Questions for women about slow dancing.....

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  1. mmjr

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    When I slow dance with a woman quite often I get aroused. I was wondering if most men do and whether most women find it a turn-on? Recently I danced with a woman who became very excited when she felt my erection and was rubbing against my cock to such an extent that she had an orgasm on the dance floor. Was also wondering if many other women become that excited while slow dancing?? I found it very erotic.
     
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    Was it like a film where the record scratches to a halt and everyone stares at you afterwards?
    :biggrin1:
     
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    I come when dancing sometimes, yeah. Doesn't have to be slow dancing, or even while touching partner..
     
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    Here are a few threads asking basically the same thing:
    http://www.lpsg.org/69535-dance-floor-hard-on.html

    http://www.lpsg.org/133860-erection-while-dancing.html?highlight=slow+dancing

    http://www.lpsg.org/208573-hard-on-while-grinding.html

    If I'm dancing with a woman with whom I'm in a romantic or sexual relationship, I have gotten quite hard while slow dancing. Some have noticed and commented on it, others just enjoyed the extra contact.

    If I'm dancing with a woman that I find attractive, but we aren't seeing each other, I'll let her actions determine whether I let myself get hard, or get close enough she knows I'm hard. If she is grinding into me, then I'll assume she wants to check things out! :tongue:
     
  5. ManlyBanisters

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    pix or it didn't happen.
     
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    I don't know how to slow dance... wish I did
    I don't really know how to dance, period... but I enjoy music

    we don't go dancing ... rarely ever...
     
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    Yeah, because everyone takes pictures of that in real time.
     
  8. ManlyBanisters

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    Wow - I've never had a 'pix or it didn't happen' taken literally before.
     
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    Well, the thing is, I never really know when he's hard or not with his clothes on. Oh I mean sometimes I can, but a lot of times I'm wrong, especially when we're dancing. I'll ask him if he is and he'll get defensive and say no! It makes me laugh when he gets defensive like that so he thinks I'm doing it on purpose, but I'm really just curious.

    And sometimes I like to grind when we're slow dancing in the dark to see if I can arouse him. But he's so self-conscious when he dances that it's hard to get him in the mood. I guess it depends on how much alcohol is in him. He'd much prefer to be on the other side of the music so dancing with him is a real treat. I make it count! LOL!
     
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