It sounds like stress/anxiety. Basically, you need to take some pressure off of yourself. Take some time BEFORE going to bed, and talk, make out, do whatever---let it build naturally, and forget about perfomring. If you don;t try to force yourself to perform, things will happen naturally. Most of all don't worry so much--the more you think about it, and worry about it, the more your dick won;t want to play. Remember, sex is supposed to be fun--lighten up, and just let things happen naturally. :smile: