Questions for guys who are married or in a long term relationship

[deleted973387]

I have heard a lot recently maybe cause I am at that settling down age of guys saying the sex stops or slows down when you are married or with a girl a longtime. Just wondering if this is true?
- How old are you?
- how long have you been with your wife or gf?
- how many times a week do you have sex?
-do you still jerk off?
-what you do to keep the sex life going?

 

[GBF64]

- How old are you? 51
- how long have you been with your wife or gf? Married a little over two months now. Together for three years.
- how many times a week do you have sex? Two or three times.
-do you still jerk off? Yes. Once per day.
-what you do to keep the sex life going? Pray that when she comes home from work she's not too tired /bad mood so I can convince her that she'd feel better if she has a couple of orgasms.

 

[Nosuportneeded]

It is generally true, but it doesn't have to be. So many factors. It will be hard to gain any insight with the questions you are asking.

 

[7x525]

been in 10 LTR. 9 were like that. the last is my current wife. weve been together four years and rarely miss doing it daily and sometimes twice. im 55 shes 48. were both nymphos for esch other and it hasnt chsnged at all in the 4 years. for me this id unique and i love it. it takes two matching high libidos to sustain it

 

[lapdog2001]

I have heard a lot recently maybe cause I am at that settling down age of guys saying the sex stops or slows down when you are married or with a girl a longtime. Just wondering if this is true?
- How old are you?
- how long have you been with your wife or gf?
- how many times a week do you have sex?
-do you still jerk off?
-what you do to keep the sex life going?

We're both in our 50's, and we've been together almost 10 years.
We usually have sex 2-3 time a week, and I rarely jerk off anymore.
To keep things going? We are intimate in many ways, multiple times a day, every day. hand holding, kissing, groping/caressing, positive comments, saying I love you, etc. Sexually? We really haven't had to 'spice things up' yet!

 

[paraguy]

- How old are you?
34

- how long have you been with your wife or gf?
Wife- almost 14 years
Girlfriend- 7 years

- how many times a week do you have sex?
Wife- 3 on average (sometimes more, rarely less)
Girlfriend- same as wife

-do you still jerk off?
Yes

-what you do to keep the sex life going?
Pay attention to moods, different approaches for different times. Staying involved but also allowing for different interests so that we aren't spending all of our time together.

 

[Trott.lint]

- How old are you? 40s
- how long have you been with your wife or gf? 20 years
- how many times a week do you have sex? 3
-do you still jerk off? 3/4 times a week
-what you do to keep the sex life going? Sex toys, fantasy, role play

PS: I've had to drag my partner with me. She's not highly sexed & would happily do 5 minutes of vanilla once a week. I'm insistent however that we keep it saucy, kinky & vibrant. I don't want to get old & regret a thing.

 

[MuscleBoundMan]

I have heard a lot recently maybe cause I am at that settling down age of guys saying the sex stops or slows down when you are married or with a girl a longtime. Just wondering if this is true?
- How old are you? 51
- how long have you been with your wife or gf? together 30 married 10
- how many times a week do you have sex? 3 or 4
-do you still jerk off? everyday
-what you do to keep the sex life going?

Anything and everything. we use toys we experiment. we watch porn and we have agreed to an open marriage where we have other partners as long as they are not emotionally attaching. i like escorts but she just has to find dudes that are single and attractive to her.

i think 90% of the time it slows down between any two peeps around 18 months into it. it's just the new wears off, but other than that it hasn't ever slowed down, and if it stopped there would have to be a damn good reason

 

[CarpeD1em]

- How old are you? 25 she is 24
- how long have you been with your wife or gf? 7 years (high school sweetheart) we did spend a little under a year apart
- how many times a week do you have sex? 4 times maybe a quicky
-do you still jerk off? No not really
-what you do to keep the sex life going? I truly love her and really love having sex with her we just click and its been that way since day 1

 

[cloverleaf]

Age 38
Married 15 years
Sex 4 times a week, 3 minimum
Jerk - yes about every day I don't have sex
Sex is truly awesome. Vigorous and fun. I love her pussy and she likes my dick. It so works.

 

[1958ST]

57 age, married over 35 yrs, now about 2 times a week though it has been quite a bit more (the rest of what is doing on in our lives makes frequency),occasionally jack off but usually save it up for her...all of the above ideas of keeping it going but it all comes down to caring about her and loving her...we show that to each other in many ways, but sex is one of them as we say then we are literally connected..

 

[deleted973387]

Thanks for sharing guys. It seems to me you get out what you put into the relationship. It's interesting when your growing up you just assume we grow out of jerking off when you marry or settle down etc but it seems we never do, cause most guys are still jerking daily.

 

[Trott.lint]

Thanks for sharing guys. It seems to me you get out what you put into the relationship. It's interesting when your growing up you just assume we grow out of jerking off when you marry or settle down etc but it seems we never do, cause most guys are still jerking daily.

Yeah, the funny thing about that is that I've never felt more horny than I do now. I remember as a teen jacking off 5 times a day, my record, but it came easily but there was no real biological imperative behind it. Now I can jack off 4 times a day max, and although it's not easy, it's more urgent & meaningful because I fantasize about my girlfriend.

 

[Jeff Powers]

-Wife and I are both 42 years old
-Been married to each other for almost 20 yrs
-Sex is usually 2x per week; our jobs are stressful and we are tired so we have a quick one during the week, then a very long, intense, marathon session on the weekend

-jerk occasionally, but not much
-To keep it going, we just love each other, still go on dates, have fun, give each other space, and genuinely appreciate each other

 

[Ed69]

Thanks for sharing guys. It seems to me you get out what you put into the relationship. It's interesting when your growing up you just assume we grow out of jerking off when you marry or settle down etc but it seems we never do, cause most guys are still jerking daily.

So you still have not filled out that blank profile(look to the left on your screen).Why should we share when you won't?

 

[drambone2001]

been in 10 LTR. 9 were like that. the last is my current wife. weve been together four years and rarely miss doing it daily and sometimes twice. im 55 shes 48. were both nymphos for esch other and it hasnt chsnged at all in the 4 years. for me this id unique and i love it. it takes two matching high libidos to sustain it

Hot. Good for you two!

 

[drambone2001]

- How old are you? 33
- how long have you been with your wife or gf? 13 years married 12 years
- how many times a week do you have sex? 2-3 times
-do you still jerk off? Yes about ever other day
-what you do to keep the sex life going? My love of her and sex with he... focusing on staying in love with her and not just loving her. The sex getting better year after year helps as well!

JO every other day, huh, hot!

 

[Docdon]

How old are you? 66
- how long have you been with your wife or gf? 36 years
- how many times a week do you have sex? once
-do you still jerk off? yes
-what you do to keep the sex life going? sex is better now than ever--our kids are grown up and gone--time when kids were growing up were rough sexually

 

[paskharen]

How old are you? 28
- how long have you been with your wife or gf? 6 years
- how many times a week do you have sex? 7-10
-do you still jerk off? yes,once a day
-what you do to keep the sex life going? My biggest kink is making my girl come more then once, usually try for 4-5 times at least. Seeing as the best of her previous guys managed to make her come like 4-5 times max thru out their whole relationships she likes to have sex a lot. And I'm hardly gonna complain