Well I'll be damned....an online quiz that accurately quantified something about me... Who knew?!?
What % Top And Bottom Are You?
You Got: 61% top and 39% bottom!
For several years my response to this question when asked has been 60/40 top/vers. When I started down this road in my misspent youth I was more like 85/15, honestly. I echo the sentiments of those who preach that bottoming gladly is very much a mental exercise rather than a physical one. After college I met this guy that drove me wild; he just "got me" and was so fun to be around, all the while having the kind of body that I've lusted after from day one.
One day we were about to get busy and the thought just announced its presence in my mind like Athena emerging fully formed from Zeus' majestic noggin. "I want this man
inside me. I wish I knew how to fit more of him in me than just his cock. I'd gorge myself on him like he was my last meal before the electric chair."
The switch had flipped. After the fireworks were over I remember laying there next to him, both of us breathing heavy and sweaty, realizing that I hadn't told him I wanted to bottom for him, but rather "I want to get fucked." He sure didn't disappoint. If you just want to bottom, it might take you a while to make your peace with the experience, but if you wait for that ineffable sensation of knowing you want to get fucked, then hang on tight because it's going to scare you at how effortless it is.