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I have a few questions for bottom guys and it's really important for me to hear your *honest* answers:

1. What you think is the ideal penis size?
2. Which one is more important to your length or girth and why?
3. Do you think that bigger is always better? Or you can have even better sex with someone with an average size?
4. Did you ever reached an anal orgasm? If so which position have you tried?
5. What are your best tips for top guys that can help you enjoy sex more?

Thanks :)
 

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I have a few questions for bottom guys and it's really important for me to hear your *honest* answers:

1. What you think is the ideal penis size? 7 inches
2. Which one is more important to your length or girth and why? Girth is more important - for the full feeling and aesthetics
3. Do you think that bigger is always better? Or you can have even better sex with someone with an average size? I’ve had great sex with average size and below. Big turns me on more aesthetically though.
4. Did you ever reached an anal orgasm? If so which position have you tried? I haven’t that I know of but I got fucked recently and had to hold off cumming almost the hole time I was being fucked. Mainly because I didn’t want it to end.
5. What are your best tips for top guys that can help you enjoy sex more? I like seeing my top’s face while he cums in me. And I love a top reaching down to play with my nipples.

Thanks :)
 
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1. 8.5in.+
2. Length.
3. Average can be oK
4. Anal O while in the sling.
5. If the top goes for heavy nip play and rimming, I will open right up.
 

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1. What you think is the ideal penis size? 6.5-7
2. Which one is more important to your length or girth and why? Length to better stimulate the prostate.
3. Do you think that bigger is always better? Or you can have even better sex with someone with an average size? It's more important to know how to use it than how big it is.
4. Did you ever reached an anal orgasm? If so which position have you tried? I have, several times. On my stomach and on my knees with ass in the air.
5. What are your best tips for top guys that can help you enjoy sex more? Take it slow to begin; let it sit inside for a little while, then slowly begin to pump. When you get the signal ( usually the bottom moving with the top) then start to thrust harder, until the bottom is screaming. Then you can pretty much do whatever you want. Enjoy.
 

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[QUOTE="good_guy, post: 17552421, member: 533163
1. What you think is the ideal penis size?
2. Which one is more important to your length or girth and why?
3. Do you think that bigger is always better? Or you can have even better sex with someone with an average size?
4. Did you ever reached an anal orgasm? If so which position have you tried?
5. What are your best tips for top guys that can help you enjoy sex more?
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1. What you think is the ideal penis size? 8.5 to 9 inches
2. Which one is more important to your length or girth and why? Girth! I like to feel his dick stretching me open.
3. Do you think that bigger is always better? Or you can have even better sex with someone with an average size? Bigger isn't always better. My ex was average (6") and one of the best tops I have been with.
4. Did you ever reached an anal orgasm? If so which position have you tried? I've reached an anal orgasm a couple of times. I think I was on my back both times with the top on top of me.
5. What are your best tips for top guys that can help you enjoy sex more? Quit overthinking it! Go out and enjoy sex! It won't be earth-shattering all the time, but if you put too much thought into it all the time, you will never have those moments. There is no wrong way to have sex, just enjoy it and try new things. If you like it, do it again. If you thought is was just okay, maybe try it again later. If you didn't like it, don't do it again.

When my ex and I were breaking up, we tried many different types of fetishes/kinks. I think we had both always wanted to try these things, but we were worried about what the other would have thought. But now that we were breaking up, we went for broke and tried new things. We still trusted each other, which is very important. And our communication with each other got better. We got a lot closer when we went through our breakup, the sex was incredible. We still broke up, but we lost all our inhibitions that was stopping us before. We were able to enjoy it together. Go out and have sex. Enjoy it!
 
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1. What you think is the ideal penis size?

Just bigger then mine, I'm 7, it's a dominate thing

2. Which one is more important to your length or girth and why?

Girth but still bigger then mine
3. Do you think that bigger is always better? Or you can have even better sex with someone with an average size?

Revert to my answer for 1
4. Did you ever reached an anal orgasm? If so which position have you tried?

It was on my stomach and my cock was rubbing the bed.

