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  1. whisky

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    i am 22 yrs old and found this sexy girl, and for the first time in my life I couldn't get a hard-on,I haven't got layed in over a year(wow time flys),but what the hell, I am so embarresed I told her I was to drunk, but I don't think that was the problem, what should I do?
     
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    I cant't have this happen a second time, can a 22 yr old take viagra or something like that?
     
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    It sounds like stress/anxiety. Basically, you need to take some pressure off of yourself. Take some time BEFORE going to bed, and talk, make out, do whatever---let it build naturally, and forget about perfomring. If you don;t try to force yourself to perform, things will happen naturally. Most of all don't worry so much--the more you think about it, and worry about it, the more your dick won;t want to play. Remember, sex is supposed to be fun--lighten up, and just let things happen naturally. :smile:
     
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    Dude, it happens. I'm 20 and I've had that happen to me. Twice. Not with the same girl though. Don't even think about viagra. I've heard it's not exactly safe for young people.
     
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    Relax. Drink some wine with her. Get naked. Kiss. Relax. Kiss some more. Forget about putting it in her. Use your hands all over each other. Make out. Put her hands on it, let her play with it. If it gets hard dont rush. Get up and put it in her mouth. Take your time. When its hard and ready, youll know when, then put it in her. Be sensual with her, shell like it and so will you. Its all about the slow build up, trust me. Once you do it once you wont have problems happen again with her.
     
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    thanks for the advice guys
     
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