quick shooters?

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  1. damien6663

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    So im kinda curious, how many ladies out there have had experiences with guys who pull the trigger a bit fast. I was watching MTV or something can't remember, and they said the average guy can only go for two minutes after penetration. Not to good ehh? LOL

    so ladies, how long have most ur partners lasted with you?
     
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    Where ever you heard that was wrong...

    I've had one boy... well the gay one.. everyone else will know who that is... by statistical standards he is a quick shooter... 10-12 minutes... I don't think its bad at all... but each have their own opinions.
     
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    Somewhere, a while back (sorry no cite), I read the average was approx. 7 mintues, which seems reasonable. That's what I've heard on the subject, so that's all I know.

    I've tended to last a bit longer than that in action.


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    Oh, to add for another topic of discussion... I've noticed when the female is on top and I'm pointing upwards to penetrate, I tend to last significantly longer than other positions. I have no idea why, other than I think for some reason that gravity plays into it. I'm just curious if anyone else experiences this?
     
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    There are plenty of tricks for making a man last longer, positions, fast/slow, pulling out etc which all play into timing. I find if the man is on top and controlling then he will come faster as he will do what satisfies himself. If im on top i will take him deep and grind on him which helps me orgasm but dosent do much for him, Ive found this is my best way of bring our orgasm timing closer to being in sync.

    The quickest shooter i had was a 18 year old virgin and not suprisingly he didnt last more than 2-3 minutes. But by teaching him how to stretch time he became the longest and we could have penetrative sex for almost an hour before either of us would cum.
     
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    Well, dig it there, Lee_M, at 18, most of us were pretty anxious and excited and didn't know what to expect. Hell, I had the same problem when I 1st had my sexual encounter. I think my landspeed record was 2.5 minutes into it before I popped my cork, rather generously I might add. But I was with this MILF 10 yrs my senior, and she just said, "OK, now that that's outta your system, in a manner of speaking, let's work on control & relaxation, hmm?" Well, 2 months passed us by, and by the end, 45-50 minutes worked itself into our sessions without either one of us letting off some cum.
     
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    I think I hold the landspeed record. One stroke. It was so fucking hot feelin her pussy get hot and wet as I pushed in, that I unloaded on the first stroke.

    So like 3 seconds.

    I had fun.
     
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    7 minutes, oh hell, I wish I cold ge off that fast.
    The old lady would appreciate it once in a while...
     
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    I have no idea what the average time is for the average man but I know for a fact that I have gone as long as an hour literally hundreds of times and have gone as quick as 2-3 minutes if I wanted to. But I always go for seconds and that one can last a lot longer without putting in toomuch effort to hold off.
    When I was in the Navy and some of us would go to a whore house, we would usually jack off before going in since we were always so horny we'd never last but a minute or so if we didn't pop off first. "Time is money in those situations."
     
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    I agree on all counts. Most guys seem to last longer if they're on the bottom. Maybe it's a gravity thing :confused: . I also agree there are lots of things you can do to help a guy last longer. Another one I noticed is sometimes if the guy is on top he can last longer if he moves his legs further apart. There also seem to be things guys can do on their own to practice lasting longer. Personally I enjoy when guys do this. I can understand how some women who orgasm best from oral are OK with a guy lasting 5 minutes because she already got hers. I am not that woman. Nothing wrong with some good oral but the universe has given me the gift of severe multiorgasmicity but for better or worse my bread 'n butter is the cock. So in response to the OP's question, of course I've had experience w/guys who pull the trigger too fast. It can be extremely frustrating. I would imagine some others here can attest to that. And of course when I have sex w/a guy who has really good control, it is a huge plus in my book. On the other hand there seem to be plenty of women who are just fine w/ 5-10 mins. As for the original question I've had a guy last 2 minutes and I've had a guy who lasted over an hour. The rest were somewhere in between :wink: .
     
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    thanks for the responses, im one of those people who just cant get off fast. If im wearing a rubber it will be an hour session, no rubbed more like 30-45 mins...If ive been drinking heavily add time LOL.
     
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    damien, welcome to my world!

    a quicky lasts about 30-45 minutes, a normal one about 90minutes and a drunk one - well who knows it has been known to be 4 hrs, lol
     
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    I normally last till my gf starts talking real dirty to me,I usually explode after that unless I pull out
     
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    I can actually come in 3 strokes, if i want to. Lee is correct, with the proper tecnique men can go for a very long time. It takes a while to learn your own body well enough, but its doable, Now i last anywhere from 3 strokes to 1 hour.
     
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    I think I read in the Kinsey Report that on average, men last 2 to 4 minutes, but women take on average of 10 minutes to get off.

    Quick shooters don't bother me if they're willing/able to go for round two. The ones I hate are the ones who get off quick, and they're done. Those guys need to be kicked in the balls.:tongue:

    I love it when guys can go for very long sessions. An hour of pure sex is a magical thing. I think one of the best advantages of older men is that the newness of sex has worn off and they've learned better self-control, if they've bothered trying.
    Some younger guys can do it, I think practising edging helps a lot. If you really want to impress a woman, j/o before the date so you'll have more to give when you're together.
     
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    Dude, stop getting medical/sex advice from MTV!! hahaha:tongue: :biggrin1:
    Two minutes is pathetic and technically pre-mature ejaculation.

    It varies, I had one guy that could go 30-40 minutes before he came.
    My fuck buddy usually cums 4-5 times in a 90 minute session.
    Which is great, cause he makes sure I cum before he does and sometimes I have multiples. :tongue: :smile:



     
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    dalian yea man doesnt it suck sometimes? Ive never had any issues getting it up drunk, but if im pretty hammered i can be pluggin away for hours with no results LOL!
     
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    One of the guys at work said that his record for going flaccid-to-flaccid, with an orgasm in between, was 30 seconds.

    He once went to a live show booth at a porn store, and for whatever reason you weren't allowed to expose yourself at this one. He didn't know, though, so he whipped it out and started spankin' it. The girl, kinda shocked, said, "Hey, stop, you can't do that in this show!" He said, "Um, sorry, too late," as he had just nutted and was already going back to normal.

    :rofl:
     
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    I know. Isn't it selfish of them?:mad:

    Oh indeed. :biggrin1: And I agree.

    I've heard the edging thing works. Of course it doesn't matter to me how he lasts as long as he lasts. And I agree, if you're worried about lasting at least j/o before the date, as long as you won't have trouble rehardifying later :biggrin1:
     
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    I was a quick shooter 50 years ago, but got wised up by some pretty savy young ladys I spent time with. Now in my senior years, the question is whether I'll come before she goes to sleep! Just kidding, but age does tend to slow things down a bit, & my sweetie likes that.:biggrin1:
     
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    I've been with a few guys who were quick shooters. Luckily for me, though, they were all guys that either stayed hard, or got hard again within minutes. :)
     
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