5. What are your best tips for top guys that can help you enjoy sex more?

Don't be a bitch
 
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1. What you think is the ideal penis size?
Something big enough to hit my prostate but small enough to get down my throat.
2. Which one is more important to your length or girth and why?
Girth. Most of the nerve endings are in the ring.
3. Do you think that bigger is always better? Or you can have even better sex with someone with an average size?
It's not what you've got, it's how you use it that matters.
4. Did you ever reached an anal orgasm? If so which position have you tried?
Yes, often. Most easily in positions with direct prostate stimulation.
5. What are your best tips for top guys that can help you enjoy sex more?
Foreplay is key. Rimming, fingering, teasing with the tip of your cock. Your bottom should be begging you to fuck them before you even try. Go slow at the start and follow your bottom's cues when they are wanting a faster/harder pounding.





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I have a few questions for bottom guys and it's really important for me to hear your *honest* answers:

1. What you think is the ideal penis size?
2. Which one is more important to your length or girth and why?
3. Do you think that bigger is always better? Or you can have even better sex with someone with an average size?
4. Did you ever reached an anal orgasm? If so which position have you tried?
5. What are your best tips for top guys that can help you enjoy sex more?

Thanks :)
1. I don't think there is an ideal size. Obviously with a huge one there is fun to be had in waving it all over the place and slapping it against your face, body and ass. Also trying to get it all the way in, both ass and mouth is gonna be more of a challenge and fun is to be had there too, but in regards to sex, I've had a great time with both large and small.
2. I'd say girth is where it could all go wrong. You can get any length of dick up there but if it's just too wide for your butt to stretch its never gonna work!
3. Basically summarised in point 1, not at all!
4. Plenty of times. I find being on top helps, like cow girl position, also happened for me in missionary. I posted in your other forum in more detail
5. Be adventurous and try new things, but also take care of what youre doing. Don't stick in one or two fingers then just try and shove your whole 7 inches in, it's never gonna work. The more turned on you are, the more relaxed you are, the more open your ass will be. I tend not to use lube that much because sucking a cock whilst the guy works on my ass (eating out/fingering) opens me up enough, and ive lubricated his dick enough it goes in pretty easily and pretty quickly. Also, don't rush it ! Anal isn't always the end goal. There is plenty of fun to be had without having to stick your dick in his ass :)
 

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3. Do you think that bigger is always better? Or you can have even better sex with someone with an average size? Bigger isn't always better. My ex was average (6") and one of the best tops I have been with.

As I've always said about my ex (6" average thickness) --- It isn't the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean.
 

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I have a few questions for bottom guys and it's really important for me to hear your *honest* answers:

1. What you think is the ideal penis size?
anything bigger than 17cm
2. Which one is more important to your length or girth and why?
both are important but i do like the feeling of the stretch from a thick cock
3. Do you think that bigger is always better? Or you can have even better sex with someone with an average size?
bigger is great but the best sex is always between your ears and size is not the end all to be all
4. Did you ever reached an anal orgasm? If so which position have you tried?
hell yes! which position haven't i had an orgasm in? my ass is directly wired to orgasm.
5. What are your best tips for top guys that can help you enjoy sex more?
foreplay, foreplay and a little more foreplay! any top worth his salt will already know to listen and be patient, taking his queues from the bottom and not bullying his way in.

Thanks :)
 
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1. What you think is the ideal penis size? 6-12" lol depends on my mood really. Do I want a big one today or do I want average today. If I had to choose one I'd say 7" because it seems to hit my prostate just right.
2. Which one is more important to your length or girth and why? Girth, I personally like the feeling of being stretched. Length is tricky, too long and it's painful, too short and it doesn't hit your prostate.
3. Do you think that bigger is always better? Or you can have even better sex with someone with an average size? I have had amazing sex with big and average. I think big is more psychological as a bottom. I go to that "OMG he's going to put that inside me " place in my head and the stretching full feeling is unique to a big guy. But....it's much more time consuming to prepare and more difficult to have marathon sessions or multiple sessions. Being in a relationship with a big guy seems like it would be difficult for the bottom to keep him satisfied because you would be exhausted and have longer recovery periods. Average guys seem to have no inhibitions to fuck hard and long and there are more comfortable positions. Both are good in their own way.
4. Did you ever reached an anal orgasm? If so which position have you tried? Nope, I always feel the urge to urinate if my prostate is overly stimulated and if my prostate is rubbed and rubbed and rubbed continously it actually doesn't feel good and makes it more difficult for me to orgasam. Hope it happens one day though.
5. What are your best tips for top guys that can help you enjoy sex more?
Listen to your bottoms verbal and body language cues.
If he says harder then fuck him harder.
If he tells you what positions he likes and you don't like that position then be nice and do it anyways for awhile.
Bottom yourself for heavens sake. Even if you don't think it's your thing. Try it and you'll know how it feels for yourself. The best Tops I've had have bottomed before.
It's an ass, it needs to be warmed up stick your tongue in it. Lube it. Don't just jam your dick in unless specifically requested cuz that's not nice and hurts.

