quiet or loud during sex?

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  1. dave2006

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    during vaginal intercourse it's heavy breathing followed by several grunts while I bust my nut

    oral sex I'll have some twitching when she cleans out the pipes after i've cum but slurping the rest out. Than it's heavy breathing and compliments on how amazing it was and than I usually feel like I'm going to pass out...lol

    I like girls to give direction so I get a feel for what they like in bed, but I dont like when it's like the girl is over doing it with saying to much. If I'm going at it doggie I appreciate a "grab my ass" "fuck me harder" "shit I'm cuming baby"

    If i'm on top I like hearing her tell me stuff in my ear with a low voice with not much air to actually talk, only a whisper. a "thats it baby, you feel so good inside me" "turn me over and do me from behind" "cum all over me baby" "I want your cum"

    If those words and phrases are exchanged it's that much better. No need for 'dead fucks"...people who just lye their and make you do all the work, without feedback and direction of what they like and what they dont.
     
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    In my experience, the "dead fucks" don't seem to like fucking anyway. If my sexual partner isn't enthusiastic, I would rather just do it myself.
     
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    It depends on the situation and place. My girl has three roomates so we have to be quiet, just respect wise. I have a roommate, but we have an agreement.
    My girl is a talker and can be...well...loud during sex.
    I'm naturally quiet and really shy so for me its a lot of heavy breathing, grunting and moaning.
    During oral sex, its a lot of moaning and a lot of endearments of "I love you" "You're great."
     
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    I am loud during sex, and a talker to some degree, see the "Quoth your partner..." thread about details to that. If you have sex, then talking is like a throttle lever to me, you have a powerful tool to increase or decrease speed and power there. I can't get rid of the suspicion though, guys think it's the woman who has to talk all the time. Guys, where are your nasty compliments, your desires and your dirty minds?!? Or is all the blood from your big brain busy in your little brain in your pants?
     
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    Yes, quiet Sex is no sex at all :smile:
    I have nothing against some dirty talking, if it´s caused by the intercourse.
    But I had some guys who kept on talking during sex and didn´t stop. Hearing every few seconds things like "Yeah baby, I fuck you hard!" or things like that make me laugh instead of turning me on.
     
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    i show how turned on iam by breathing heavily on my girls neck and in her ear while we're doing it...and often times i'll switch from one "rhythm" to the next while whispering to her "you like it like that baby?" Pretty much, I just give her a bit of oral stimulation to get her going, so I can feed off of her comments cuz I love hearing her tell me what she likes/how it feels/etc.
     
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    Someone not generally used to being allowed to pound a woman as hard as he wanted once asked me, "Did someone hurt you when you were a child?" because I kept screaming for him to fuck me harder and harder. I was just thrilled because he seems like the only man who's ever believed me when I made that request.

    I'm a combonation screamer moaner. I even moan when I'm giving head, I like it too. I don't talk much, but when I do it's always desperate, "I want it all over me!" or encouraging, "That's right! Claim that pussy! Take your cock and fuckin' sign for it, Baby!"

    A lover who used to call me to masturbate together between booty-calls used to say, "Go on and make all your crazy noises, Sweetheart. I love it." So I guess I make crazy noises. Sometimes I drool. Once, I fainted. I sometimes get dizzy.

    When I'm ready to climax, I sometimes hear myself screaming and wonder if it's me. Sometimes just a high pitched gurgle is all I can get out, when what I mean to say is. "I'm coming! I'mcomingimcomingimcoming ohhhhhhhgah!" And sometimes I manage to say that, aproximately. Other times I get very, very quiet. This is because I'm not breathing. Eyes, open, mouth moving, body spasming, fists clenched, and then very powerful, calming release. That's how I passed out that one time...
     
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    Oh, yeah! Been there, done that, won't EVER do it again.
     
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    Ssssshh!

    The kids will hear us!
     
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    I am more of a loud fuck. I like to talk, tell a partner what is working for me and love to hear the same. When I cum, I make a lot of noise.
     
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    My parents just locked me in the bathroom when they wanted to fuck.
     
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    EDIT: off-topic posting
     
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    I like noise and talk during sex, as long as it's honest. I hate the fake porn screaming-for-screaming sake. Sometimes the most fun is when you really want to make noise, but can't - like if someone is down stairs or something and you have to be quite but still want to go at it.
     
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    More on the quiet side, I'd say.
     
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    That about describes me. I can talk very dirty, and love to urge him by giving him such "orders". I think in some way guys love to be commanded a bit in bed, maybe they take pleasure in finding themselves as the pleasure soldier of their g/f, wife, fuck.

    I never drooled or fainted, but sometimes I feel like I get a tunnel view, my vision goes all fuzzy and I hear the blood rush in my ears, usually that comes together with a dizzy feeling. Especially when a guy tries to do a pile driver on me (i.e., he lifts my hips up far and fucks straight down into me, taking a semi-squatting position himself). I guess it has to do with all the blood flowing to my head through gravity.

    That happens with me too, sometimes, usually I sense my climax coming. My last action then is to wrap my legs around my guy's hips, spur him, get ready to enjoy and then let it all out when "the wave" hits me.

    God, I really am a linebacker in bed ;-)
     
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    My fiancee and I live in an apartment building with a loud couple living right above us. We see it as a challenge to be louder than them.:smile:
     
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    I'm VERY loud lol
     
  19. ClaireTalon

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    I think listening is better than watching. Leaves more to imagination ;-9

    Actually, Fri/Sat I had a guy I was so loud with that my neighbors from the apartment below rang my bell and asked wether everything was alright.
     
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    Apparently I used to be the loud neighbour from hell (without knowing it) when I had a place of my own and was typically heading home with a girlfriend after the bars and clubs closed. I had no complaints ever over 4 years until...

    My new downstairs neighbours had a very loud party at 3 am which made it impossible to sleep. My girlfriend had moved in by that point and she was insistent that we complain. Not really wanting to get off to a bad start, we knocked on the door and politely asked for some consideration.

    My very drunk and smiling neighbour couldn't restrain himself and rolled his eyes and loudly exclaimed " I can't believe the nerve of YOU guys! WE hear you having sex ALL the time and WE can't get any sleep. Christ! Don't you guys ever sleep?" This was in front of all their guests.

    We blushed, laughed and made a joke about him being jealous, but ended up accepting their invitation to join the party, as the sound was not going away any time soon. His girlfriend later said they could hear everything and she was joking about all the activity making her feel short changed.

    We did feel somewhat audibly inhibited after that, but always put on some music.
    Now it's 8 years later and we are in different addresses, yet we are still pals with them.

    Now we keep it quiet (to a degree) to avoid waking the baby. Sigh.
     
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