask him? present yourself as gay and say that you find him attractive and was wondering if he feels the same or identifies himself as a gay male. i'm not sure why you would want to waste your time or energy on someone if they are gay but pretending to not be. you aren't rescuing him. life is too short, just ask and move on.