Questions to other girls and guys

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by nessa, Sep 15, 2007.

  1. nessa

    nessa New Member

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    Hi,

    I've been thinking about having sex with a 'big guy'. I've got a few question to the girls and hope they could help me. What's the easiest position for me, should I be on top to control or should he be on top? How does it feel afterwards?

    And one for the guys:

    If I can't have everything inside me will he still be able to have pleasure?

    Is there more cum coming out of a big penis compared to an average size?

    Sorry if I sound silly with those questions.

    Regards,

    Nessa
     
  2. frizzle

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    Don't worry Nessa about your questions, all are welcome here.

    I personally found the easier positions for having sex with a larger penis is the girl on bottom, but try other various positions, experiment with what you feel is comfortable. I don't know what it feels like after having sex with a large penis, as I'm straight, but previous experiences tell me it can be numbing and a bit painful, but most pleasurable. It just takes time to get adjusted.

    And yes it's not as enjoyable if you cannot get the whole penis is, but the majority of people can take almost anything if you put enough time and lube into it.

    As for the cum question, I don't believe this is any correlation between penis size and cum output. Although if he's been saving up for a while, you may be in for a suprise!

    Hope that helps.
     
  3. NikkiSizeQueen

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    if your on top and he is big it may feel like your trying to mount a lampost hehe :tongue: you may be better doing it doggy and providing he's considerate you can tell him how much your confortable with

    and some big guys cum lots some dont theres no definate answer
     
  4. nessa

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    Thanks, you guys are really nice. :smile:
     
  5. NikkiSizeQueen

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    ooo and there's the scissors thats a good one :tongue: hehe
     
  6. frizzle

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    Ha, I prefer wheelbarrow.
     
  7. blue_eyed_devil

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    If he cant have everything inside you then he will have pleasure. However if he cant get it all inside, then woman on top might be a bad idea since it would be very easy to bend it and thats never fun. As for cumming, as far as I can tell there is no correlation between the guy's size and how much he cums. Hope that helps.
    MK
     
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    My first time with a big dick, he was on the top. I was lucky he was experienced and gentle, it took a bit till my pussy adapted to his size but then everything went smoothly.
    After that time, I felt comfortable with any position.

    Good luck!:smile:
     
  9. B_felipegarcia

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    if you're a tight fit (I can see that you're very thin so you might be) and he's really big than I think missionary would be the best. That way he can use force to break his way through.

    If you're on top he would probably be jabbing at your pussy for a while trying to break into that thing.
     
  10. TheRob

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    I uusally figure due to my size women will want to be on top but it seems 50/50
    half the time they are scared like they dont want the responcability or something heh
     
  11. Love-it

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    My wife is still dilating in the hope that she will be able to take all of me someday. If I go slow and am careful I can get about half of my 6.5" length into her, where she has trouble is with my 6.25" girth. Going slow and trying not to go too deep, hurting her, does not make me cum. However she has been dilating her ass and she can take me that way so I get to cum in her butt. I love being able to stroke into her all the way to the hilt and at my pace until I cum.
     
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    i luv it either doggy or me on top. it really depends on how big he is and how experienced. if you go missionary it is hot watching him fuck with deep long strokes and watching his cock disapear into my pussy.

    jody
     
  13. OmahaBeef

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    From this guy...

    1) Yes. The top 1/3rd of my cock is where nearly all the sensation lies, so its not even much to worry about. It feels good to bury it, but not necessary.

    2) I can only speak for myself...I have huge loads.

    Enjoy the post-coital soreness :)

    ...OB
     
  14. pinkfloyd96

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    Very true, I have seen many porn movies, if that can be a judge, and have noticed, and been told, that my output is more than many men twice my size. I don't think the outer plumbing has much to do with the inner plumbing ;).

    And in my opinion, sex can be enjoyable know mater how much you take or even not at all. It's all about the attitude and imagination. It's really hard to make sex not enjoyable.
     
