Questions for "Non-Anal" Gay Guys

[dad4you]

For guys that don't like fucking, try this and let me know what you think.....

Have your partner lie down (either face up or face down -- I prefer him face up) with his legs together. Put a folded towel under his thighs. Then pour baby oil on your dick and some between his thighs and lie on top of him fucking him between his slippery thighs without a condom (none needed) and let me know what you think. Some of you are going to be blown away. I've turned on a LOT of guys to this (intercrural sex).

This is also called Frottage or Grinding..

 

[thetramp]

I think it might have something to do with birth control, or it might just be a desire to recreate one's favorite porn scene.

USATODAY.com - Study: Abstinence pledges may trigger risky sexual behavior

i actually find it pretty funny, Bill Maher had a bid about it too, there are actually girls out there saying i save my virginity for mr. right please fuck me up the ass

 

[FRE]

Anal Sex! Forget about it. It's enough I have to deal with it when my doctor uses his two fat fingers on me every year when I get my annual check-up. No fun

I feel the same way.

Several guys I know died of AIDS and I know guys who are HIV+. Probably at least part of the reason I'm HIV- is that I never liked anal sex.

When I was younger, anal sex was not popular and no one ever asked, "Top or bottom?" To me, that question implies an assumption that everyone is into anal sex.

Since Tuesday, I've had a somewhat sore throat and am afraid that it could be the result of an STD. The culture from Friday is not yet back from the lab and I'm not sure whether the culture medium used would be the right one for an STD. Thursday I went to a clinic that can do STD tests, but they said that they no longer have funds available and rejected my offer to pay. So right now, I am in a somewhat anxiety-producing situation. Once this is resolved, as I see it I will have two choices: 1) Go back to living like a monk, or 2) refuse to do anything except j/o. I do not want to go through this again!!

I found an advert on Craigslist for someone who was looking for oral with condoms. I wasn't really interested in meeting him, but did want to know what kind of responses he was getting from the advert, so I e-mailed him. He said that he'd received no responses except for mine!! His experience, and mine also, was that no one wants to do oral with condoms and that guys assume that oral is safe, even though it isn't safe.

One poster on this site, who will remain unnamed and who is very well known for his oral skills and videos demonstrating them, believes that he can tell if someone is infected. I don't believe it.

If there is a good solution for this, I'd like to know what it is.

 

[B_dxjnorto]

Most of my sexual experiences have been masturbatory, so I am satisfied with that. I do like something in my ass, but a dick is just too big. Well, there are guys with long thin dicks, but I only know one and he isn't gay. I fantasize about him sometimes though. :bandit:

I see pornos where the sex looks mind-bending, but that's acting too. You can tell that not everyone is comfortable with a dick in their ass, but then some can take two. Go figure.

Meanwhile, I masturbate, I shudder, I cum. What more should I expect and at what risk?

 

[israfel]

As a gay man married (in CA), there are no STDs when in a monogamous relationship. Obviously not everyone gets to that, or for some, even wants that. But I will say the sex we have is mind blowing because we complete each other. Condom free and worry free because we have chosen monogamy. In our 13 years together, I have only bottomed a hand full of times. Our love almost always involves anal with my husband receiving. He loves the feeling. For me I enjoy the feeling of tightness around my cock. Oral and anal both provide intense stimulation. I also think that being uncut adds to pleasure!
Re: straights doing anal, I think a lot of it has to do with tightness boy or girl, an ass provides more friction.

 

[Lex]

I eschew gum.

Str8's have really gotten into anal lately (recent years) judging from the porn. Especially popular with the younger crowd according to Dr. Drew Pinski. They'd rather do that than vag for some reason. Now that I don't understand. Maybe it's just that it's taboo and therefore more exciting? Maybe some 20 something str8's can enlighten us.

It's been quite a bit longer. Anal sex has been a part of porn since I first discovered it as a young teen. Old Vanessa Del Rio and vintage movies with Ron Jeremey, Field Marshall Bradley, and Ray Victory often had anal sex in them. Then the next generation of black.interracial porn, featuring Mr. Marcus (when he was young), Sean Michaels, Janet Jacme, and Julian St. Jox, had tons of anal. Last I watched straight porn, Seymore Butts was the once and future king and ALL his movies had tons of anal.

To the OP: I know lots of gay couples who don't have anal sex anymore. Their reasons are their own, I guess. I enjoy it a lot (giving and receiving) and hope to never stop while living.

 

[edmouse]

That is so me. Never thought there'd be a place to say it publicly.

 

[D_Harvey Schmeckel]

My experience has been that oral sex is relatively easy to find, and has been ever since I was a teenager, but finding fuck partners is much more of a challenge. I like it far more than oral but have experienced it with far fewer partners. This was especially true in my youth so perhaps FRE has a point about changing tastes. I fast forward through oral scenes in porn, go right to anal with my partner and always have, and find porn generally as fuck-centric as I am. Yet the guys I've met have generally been a lot more interested in oral than anal sex over the years. Alas.

