Hi,
I'm a bit new here but I figure this forum is the best place to post my questions.
I've been reading a new book and it's got me thinking. Specifically about kitties (No...not the kind that likes to chase mice. :tongue

. The author was discussing the diversity and variety of how so many different women's kitties feel.
So now I'm wondering and would like to hear from the guys:
A) Can you describe the differences you've encountered? bumpy? smooth? velvet? tough and dry? leathery?
Not something I think about that deeply very often, but I think I get what your asking. Don't believe I've experienced bumpy or leathery...well I hope not. Most have probably been smooth or velvety, or a mixture of the two. Smooth to me would be generally tight, toned, and accomodating. If I had to choose, I suppose this is what I'd prefer, although they can be tough to handle. They tend to make me have to "fight" from ejaculating too soon...and I can hold back generally very well under most circumstances. Velvety would be not as tight, but toned enough that I can feel it I guess. As a guy who likes to go at it for a long time, these are best. The grip isn't nearly as tight, but wetness, warmness, and going balls deep make up for it. Thing is though, my most memorable have been with both. I was with a tough and dry fairly recently. Initial penetration and even minutes after almost felt like driving my penis through a wall. By far the most painful, and at the same time, the most intense experience I've ever had. Somewhere between hell and heaven, but not sure which applied when. Can't say it was something I'd ever want to relive ever again, but it did have its moments to be honest.
B) Can you notice a difference in the same woman over her monthly cycle? Are some times better than others? Does diet have any influence over how it feels (ex: do vegetarian women's kitties feel better than omnivore women?) Do some ethnicities generally have better 'feels-great' kitties than others?
Haven't really had many lengthy relationships, so I'm unsure about the monthly thing. I doubt diet matters. Your gonna get me in trouble with the ethnicities part. I've been with a few Asian women, and they were the smoothest/tightest from what I can remember, although not all were.
C) Have you ever encountered a truly superstar kitty? You know...one that just shatters the scale it was so fantastic and superior to every other woman you'd slept with? If so, what made it off-the-scale-fantastically superior?
Yes two tight kitties that seemed to fit my penis perfectly, plus two pregnant women whose kitties felt as good as any I've ever felt then and now. The contrasts couldn't have been any different, but the sensations were equally nirvana. The vagina is an amazing body part is all I gotta say.
D) Does a higher temperature contribute to it feeling better? Say..same kitty but would elevated body temp (like after vigorous exercise) make it feel better all other factors staying the same?
Well the sweatier the sex, the better it seems to get and especially feel. I'd say the elevated skin temperature under such occasions adds to heightened sensations also. For whatever reason, the vagina does seem to feel better. So yes, I'm definitely for sweaty sex. Not sure about any other aspect though.
E) Why - if there truly is this huge variety in 'feel' - is it never really discussed? And more specifically why has there not been built up an information net to inform women of trying to come closer to the 'superstar kitty' effect? And no I'm not talking about kegels or resistance training devices..I mean going beyond those things. Example: Why is there no such thing as an internal vaginal pump? You know..insert like a tampon then suction the diameter of a woman's kitty smaller.
See I don't think there is a huge variety in feel, more just different feels. I don't know, I always sort of thought it was the natural order of things. Other than kegels or other exercises, I'm not sure there is another way. Well I do believe women can learn to fuck better themselves by simply taking the lead more. Men, well this one at least, like to be fucked too. And by doing so, I'd think their vaginas would get a workout like no other. I'm sure it might help, I know it'd help me personally.
Why do I never hear men really discussing the quality of women's kitties? They always seem more focused on their own equipment. Is it fear or propriety that it's not discussed? Just not knowing how to make women's kitties a better experience for men?
Men do talk about it, but never in a real way. Thing is, I've never heard the words "bad vagina" ever menioned...not once. Fear and propriety probably play a part, but it's usually just macho bs. To be quite honest, the guys that usually want to talk openly about sex in any manner, are usually the guys I don't want to listen talk about it. I can usually only take so much, and I get the feeling a lot of the guys watch the history channel just a little too much.
Sorry if all of this seems over the top. I'm just curious and would truly like to know if you guys know any tips, tricks, techniques (beyond kegels, stone eggs, ben wa balls, etc) for a woman to try to get closer to being one of the superstars.
Without the exercises, not sure there is much else you can do. Not sure they can be changed or enhanced that "much" anyway, even with the exercises. Now getting more proactive and taking the lead can do wonders I believe. Learning how to fuck shouldn't be just a male requirement. Maybe the best way to make your kitty a superstar. Other than those things, your probably just have to find the perfect or near perfect penis for it.
As you can probably guess I'm not one of these off-the-scale kitty women the author of the book mentions. I figure if I was somebody would've said something by now. He says in his experience such kitties are quite rare - like on the order of 20:1 or more. But when you finally get a woman with one of these superstar kitties you will absolutely know the difference. There will be no mistaking it's several orders of magnitude better than anything you'll have ever experienced with any other woman.
I don't know, but I think that is a severe overstatement. I don't really reminiscence that much or often about past experiences or kitties. I prefer to live the moment right then. I suppose that could be good with some longterm relationships, but to be perfectly honestly, I'm not "that" hard to please. I suppose some feel better than others, but I can honestly say my penis has never met a vagina it didn't love being inside of. Hell that's the easy part really. The hard part is finding a woman that is right for me.
So I'm curious to know...why do men never discuss this? Or do they simply not discuss it if there's ever a chance a woman might overhear?
Again such sex talk among men is usually just macho bs or men "running their mouths." Men rarely talk serious about sex or anything sexual among themselves. It's rarely ever deep. Mostly about them/us being great in bed, getting lots of sex from women, and us all having huge penises. I'd love to just one day break out a lie-detector test during one of these brilliant conversations, but I'm afraid the machine would self-explode after the first few minutes.