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I'm going to keep is straight forward. I'm a 23 year old male, virgin.
I went through a long period of time believing that sex should be exclusive to being in a relationship, and as a result turned down various women who wanted something "casual" before I graduated from my university.
Let me clarify I have no issues with talking to women, getting numbers, dates, etc. I'm tall, physically fit and very well-endowed. However, when it comes to dating women, I've always had issues transitioning things into a relationship. The vast majority of the women I went on dates with throughout college always wanted to hook-up, never "date" so to say. As a result I was typically the one to cut things off as friends, never pursuing further.
After a year not going on dates with anyone, I've more or less moved past that mentality for the most part. I'm almost at a point of feeling at ease with my situation.
Since you guys seem to be pretty open-minded about sex related topics, I thought I would ask some questions here.
Does loosing your virginity in a hook-up ruin your perception of sex? In other words, would I have issues transitioning into a potential relationship in the future if I just get used to hook-ups?
Should I be up-front about being a virgin to a potential partner, if the topic comes up?
Will a woman expect me to be good at sex / last long from the get-go due to having a big dick?
Where is a decent place to meet women? I'm obviously not living on a university campus anymore, so just 'hanging out' or 'dating' seems to be a lot different to some extent. My current hobbies are mostly male dominated, so I don't meet too many women outside of work or the bar.
How do you bring up the topic of hooking up without offending the woman? Do women want to hook up as much as they did in college?
I went through a long period of time believing that sex should be exclusive to being in a relationship, and as a result turned down various women who wanted something "casual" before I graduated from my university.
Let me clarify I have no issues with talking to women, getting numbers, dates, etc. I'm tall, physically fit and very well-endowed. However, when it comes to dating women, I've always had issues transitioning things into a relationship. The vast majority of the women I went on dates with throughout college always wanted to hook-up, never "date" so to say. As a result I was typically the one to cut things off as friends, never pursuing further.
After a year not going on dates with anyone, I've more or less moved past that mentality for the most part. I'm almost at a point of feeling at ease with my situation.
Since you guys seem to be pretty open-minded about sex related topics, I thought I would ask some questions here.
Does loosing your virginity in a hook-up ruin your perception of sex? In other words, would I have issues transitioning into a potential relationship in the future if I just get used to hook-ups?
Should I be up-front about being a virgin to a potential partner, if the topic comes up?
Will a woman expect me to be good at sex / last long from the get-go due to having a big dick?
Where is a decent place to meet women? I'm obviously not living on a university campus anymore, so just 'hanging out' or 'dating' seems to be a lot different to some extent. My current hobbies are mostly male dominated, so I don't meet too many women outside of work or the bar.
How do you bring up the topic of hooking up without offending the woman? Do women want to hook up as much as they did in college?