Change it up, positions, speed.
Kiss me, rub my stomach, back, ass. Love being touched and grabbed.
You're the Top. Take control. Tell me what to do.
Finally no means no. If I don't want to lie on my stomach and be fucked I mean it! Lol
Cheers!
 
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1. Size: 7 inches
2. Girth: long the feeling of my hole stretched
3. I’m very happy with average
4. Anal orgasm: no
5. Plenty lube or spit, mix up positions, let yourself go & enjoy it
 
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1. What you think is the ideal penis size?
If pounding hard, then thick enough to not be pokey (thin cocks stab a bit), and long enough to make me gasp (7+). Really long is a bit painful after, but an experience.

Though I had smaller a smaller guy who knew how to rub it just right and that was awesome too.

2. Which one is more important to your length or girth and why?
Both. Under a certain girth and I don't feel full enough. Too short and it feels like it's not really going in far.

3. Do you think that bigger is always better? Or you can have even better sex with someone with an average size?
As above. I love it big, but average size used well can be awesome. The person attached to it matters too ;).

4. Did you ever reached an anal orgasm? If so which position have you tried?
Yes. Can't remember the position. But I've been taken myself to orgasm through just touching skin, nipples and other sensitive spots, so not that surprised I can get there from anal.

5. What are your best tips for top guys that can help you enjoy sex more?
Tops that poke and go for it too fast leave the bottom's ass more in shock than orgasm. Start slow and foreplay to get their ass properly relaxed, stretched open and ready first. If they aren't comfortable first up when you try then use some patience and get them ready more.

If you let the bottom adjust a bit to your size first then each stroke will rub them the right way and you have more chance of a real orgasm than groaning from awkward feelings. It also allows longer sessions where the bottom keeps wanting more. Plus they'll be just as tight and you can go just as hard when they are ready.
 
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1. I'm not sure if you mean best size all around, or for receiving anal? For me it'd have to be 5 to 6 inches and on the thin side because I'm rather tight. As in, if you inserted a lump of coal you'd have a diamond in under a minute.

2. A good balance of the two. Maybe a noncommittal answer, but that's how I feel on those.

3. For me, it'd be average or smaller anally; average or larger orally.

4. I have, using a plug.

5. Copious amounts of lube and patience.

Hope this helps!:)
 

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I have a few questions for bottom guys and it's really important for me to hear your *honest* answers:

1. What you think is the ideal penis size?
2. Which one is more important to your length or girth and why?
3. Do you think that bigger is always better? Or you can have even better sex with someone with an average size?
4. Did you ever reached an anal orgasm? If so which position have you tried?
5. What are your best tips for top guys that can help you enjoy sex more?

Thanks :)
Size varies for me. I’ve had guys who are 11inches inside me who didn’t know what they were doing and 6 inch guys that were incredible and hit every spot. Personally, I feel length is more important because I want his dick to hit me deeper and not stretch me out sideways. I was with one guy who’s cock was extremely thick and stubby and it was awful.

I have never had an anal orgasm, but he’s hit my g-spot to the point where I feel my dick is about to explode so I jerk off and it ends up being an intense orgasm. I was on my back while he was pounding away with my legs in the air. Sorry I’m so shit at knowing the official names of the positions lol.

