Question

[UNIT]

Yah well i am having two guy friends spend the night

But one of them always rearranges him self around me and just changed in his "sleeping pants" but they make his dick look huge

are these hints

how do i drop hints to him to get him to mayb do stuff with me?

 

[_avg_]

When he excuses himself to the bathroom, ask if he needs a hand.

Or you could just be direct. Fuck subtlety.

 

[UNIT]

i need like a really inderect way

cas i dont want him to think i like him if hes like not that way

like i just wanna see his dick

 

[UNIT]

anyone

 

[simcha]

OK, this is rough. I'd try honesty. I approached a guy with whom I was on a spiritual retreat because it was ambiguous to me the way he approached me if he was just a very nice straight guy who genuinely liked me or he was a nice gay guy interested in something more than friendship. He was devastatingly handsome and it was hard. But in that environment, honesty was a theme.

So I pulled him aside and told him that I liked him and found him very attractive, explaining that I wasn't sure what he would think of that but that I just had to tell him. He blushed and told me that he wasn't gay but that he was flattered. After this we had a wonderful friendship.

So, while I didn't get romance and sex, I cleared the air and gained a good friend.

 

[str82fcuk]

when he changes say "Oh! Nice!" which one could think of a few ways of interpreting although the most obvious one is pretty obvious lol athough simcha's method is probably more rational

 

[UNIT]

well like im to the point i would be just satisfied if i could just see it

is there any way to see it do you think

like when he is sleeping

 

[str82fcuk]

dont try anything while he's sleeping - you have to be brave enough to say something while he's awake otherwise forget it

 

[UNIT]

why cant i try anything while he is sleeping

is there anything i can do to make him sleep harder

 

[simcha]

UNIT,

If you try something while he sleeps it's rape because he cannot consent. Do you really want to go down that road?

 

[BgHorseBoy]

I sort of like str82fcuk's approach.

I would wait until I am alone with the guy and make a casual comment like, "damn those pants make your crotch look huge - you are really that big?"

In all events, he is clearly cock-proud (I would know). And he isn't trying to hide it, so he will appreciate the compliment.

If he is straight, he will say "yep".

If he is gay and interested, he will likely know that you are maybe interested to see more.

It is a spark - if he feels froggy, he will be more inclined to jump.

 

[woogexx]

why cant i try anything while he is sleeping

is there anything i can do to make him sleep harder

are you for real....? dont have shit for brains.....

 

[Principessa]

why cant i try anything while he is sleeping
Are you totally without a brain!?!? Contrary to what many others here will tell you attempting to seduce a man you strongly suspect to be straight is WRONG!! Jesus Christ? Are there no gloryholes or bathhouses were you live!? Is there anything i can do to make him sleep harder

Seriously? Dude you are retarded! Slipping him a mickey and groping him or more can get you 4-7 years in some states. Either you man up and ask to see what he is packing while he is awake of qwitecherbitching and find somebody else.

 

[woogexx]

sorry we're comin down on ya so hard....but use a little common sense buddy.....

how old r u BTW

.....to answer ur question you jus need to play it by ear...be very observant.....i dunno im great at charmin straight guys....so it isnt all that hard.....jus hard to explain...whatever move you make dont make it to forward...it could make things bad.......try sitting relatively close to him...see if he moves away or slowly moves closer...(and im talkin usually pretty damn slow,,,if theyre new to all this).....that seems to work.....if u two are sitting thigh to thigh...then theres a chance id say....

 

[str82fcuk]

hey there Unit dude

I hope it went well for you and that you didnt do anything too out there
I know exactly how you feel because I have had plenty of crushes on str8 guys (although I tend to do that less nowadays)
of course there is nothing at all wrong with trying to seduce a str8 guy so long as you are respectful about it so dont let any of the members here try to make you feel bad about it ...
but do let us know how it went
if you want to try again I think you should really follow BgHorseBoy's approach because that is the most reasonable and sensible and positive way to move forward
if you're like me you should definitely do something soon to break out of your inner stalemate - find out one way or another how he feels - then you will know and not waste weeks or months wondering ...

 

[B_josiah852]

If you are really interested you might say the next time he adjusts: Dam that's a huge bulge. Or you are either huge or do you have some socks stuffed in there ? Some little mention in a light heartily way.

 

[str82fcuk]

do you have some socks stuffed in there ?

I like that line

 

[UNIT]

like i didnt mean i was going to do things to him when he sleeps i just wanted to see it :/

but uh yah like i dont want him to know i like him.

but today we were looking at porn i just wanted him to whip it out and start jacking but he didnt :[

 

[str82fcuk]

like i didnt mean i was going to do things to him when he sleeps i just wanted to see it :/

but uh yah like i dont want him to know i like him.

but today we were looking at porn i just wanted him to whip it out and start jacking but he didnt :[

So if you were watching porn together (just you two or were there three or four guys) why didn't you just whip it out and start jacking? Why do you expect other guys to take risks like that if you are not prepared to?
If you want to be a little less direct you could start by saying "oh man I'm so horny" just before you whip it out and start jacking