I once considered myself bi during my denial phase in which I actively sought girlfriends for sex but I realized that it was just a stop for me on the way to Gayville so I don't understand what is really feels like to be bi. I have a few questions that I always wondered about bi-guys. Perhaps you can oblige me.. 1. Is the gay part of your life always take a back seat to the straight part? Is this why most bisexual guys I know are married to women - just because it is easier? 2. Is it hard developing friendships with either sex because the sexual attraction always gets in the way of developing any platonic relationship. 3. Is your sexual attraction to each sex remain constant or does it wax and wane? If it does change why does it do so? 4. Have you been bisexual all your life? or have there been periods in your life when you have been exclusively straight or gay? 5. What do you get off on about having sex with a woman that you don't get with a man and visa versa?