questions for hung guys who've been in threesomes...?

[averagepeck]

A few questions I was curious about?

1) Have you ever been involved in a MMF/MFM 3some and was shocked to find that the other guy was bigger than you?

2)If you were the bigger guy,did the female pay considerably more attention to your cock than the other smaller guy?

3)Have you ever been in a situation were the supposed 'straight' guy became aroused by the sight of your cock,and wanted to engage it sexually in some form?

 

[thirdlegmeat]

I actually had a MMF 3-some with my best friend while we were vacationing in Cabo San Lucas. Here's the answers to your questions:

1) I was the bigger guy

2) The female did tend to pay more attention to my cock as far as oral and handjobs went. She seemed to "play" with it more. However, the most telling part was her actual language, as she was drunk and not necessarily concerned about anyone's feelings. When she blew my friend, she could take his entire dick in her mouth without much struggle. However, when she started blowing me, she repeatedly made vocal comments about how large I was and that she couldn't take it all. When she left the next morning, she actually came up to me, with my friend a few feet away, and apologized for now being able to "handle" my cock better. Obviously my friend new the implications of these comments, since she reserved them soley for me.
(He's a very mature guy though and seemed cool about the whole thing. BTW)

3) No, my friend didn't get aroused at the site of my dick, although he stared at it quite a bit (curiosity). No, I wasn't aroused by his dick, though I definately got a good look to see if I was larger, and then later, how much larger I was.

 

[averagepeck]

What's your size compared to his ,thirdleg?

Reason I'm asking this question is because my GF and I have discussed recently have a 4some with a married swinger couple that she had 3somes with when she was single.The guy is supposed to be incredibly well endowed.She estimates at least 12".While we know women tend to exaggerate often these things,my Gf is a nurse and has had several partners prior to me.In other words,she's seen her share of cocks of all sizes,and this guy is the one she repeatedly brings up because he's such an anomoly to her.

I'm 7.5 by 5.5,and although I in no way feel small,I have to wonder how my male ego and psyche would handle seeing a guy who possibly dwarfs me if we go ahead with this.More importantly,I'm worried about looking 'inferior' to him in front of my GF.I know he's bigger,she knows it,but seeing the 2 dicks side by side is the fear I have,looking like a shrimp to him.May seem like a silly hangup,but it is a concern nevertheless.

Women feel free to chip in too,for those of you who have been the F in the MMF.DId you find yourself instinctively paying far more attention to the hung guy then the smaller guy?Did the smaller one get jealous?

 

[2Bo]

Maybe it's just me; but in your response I hear not much (nothing?) about the GF of the other couple.

Also; you haven't filled in your preference in your profile, which makes answering your question harder.

If I look at the data you've given until now this 4some is something that was instigated by your GF (mainly) because of this other guys male organ.

But what's in it for you ? Or even better; for the both, or all 4 of you ?

A 3/4some (or X-some for that matter) is very tempting, but if the 4 of you dive into it without a certain portion of mutual assurance and trust it might not be the big fun you all thought it would've been.

I've declined to several 3-4 somes in the past; those invitations came because of information about my size and stamina that had 'leaked' out into the 'open'.

 

[2Bo]

{added because of the above wasn't editable any more}

Because their relation was just too unstable, and I didn't want to participate in sinking the ship called 'their relation'; avoiding that some of them could later lay the blame outside their relation. ie: me

 

[Bonanza65]

i have been in 3somes and couple situation many times. I have been the larger in girth but in length there have been lots of guys larger than my 9"

but if i am the guest in the 3some, then both guy and girl are aroused. though some guys dont want to be perceived as gay or bi, so hides it, but when I am deep in her thrusting fast, i can see him masturbating heavily. which is the big picture of humans, its natural. all guys like seeing penetration. so a guy cant say he doesnt like seeing the dick if he likes watching penetration.

some of have touched it in the double penetration situation but mainly the girl loves it. as couples we both experience the same

 

[thirdlegmeat]

AveragePeck,

My size is a legitimate 8.5" length and ~5.5" girth (harder to measure w/ consistency).

My friend was definately in the average range (which BTW you're NOT average LOL). I would guess around 5.5" length, but decent girth.
Anyway, I was noticeably larger.

As far as your situation, I know that I personally would not want to be in a scenario where my 8.5" was dwarfed by a 12" freak-of-nature. I consider myself to be confident and mature, but that's just asking for trouble. It's the equivalent of being a successful, attractive guy who makes a healthy 500K/yr income and trying to compete with Brad Pitt. You're the big fish right now. Do you really want to test your luck with such an anomally?

 

[Lomaxx99]

Yes, It is not a stroke for my ego but the woman in my threesome did pay more attention to mine than the other guy.I was longer and thicker than him. The ironic thing was she could barely take me all the way in. She must have been a sadist because she said ouch quite a bit when I entered her. I asked her if she was OK, she said there was no problem. Women can be so strange about that.

 

[Lex]

I have been in MFM threesomes with quite a few buds, only one of whom was bigger than I am. I have also had some cuckolding experiences with couples.

