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So this question... I have to ask because I have struggled with this situation in the past...

Would you ever be in a relationship with a top that did not suck your dick?

I have found that there are quite a few tops out there that simply do not do it...

Personally, if its just a hookup, its not a big deal... but I've met guys and we've proceeded into more LTR type material... and when I discover this... its a deal breaker for me...

What do you think? Would you be with a BF that did not reciprocate oral sex? And what about rimming? For me that is kind of a deal breaker too... I enjoy rimming even as a bottom, so I feel that both partners should reciprocate that...

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im mostly top, i like sucking, my last bf was bottom, and he was not comfortable with me sucking his dick
 

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im mostly top, i like sucking, my last bf was bottom, and he was not comfortable with me sucking his dick

Really?! That is so bizarre... I mean... as a bottom I never "expect" my hookup to do it... but if I am in something more long term or serious... I sure expect it...
 

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Its not a deal breaker for me. I don't care if he wants my dick, really. . Its my ass he'd be after anyway. I dunno. . . If you really love someone, you try things. . however, if you love someone you don't force them to do things they do not like, or are against their nature.

My take.

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Erm.....

I suppose I could go without the rimming. I can understand people being averse to putting their mouths on buttholes.

Not being into oral would kind of weird me out though.
 

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I would rather be orally pleased via rimming than getting head. I can jack my own dick to completion, so the "getting head" is overrated to me.
 

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I don't really care to be rimmed, and other than having my balls sucked (And again, ONLY if he is into that), I don't really need any oral service. I'm there to get FUCKED, and FUCKED ALONE. I get SO MUCH MORE pleasure from getting my ass fucked once than a hundred BJ's.

Craig
 

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My BF is a top and doesn't like to do it, I've never really cared because it doesn't do much for me. But I am sure if I asked he would do it irregardless. But like the others said, id much rather be boinked anyway, or try to top him every once in a while.
 

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Well this is so weird... lol.
I mean for a hookup its w/e... but for a LTR... I think he needs to be as down as I am for oral... haha
 

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I would only be in a relationship with somone who respected and cared for me enough to like/love all of me (INCLUDING MY DICK). You should not be relegated to a piece of ass that is used to get a top off. They are dating the whole person, not just the butt. If that is too hard for them to handle then they should invest or a fleshjack.
 

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I would only be in a relationship with somone who respected and cared for me enough to like/love all of me (INCLUDING MY DICK). You should not be relegated to a piece of ass that is used to get a top off. They are dating the whole person, not just the butt. If that is too hard for them to handle then they should invest or a fleshjack.

Amen.
 

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My ex was a top in every sense of the word.....
Generally when he was drunk, he's blow me. It was rare, and not his favorite thing, but I know that meant he loved me. To him, it was a token of appreciation or his humble representation of "sacrifice."
 

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As a bottom i don't care about any pleasure from my cock..!!!!
my bf is 100% top, and it is more exciting for me to stay
like that ,,one dick and one ass.

About rimming he do it occssionaly and i like it.