 

[B_ILIW]

i think more gay guys are choosing not to have anal sex.

this could be for a many reasons, due to frot advocacy, not wanting to continue the gay anal sex stereotype in society or what have you.

I personally think though that anal sex will continue for a while. and the reason for this is two simple words - the prostate. lol... i think most guys into anal are so for this reason alone, and for that it would be hard to get guys to give up anal sex. prostate pleasure is better than cock pleasure.

 

[maxcok]

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....diffrunt folks

....diffrunt strokes

 

[mikewb75]

I understand why some may find it interesting, intriguing. I, for one, as a gay man, couldn't care less. No Thanks.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Just lube up your thighs....

Or asscrack....

Or feet....

Oh the possibilities................

 

[big_tits4big_dicks]

I think it might have something to do with birth control, or it might just be a desire to recreate one's favorite porn scene.

This. Birth control a bit, and also, Teen girls are kinda dim.I have heard a lot of girls say that they are still virgins, they only let them put it in their butt! Not fucking is a big movement now. No one can follow through, so they do this shit. And then feel bad and get born again, and again, and again. I was lucky to have the facts at that age, and would often school all the girls. Cuz they were dumb as a sack of hammers.

 

[JacquesValue]

Bottoming: It's a lot of yogic control to get anything into my ass. It's a lot of pain, even with a teeny-weeny. I ejaculate fast because my prostate is stimulated, but there's no brain orgasm at all. Leaves me wondering WTF, and then I have to wait before I can re-charge again.

Topping: I always had trouble staying hard once the rubber was on. I never felt anything until I barebacked. And then I came fast because it barebacking is such taboo. At this point, topping bareback is OK, and I get off on the concept of "hey, I'm fucking this hawt dude" but I imagine that it will get tired over time.

What I crave is cocksucking. I need to scratch that itch behind my tonsils. I love the taste of head cheese and nut sweat. I love slapping my face with a big rod. I get off on the tears of gagging.

 

[JacquesValue]

And intercrural is pretty cool too.

 

[AGH1976]

Some guy like to give head and get off on it. Myself i was a gay guy that was not into anal the reason was i did not like the thought of having a penis up my ass and yes i have tryed it now and it dose feel good so i will continue to take it.

 

[dc46064]

My partner and I have been together for the last 14years. Our regular thing in sex is him sucking my dick. We both consider ourselves Bi-sexual. We like the bond of 2, not the same with women. We both love a nice set of tits, who dosent! As far as anal, we will give each other that if we need it, but only has come up a hand full of times. As far as being with men, it has mostly been oral. There is nothing better than a blow job from a "Cock Worshiping" guy! The best blow jobs of my life! Been with alot of women, but never had a women suck dick like a dude. Women I like to fuck , dudes I like to suck my dick. With the other half and I have sex with someone else its usally oral. The other half sucking his dick and the other dude sucking mine. This is my experience in life. Some dudes want me to fuck them, and sometiems I do. Still would rather kick back in the middle of the bed and have the other half work my bone. Matter of fact, I am getting ready for him to work my bone now. Later

 

[TomCat84]

Blaming the spread of AIDS on those practicing anal sex is a tad simplistic, no? There were a number of reasons for the spread of AIDS. Mostly, selfish gays who didn't want to be non-promiscuous. 1) They were promiscuous 2) they often did crap that lowered the resistance of their immune systems, including shitloads of drugs. For me at least, I can't imagine not bottoming ever again. I love getting fucked. Anything else doesn't really get me off. When I was a wee lad, around 15, 16, I got very much into giving oral sex. Got really good at it, too. Once I started bottoming, I got less and less practice, until now- when I can't imagine just sitting there blowing a dude until he cums. I get bored, and start wanting him to plow me.

 

[OralCumDump]

Everyone is a little different and do their own thing. As for myself, I love taking dick in my mouth and I love to swallow. As well, I have many that I service on a regular basis and they too all prefer shootin off into an eager mouth. For the most part, there is always a limited amount of time and my guy just wants to get off quickly. So that can be done at just about any place without having to get naked. Blow and go.

 

[B_dxjnorto]

My partner and I have been together for the last 14years. Our regular thing in sex is him sucking my dick. We both consider ourselves Bi-sexual. We like the bond of 2, not the same with women. We both love a nice set of tits, who dosent! As far as anal, we will give each other that if we need it, but only has come up a hand full of times. As far as being with men, it has mostly been oral. There is nothing better than a blow job from a "Cock Worshiping" guy! The best blow jobs of my life! Been with alot of women, but never had a women suck dick like a dude. Women I like to fuck , dudes I like to suck my dick. With the other half and I have sex with someone else its usally oral. The other half sucking his dick and the other dude sucking mine. This is my experience in life. Some dudes want me to fuck them, and sometiems I do. Still would rather kick back in the middle of the bed and have the other half work my bone. Matter of fact, I am getting ready for him to work my bone now. Later

Thanks for sharing. Sounds like a great relationship.