I did not notice (in the MFM instances with friends) that the woman paid me any more of less attention than the other guy(s) based on our relative size differences. The cuckolding instances were different as te couples were actively seeking a make who had a larger penis than the husband/boyfriend.

Engage can mean a lot of things: I have had a guy want to lay his cock on topo of mine to look at the size difference (cuckolding), have had a guy want to suck my cock (not a buddy), and have had friends for whom the entire scene (MFM) was arousing enough as it is a pronographic staple.

It all sort of goes back to being comfortable with yourself and your body. If you are, then I think you are able to have fun regardless of wat anyone else in the bed is packing (or not).

 

[D_alex8]

a pronographic staple.

And I always thought that was the metal thing pierced through the tits and pussy of the centrefold in Playboy each month.

 

[B_IanTheTall]

I have been the larger, thicker and taller guy in every coupling, 3-some, 4-some and more-some combination, but one. As far as her or bottom paying more attention to me than the other guy(s) has happened, at times. I think it has happened more when I joined a couple. I have noticed that with repeat encounters with a couple the attention became more balanced, making me think the extra attention was because I was new.

In the encounters with the guy (now friend) that is as thick as me and longer, he got a LOT more attention then me, since he and I are bi, so he had two people paying attention to him. Even with him the attention balanced out after a few encounters.

The first few times that I was in a 3-some, I was just too happy to have sex that I didn't care if I was bigger than him, which I had known from jacking off to porn with him. Yea that's right, the first time I got more than a hand job or some limited oral, from a woman, was in a 3-some.

Some of the "straight" guy did get curious and others got much more than curious, but that was usually later, without her being present. But these transitions from "straightness" have been limited. Many of the straight guys very obviously watched me fucking their girlfriend/wife.

BTW I've seen lots of penises and at 7.5" you are at least a good inch over the average and most likely 2 inches.

 

[B_IanTheTall]

The cuckolding instances were different as te couples were actively seeking a make who had a larger penis than the husband/boyfriend.

I've had offers for such 3-ways and if I knew, in advance, I always turned them down. If I found out that was what they wanted, once in the situation, I focused entirely on the woman. Got done "doing" her quickly and left. Cuckolding has always been a turn off, I think it goes back to when I was in school and got teased because I matured so early and have a "donkey dick."

 

[Lordpendragon]

Averagepeck - I think the issue here is that she wants to get hold of that enormous cock again. This is different from having an encounter and the guy turns out to have a very large cock or your partner having a desire to know what a really big cock is like. How would you expect her to feel if you told her that one of your ex's had really great tits and a pneumatic pussy and you thought a threesome would be a good idea?

My one and only experience of an MMFF was actually stopped by my partner - the other guy had no issues.

 

[FrankPipeliner]

averagepeck, if the motive for the 3or4some is be with a hung guy then that's who will receive the lion share of the attention, be it verbal, physical or both. if both partners are there for the big cock then likely both will be aroused by it altho some cuckolds don't get it up for love nor money.

you might want to see if your gf would be interested in sharing sex with another couple where there is no serious size advantage among the men. if she is then it may be a scene to explore. if not then take caution in going there...its a slippery slope my friend. take it from an experienced if not semi retired 3some-ologist.

 

[averagepeck]

Thank you all for your advice.Frankpipeliner,would you mind explaining why exactly it's a slippery slope?

 

[Latiszari]

I did threesomes, and actually i noticed that when i was the bigger guy, the girl was more focused on me than on the other guy. I am a 7,5 x 6, and then not all allways i am bigger. So it's happened to be the "number two" on the trio too. However, on a threesome or on group's sex too manies things are determined by the rules. If you act as the "submissive" one on the trio, doesn't mind that much the measure of your cock.

 

[FrankPipeliner]

averagepeck, i read that your gf was initiating this 4some, that she may have been with this particular guy before and talks of him occassionally if not often. you, on the other hand, have concerns about being the smaller guy, being dwarfed and/or compared to the big fella.
by slippery slope, i mean it seems to me your girl has a thing for big cocks or at least for this particular guys big one. if i'm right, don't think you are going to appease her by a one time 4some with the other couple. i suspect it'd become a regular thing - 4some, 3some whatever so long as he's there and maybe she'd want to find other big guys too. is that what you want???? you didn't sound like it was your thing...you can't have hang ups about your size if you're gonna do this or you could end up the cuckold....message me privately if this is not clear.

 

[pexman]

I agree 100%. Don't set urself up, dude, and just by u expressing that u have some doubt means that it could turn out to be a tough blow to ur ego, especially if ur gf's reaction to the other dude's cock because of its size, is a very very positive one, which could be very spontaneous and somewhat unconscious/uncontrollable for her.

Before I was married I never saw myself getting into more than one partner because of the competition factor. Again, I probably would have been the bigger man most of the time, but to me it wasn't worth risking a blow to my self-esteem for that.

 

[pexman]

Want to clarify--even after I've been married I've no desire to have an ancounter with anyone other than my wife--I am a strict monogamist and take my marriage vows very seriously.

 

[playainda336]

What's the diff. between MMF and MFM?