I would say my tip for tops would be to listen to the bottom and work with them rather than against them. Yes, tops like the idea of dominating the bottom and having their wicked way with them. However, if the bottom isn’t enjoying it then what’s the point? Sex is about mutual enjoyment. Also, certain positions work for some bottoms that don’t work for others. It’s not a one size fits all situation. And lastly! Help the bottom cum too. If the bottom has to take the pummelling and jerk themselves off at the same time it’s exhausting and awkward. I’ve always enjoyed it when tops jerk me off while fucking , but maybe that’s just me?
 
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I have a few questions for bottom guys and it's really important for me to hear your *honest* answers:

1. What you think is the ideal penis size?

Between 7 & 8

2. Which one is more important to your length or girth and why?

Girth, I have been fucked by guys with average girth, and while I feel their cock I feel there is actually room for thicker that I can accommodate naturally.

3. Do you think that bigger is always better? Or you can have even better sex with someone with an average size?

Bigger is not always better, it’s technical too.

4. Did you ever reached an anal orgasm? If so which position have you tried?

Yes, on my stomach.

5. What are your best tips for top guys that can help you enjoy sex more?

for me I like it hard, a bit rough.




Thanks :)
 

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I have a few questions for bottom guys and it's really important for me to hear your *honest* answers:

1. What you think is the ideal penis size?
2. Which one is more important to your length or girth and why?
3. Do you think that bigger is always better? Or you can have even better sex with someone with an average size?
4. Did you ever reached an anal orgasm? If so which position have you tried?
5. What are your best tips for top guys that can help you enjoy sex more?

Thanks :)

1. Ideal size for me is a girthy 7 to 8 inches
2. Girth is more important. The sensation of being stretched is the most pleasurable part.
3. Not always better. Truly depends on the individual. I do think that bigger guys have it easier to provide a pleasurable experience than those that are less endowed.
4. I've reached anal orgasm in a few positions. Missionary, Doggie style, and while riding. The common denominator is that they were all girthy.
5. The best advice is to be patient and foreplay helps a lot.
 

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I have a few questions for bottom guys and it's really important for me to hear your *honest* answers:

1. What you think is the ideal penis size?
2. Which one is more important to your length or girth and why?
3. Do you think that bigger is always better? Or you can have even better sex with someone with an average size?
4. Did you ever reached an anal orgasm? If so which position have you tried?
5. What are your best tips for top guys that can help you enjoy sex more?

Thanks :)
1. 8" to 9" Those sizes hit that spot for me that makes my cock drip like crazy. Do it enough and it will make me cum without touching myself.
2. GIRTH! I love the feeling of it stretching me as I'm being fucked.
3. Some of the best sex I've ever had was with my ex who was on the smaller side of average. But he knew how to work my hole with his dick! He also shot the biggest loads I have ever seen. Sometimes great things come in small packages!
4. Yes, the best position for me is either laying on my side with the top sliding into me from behind. Or me being on my back with the my legs up also works.
5. Work that hole more! Rim it and use your fingers, get it open and lube it up before using your dick. My ex used to love to stick a finger or two in while he was fucking me. He would also run his finger around the hole. Incredible feeling!
 
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I have a few questions for bottom guys and it's really important for me to hear your *honest* answers:

1. What you think is the ideal penis size?
2. Which one is more important to your length or girth and why?
3. Do you think that bigger is always better? Or you can have even better sex with someone with an average size?
4. Did you ever reached an anal orgasm? If so which position have you tried?
5. What are your best tips for top guys that can help you enjoy sex more?

Thanks :)
The ideal penis size is the size that on the guy about to fuck me. How well hung are you doesn't enter into conversation, its if you like the guy enough to want him to fuck you regardless.
As long as I can feel the cock entering my anal cavities, as long as it feel sensuous then thickness and length don't matter.
I have had remarkable fucks from all sizes. Small pencil shapes to horse hung. Main thing is for the guy to remain hard, pumping and able to fill my cavity with cum.
I experience an anal orgasm, or an orgasm caused by being fucked, hands free 90% of the time
Positions vary from sitting on a guy and riding his cock to taking him extra deep doggy.
Guys, take it easy and don't let size be the reason for fucking just to prove something - take it slow, foreplay and dont be over eager, but for good sex enjoy the person.