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    Yes, he definitely can, but the real question is if you will be able to have pleasure, right?

    And the answer is "YES" you totally can. What may hinder that is if you are sensitive to his size and he is rough with you, that could make it hurt. Speaking from experience and being "The First Big One" to my current gf, have the man spend extra time "preheating the oven" if you will. The more aroused and horny and wet you are, the easier it will be for you to accommodate a larger size.

    Also I would recommend that you try your first one with a guy you trust, and can be honest with. Someone you can honestly talk to about your concerns. Say something like, "I really want to have sex with a larger sized man, but I'm nervous that your big cock may hurt me, will you help me out and be gentle please?" and I guarantee the guy will be pitching a (hopefully large) tent in his trousers in a split second and will be more than willing to help you out.

    There really is no way to tell how much a guy is going to cum, I don't think it has much to do with his size. I would say, the easiest way to find out is to give him a blow job or something as a trial run to see how intense/powerful his ejaculation is.

    You're questions are not silly at all, next time you apologize for asking a real question I'll slap you, haha just joking. But seriously, don't feel silly asking questions, thats what the LPSG is all about (at least to me)

    D.
     
  16. zaza

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    I would recomend experimenting to see what works for you.

    What works for me is avoiding deep penetration. I like misonary with my legs straight, spoons, standing. In theory me on top should work, but often I get carried away and come down with a painful bang!!! It does work better for us if I lay on top and keep my legs straight.

    We have a very enjoyable sex life, even though it doesn`t all go in. We are also very into non penetrative sex, which is great. the answer is to be creative and try different things, and stick with what we both like.
     
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    yah that riding thing has happend a lot with the girls I am with
     
  18. big-strong

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    I am curious to know if women enjoy dildos and vibrators ? I have a female friend who has various sizes of toys and likes me to use these on her sometimes. With the largest vibrator going in and out she gets her orgasm hard and fast. I love doing this too because I get to enter her afterwards. Do other men enjoy this ?
     
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    The first time I would suggest to go missionary. You can open more your legs and still put your hands on his hips to slow him down if necessary (if you are worried about length) If you are worried about girth, vaginas are elastic, it's more in your mind to relax and be well lubricated. Even if he is really big it should be easier than the first time you had sex.

    For sure he will. We get pleasure by going in and out, and if he's long he will be used to control how deep he can go in without hurting you.

    No. Amount of cum can vary from one guy to another but never related to cock size. The biggest influence is how much time has passed since his last ejaculation.
    There are no silly questions, just silly people that don't ask

    Take care
     
  20. lafever

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    I`m sure this is rare and probly limited to the younger and less experienced men, but be carefull with the long cocks. I`ve heard from several women over my lifetime that they prefer girth over legth just for the fact that some guys non-intentionaly hurt women.

    Worst case cenario, you find a man who intentionaly likes hurting women. In some sick way it gives them pleasure when the women is obviously in pain, they`ll even choke the women while they`re having sexual intercourse, if thats what you call it at that point. It`s a fetish that borderlines breaking the law. And from what i`ve heard, you don`t want to hurt the way it was described to me. One women told me she though she had actualy died and came back because she awoke in her own feces.

    Am i trying to scare you, maybe. Should you have some awarness of what you can encounter, most definately.

    You`re obviously young and inexperienced or you would not have asked the questions that you did. I don`t want you thinking that just because someones hung that your in for the time of your life, it`s that innocence that some big cock predaters look for and bank on, especially when you have no idea what your getting yourself into, it`s the look of terror in your eyes that turns them on.

    Last but not least, a large cock can be a wonderfull experience with a loving and caring man. Once you get some big cock, you`ll never be satisfied with anything else, especially the thick ones.

    My girlfriend tells me all the time how she loves the way i spread her apart. Have fun with the big cocks and stay clear of the scum bags.

    lafever
     
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