OH to have such wisdom at nineteen Gecko! All I can say is I’ve been pumping for well over thirty years and have had well over thirty years of fun and pleasure from it. What I do find amazing though, is some of the questions people ask about it, like,
‘If I pump can I still have sex and achieve orgasm?’
There’s a thriving industry out there selling pumps. There are also thousands of guys pumping, none of whom would use anything in the event of whatever spoiling or marring performance. True, if used inappropriately there are dangers, but stick to the guidelines and all should be okay. Research some of the pumping sites and you’ll learn a lot more, like using a pump for masturbating… yes, you can even come in a tube!
Will your dick be softer after pumping? I assume this means an erect dick? Again it’s a matter of understanding the science of pumping. Your erection in its natural state, the Corpus Spungiosum and Corpus Cavanosum engorged with blood, can be, depending on the individual, as hard as a rock. When you pump however, the object of the exercise is to increase the dimensions of your dick which is mad up of more than just the Corpus Spungiosum and Corpus Cavanosum. Other surrounding tissue also becomes pumped and fills with lymph fluid. While the core of your dick is still as hard as ever, the outer layers of tissue inflated with the lymph fluid will give it a slightly sponger feel, but only to the touch. Neither you nor you girlfriend will notice when you’re inside her. She will however, notice how full she is and you will notice how tight. Again neither of you will notice while she is giving you a blow-job, assuming of course she can get her mouth round it!
How long the effects last also requires a bit of understanding. A guy used to pumping will stay pumped longer that someone pumping for the very first time. The reason for this is that your dick becomes ‘conditioned’ to being stretching and will eventually, though over a very long period of pumping, stay larger. As already said, I’ve pumped for over thirty years and now the tips of finger and thumb no longer meet round the girth of my unpumped dick, even if I’ve gone a month or so without pumping.
A guy used to pumping will also pump up faster than someone pumping for the very first time, again due to being conditioned. How long you will stay pumped for as a beginner is relevant to how long your pumping program lasted and how easily your dick accepts being stretched. Ten minuets and you might not even notice anything. However, if you take your time using low pressure and taking breaks say every ten minuets, massaging your dick for a minute or so each time, say over an hour or so, you may find yourself still a little pumped twenty four hours later. Now I can still show signs three to four days after a session - that's if I can wait that long before pumping again.
When it comes to the size of tube and what you can expect as a result? For anyone starting you need a tube no more that a ¼” larger than the diameter of your dick. Any bigger and the result will be painful as you will find your balls being drawn into the tube. As you develop, staying in the tube longer during your pump session will contribute to length gains, but don’t expect miracles over night – they don’t happen!