Questions about this whole "squirting" thing

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  1. Penis Aficionado

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    For those of your girls who can/have done this, I am wondering:

    1. Is the squirt simulataneous with, or in fact the same thing as, your orgasm? (Like with guys, where jizzing and having an orgasm really mean the same thing?)

    2. Can you tell when it's about to happen, the way a guy can tell he's about to cum? Or does it just happen out of the blue?

    3. Somewhere on this site, I read someone say they did it as a result of receiving especially good oral sex. But I had always heard it only happened as a result of unusually deep, vigorous penetration. Is it possible to squirt from having someone go down on you?
     
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    I'm sorry, all I can think about is how hot it would be to watch Kotchanski having her clit licked while being fisted.

    What was the question? :tongue2:
     
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    1. Squirting only happens after I've had a few orgasms.

    2. It builds. Before I squirt my vag tightens significantly, my whole lower half is rigid, and there is a deep tingling and almost swollen sensation around my inner labia, below my clitoris and at the urethral opening.

    Sometimes there's like a popping sound and then the fluid, which is clear, kind of thick, and sweet, comes out in one gush. Usually with a little squirt at the end. Nothing like what you see in porn.

    3. Deep fingering, intercourse, and oral with fingering work.
    I've never squirted from oral alone.


    Mmm, +1! :32:
     
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    For me the first time I squirt is almost always by deep finger massage of my G-spot. I can squirt many times and once I have the first one I can have others by penetration as well.

    I usually always know when I'm about to squirt and it is accompanied by fairly intense contractions. A very different kind of feeling than an orgasm by clitoral stimulation (in which I don't squirt).

    The only time I squirt when having oral sex is if I'm using a dildo at the same time. That combination just blows my mind!!

    And just for those who think it is pee...it's not. I always pee just before sex and yet I always squirt a ton of fluid (i.e. two bath towels under me folded over get soaked).

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    My girl squirts if I finger her G whilst tongueing her clit. But she also gushes if she is on top. And when I fuck her hard and deep from behind. But it sets off slightly on her lighter orgasms too. She is just a natural gusher.
     
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    i gush a lot when i'm horny, without even touching myself. clitoral stimulation makes me gush quite a bit. and i've just learned how to squirt about a month ago. for me its never been during an orgasm. i like to do it to get myself even wetter. i love the feeling when i gush or squirt. it isn't really like an orgasm. i can't explain it. and i can tell when its going to happen.

    a couple of years ago i was shoving my vibrator in hard and fast and deep and i squirted REALLY far! i was laying on my bed (the way you would if you were asleep) and it went all the way past the end of my bed, onto the floor! :eek: that time it surprised me. i didn't know it was going to happen.
     
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    uh oh... I always expect competition from men, but not the other team!!!

    ;-)

    per the rest of the thread... i've had it (errr enjoyed it) once just orally first. from what I see/read it's usually finger/toy stimulation... with some oral accompaniement. usually, as pointed out, clitoral and/or g-spot stimulation is in order, and it is softly forceful (if that makes sense), aggressive, but not painful. much of the time, once a female is in the "zone", then the squirting can continue (pending on the person... up to a couple dozen times +) and can be induced more easily throughout the session.

    since the OP is male... my best advice is not to try too hard, and force it to happen. give it an unexpecting go at it... and let us know when/if it happens. it's a pleasant surprise (esp. for her if she never has, or rarely does).

    $.03
     
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    1. The squirt is simultaneous, but of course I orgasm without squirting most of the time. During actual intercourse I squeeze extremely tightly when I orgasm (involuntarily) and if I squeeze my husband out I usually squirt. If he stays in me, I don't. Also, my husband can orgasm without ejaculating, so the ejaculation and orgasm aren't necessarily the same thing for men either. Though, he has been doing body control techniques since he was 10 or so.

    2. I cannot tell when I am going to squirt most of the time. Very infrequently I can feel it a few seconds before it happens. Like sweet ass said, the fluid is sweet, my man says it smells fruity:smile:

    3. Never had it happen from oral. It happens most predictably if he fucks me standing, with him behind me (and with me up against a full length mirror, peferably :wink:) or from fingering with a kind of pulling motion.
     
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    think what you want, but i'm not trying to compete with anyone. :rolleyes:
     
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    Not a competition, just some fun eh? I like to try and get my girl to hit the back wall when we're doing doggy.
     
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    Thanks everybody! The reason I asked is because I wondered if it was possible for a girl to squirt on a guy's face -- which seems like it would be about the greatest thing ever. I didn't think it would be possible because I assumed it required some kind of vigorous penetration, like what Maia described. But I forgot about the mouth/finger combo possibility!
     
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    How much fluid does it usually yield?
     
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    The first time I let go of the fear of peeing and squirted I ruined the bed. He ate me for hours, till I couldn't take anymore and had gushed what seemed like gallons. Then we rested - i drank more water, went pee (my bladder was full even tho I'd been gushing) and we went at it some more. He didn't have a liner on the bed and no towel under me - and a few weeks later it got funky and he had to replace the mattress. I felt bad but he said he'd buy a dozen beds to go through all that squirting heaven again.

    I should call him...
     
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    i think every womans different in the way they are brought to the point of squirting....

    i find fisting does it everytime for me... oh and riding cowgirl can cause me to squirt if the size of the cock is right...

    and no its not urine, i`ve tasted it a so has who ever was in the firing line...

    in regards to squirting past the end of the bed, i think it could be done seen as i`ve hit my foot before... and i`m not short either!! lol
     
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    Other than stimulation of my G-spot, I didn't know that I could do it with vaginal sex. I was with this one guy for the very first time (him standing with my legs around him), and I literally soaked him and the carpet with the first couple of strokes.

    It shocked us both, but we bravely continued. :tongue: I didn't squirt anymore, however, THAT night.
     
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    1. A squirting orgasm for me is totally different from an orgasm I have while rubbing my clit, but they're both orgasms.

    2. I can tell. I can feel it building up. It's like a really pleasurable tingle, it keeps swelling up until eventually - whoosh -. The one time I had squirting orgasms during sex - it eventually was just a rolling effect because it happened one right after the other. It was amazing.

    3. I've never squirted from oral. I don't really like it.
     
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    I wonder what the biological need is for squirting with women? Was it to scare the caveman away?

    BTW, I had soem food poisoning the other day.. and boy was I squirting.. outta both ends!!
     
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