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I am just wondering, for the straight guys in here that wear tight pants and go commando and have an obvious VPL down one leg.....how do people react? Do you get mostly positive comments and stare or do you get mostly lots of laughter? If so how do you handle the laughter? And what do you say if someone tells you it's obscene or they don't wanna see it or that you should wear underwear?

I ask because I am trying to get into this and so far I have caught 2 different groups of guys laughing pretty hard and want to know how you guys handle that.
 

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I never get any sort of reaction hahaha
I would imagine you don't say anything about the laughter, I mean, what are you gonna do ask them if they're laughing at your cock and why? hahaha
 

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I am just wondering, for the straight guys in here that wear tight pants and go commando and have an obvious VPL down one leg.....how do people react? Do you get mostly positive comments and stare or do you get mostly lots of laughter? If so how do you handle the laughter? And what do you say if someone tells you it's obscene or they don't wanna see it or that you should wear underware

I freeball all all the time, and get a TON of stares from both men and women (the ladies are WAY more subtle about it), and even I would classify my bulge as "obscene". I've only every had comments (all positive) at the gay bars. I have never once had anyone actually say something to me about it on the street, but you can tell exactly what they are thinking by the look on their faces.


My advice: go commando all you want; if they don't want to see it, they shouldn't be staring at guys' junk.
 

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I am just wondering, for the straight guys in here that wear tight pants and go commando and have an obvious VPL down one leg.....how do people react?
Don't know why you referenced straight guys here when the VPL appearance from freeballing is the same regardless of sexual orientation.

Anyway, I freeball or wear boxers all the time, and my dick points down and to the right. No other underwear options. My dick shows in my pants, but a lot more in gym shorts and track pants. The reactions that I get are usually just a glance and sometimes a double take. "Yes Martha, that IS the guy's dick that you're looking at!" There have been a few outright stares when I've worn light colored gym shorts as you can't miss the detail of the knob and the shaft unless you're blind. No one has ever said anything to me about it, and no one has ever laughed.

My advice is to wear what you like. If anyone gives you crap or laughs, you can always ask why they're looking at your crotch. I'd just ignore them and go on with what I'm doing.
 
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Thanks guys! Spen you have never noticed any guys laughing at you?

I have had people point and laugh (usually young twink guys who lack maturity), but I just laugh back, smug knowing that it's a problem they would love to have
 

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What do you guys do in these situations when you get a hard on and your obvious bulge becomes super super obvious....are people's reactions any different? Do they still never say anything?
 

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If any ever noticed me with VPL, no one ever told me except for my wife. However, I don't make a point of trying to show it, either.
 

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What do you guys do in these situations when you get a hard on and your obvious bulge becomes super super obvious....are people's reactions any different? Do they still never say anything?
Good question. It's happened to me on a few occasions. When I'm not at work, I usually wear lightweight gym shorts, and I always wear boxers. When I go to Costco, Home Depot, etc. I never park close to the front because I don't want my car to get dings or scratches. As I walk across the parking lot, sometimes I'll feel the fabric rubbing back and forth over the head of my dick while I'm walking. Often it will produce a semi and I'll keep walking. There have been a few times where I'll get a full on boner that tents the right side of my shorts. It's kinda awkward, somewhat painful, and very exciting at the same time. Occasionally I'll stop walking for a moment and play with my phone or something until Junior calms down. If I'm wearing sunglasses, I'm more bold and will keep walking. I've noticed people looking, but no one has ever said anything to me. It always amuses me when I see another dude with a boner. We're guys, and it happens frequently.
 

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Good question. It's happened to me on a few occasions. When I'm not at work, I usually wear lightweight gym shorts, and I always wear boxers. When I go to Costco, Home Depot, etc. I never park close to the front because I don't want my car to get dings or scratches. As I walk across the parking lot, sometimes I'll feel the fabric rubbing back and forth over the head of my dick while I'm walking. Often it will produce a semi and I'll keep walking. There have been a few times where I'll get a full on boner that tents the right side of my shorts. It's kinda awkward, somewhat painful, and very exciting at the same time. Occasionally I'll stop walking for a moment and play with my phone or something until Junior calms down. If I'm wearing sunglasses, I'm more bold and will keep walking. I've noticed people looking, but no one has ever said anything to me. It always amuses me when I see another dude with a boner. We're guys, and it happens frequently.

Thanks for the advice. So in tight jeans if I had a semi snaking its way down my leg I could just keep walking and safe to say nobody would point it out to me or laugh?
 

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I get lots of stares from women (and men) at work and in public. I've never heard anyone laugh.

I don't have to be wearing tight pants to get a visible VPL. People that have been around me long enough know that I show pretty often.

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Thanks for the advice. So in tight jeans if I had a semi snaking its way down my leg I could just keep walking and safe to say nobody would point it out to me or laugh?
No, there are no guarantees in life. From your first entry above, it has already happened to you, and could potentially happen again. My experience is that people have looked and stared, but no on has ever said anything to me or laughed. It could happen though.

Are you new to freeballing / commando? If so, it may take you some time to feel comfortable in public knowing that your dick shows through your pants. I was self-conscious for the first month after I quit wearing briefs. You reach a point where you feel fine wearing what you're wearing and don't care what other people think. As long as you keep it cool at work, it shouldn't matter.
 

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No, there are no guarantees in life. From your first entry above, it has already happened to you, and could potentially happen again. My experience is that people have looked and stared, but no on has ever said anything to me or laughed. It could happen though.

Are you new to freeballing / commando? If so, it may take you some time to feel comfortable in public knowing that your dick shows through your pants. I was self-conscious for the first month after I quit wearing briefs. You reach a point where you feel fine wearing what you're wearing and don't care what other people think. As long as you keep it cool at work, it shouldn't matter.

Thanks man that really helps and your right I'm new to it and was pretty self conscious at first but I am not as much now but I asked because it shows way more in my jeans than in my shorts, if I was to get hard you would see a super obvious snake down the leg and your right someone could say something but from the responses I'm getting, it seems like its rare for somebody to say something negative no matter how super obvious it is.