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i live in a country ( Greece ) where the vast majority of population is Caucasian white, probably 95 or even 97 % . so my question is how common are interracial couples in your country or town ? also knowing that adult industry promotes the black male / white female as the go to definition of interracial coupling and sex, how common is the reverse ? and how common is the other interracial combinations.?

also since i don't keep track of your personal lives , have you ever dated outside your race ? has that happened more than once ?

please take a couple of minutes and address these questions.
 

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Interracial couples are really common where I live. I'm biracial myself. Mexican Americans don't like to get up early in the morning, but they have to... So they do it, real slo-o-ow. Some would refer to me as a 'coyote'. My pops coined his own term: chiconky. Half Chicano, half honkey.

The only other serious relationship I've ever been in besides the one I'm in now was with a black man.
 

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Interracial couples are really common where I live. I'm biracial myself. Mexican Americans don't like to get up early in the morning, but they have to... So they do it, real slo-o-ow. Some would refer to me as a 'coyote'. My pops coined his own term: chiconky. Half Chicano, half honkey.

The only other serious relationship I've ever been in besides the one I'm in now was with a black man.

Great reply. How about the other " versions ". How common are they ?
 

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Same boat as Ms. TnJ, different ocean. Interracial couples are common and come in every variety.

My Ex is half-Japanese. She is my favorite little rice cracker. I can claim multiculturalism. Technically. If you have to add technically, ya pretty much white bread. I call me "white girl"
 
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On the west coast of the USA pretty much every major city is a cultural and ethnic melting pot. Every single relationship I've had casual or otherwise has been "interracial". A very large amount of relationships in this part of the country are mixed race.

I'm Korean as far as genetics. Culturally I'm a melting pot. I've yet to be with another Korean. The only people who made a fetish out of race in regards to me were white men. The only people who had an issue with who I was with was one older white woman and when I've been with partners who were black, black people. Nearly any ethnicity combined with Asian women is a massive niche in interracial porn bullshit.
 

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I'm Indian but was adopted as a baby so cultural and in mindset I'm Danish. My skin might be Nutella but I hardly notice it, tbh.

I have dated different races - actually more or less anything but Indian. Not by design, I just don't look at race or colour before picking a guy. In that context I'm colourblind.

Sidenote to TnJ (and other Americans), it always strikes me how Hispanics are considered a race in the US. You're the only country in the world with this racial definition for people with the slightest olive tone in their skin.
 

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I'm mostly black. Tiny bit white. Even tinier bit Cherokee. I don't generally explain all of that. This dude I'm seeing was the first to point out to me that my skin is rose gold under the right light. I told him it was make up. Then he pointed it out on my forearms. Where the sun touches, there is, a little rose gold glow. He's right. I never noticed before. It's sun damage, so I guess I haven't had it long. I told him it might be the Cherokee. I dunno. The one portrait I saw of those relatives, they looked coppery. It's certainly not the white folks. They looked... Irish. They weren't. But, on my father's side they were pasty redheads, by description. On my mother's side they had pale skin, thick bodies, very round, moony faces, and jet black hair. I've seen them. Though, there is a cousin of my grandmother's who had Sandy hair and blue eyes. I have never seen photos from his family album. I'm on a weird tagent. Sorry. I think I'm dehydrated. Moving on.

I just identify as black. My parents identified as black. My grandparents were coloured, even when negro, African American and Black came into popular use, my maternal grandparents, who were more white than any one other thing, identified as coloured. Spelled like that. That's Bajans for you.

I have never dated Asians, unless you count Yemeni as Asian. And he was half Brazilian anyway. Not for lack of trying, mind you. None ever liked me back.

I'm more attracted to black men. Really, I just love dark, brown skin, broad noses, thick eyebrows, dredlocks. These features just come up more among black men. Friends say I have a type, and that all my exes look alike to them, no matter that some were white, or Latino. Apparently, there is a jaw structure I like, and a mouth shape I keep choosing. If you ask me though, I just picked out geeks. The dude I see the most of right now is not a geek. He is a wide departure from my normal inany ways. He's thinner than I normally go for, and his manner is unrefined. He has the most interesting fashion sense of anyone I've dated before, but he's a barber, and I suppose he has to have a look. He's also got a gray tooth. Normally, that would disturb me, but I'm really drawn to him. I could listen to him laugh all night, and sometimes I do. He's black.

I see a few multi-ethnic families here, but they mostly aren't from here. I see lots of multi-ethnic couples, mostly black or Latin men with white women, always blondes, red-heads, or dyed an outrageous and enviable shade. I'm not sure all the blondes are natural. This is the Mid-Atlantic region of the east coast, south of the Mason-Dixon. Most people here are not from here, but got transplanted my the military. Some will leave, many will stay.
 

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In the mean time of me creating this thread I searched a bit and found out that what @AlteredEgo says to be true, there is a difference for sure, black female/ white male are rare in comparison to black male/ white female. I just wonder why. Are white men perceived as less attractive among black women or what ? Does the silly societal stereotypes influence the partner picking process? I mean it can be a " rebellion " for a white woman in closeminded societies to date a black man and this holds a special appeal when the same doesn't really come in mind to the black female's and white male's mind. This is what I get anyway, I may be wrong though.
 

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In the mean time of me creating this thread I searched a bit and found out that what @AlteredEgo says to be true, there is a difference for sure, black female/ white male are rare in comparison to black male/ white female. I just wonder why. Are white men perceived as less attractive among black women or what ? Does the silly societal stereotypes influence the partner picking process? I mean it can be a " rebellion " for a white woman in closeminded societies to date a black man and this holds a special appeal when the same doesn't really come in mind to the black female's and white male's mind. This is what I get anyway, I may be wrong though.
According to my personal experience, and statistics released by OkCupid, black women are the least chosen by all ethnicities.

I get a lot of, "You don't seem black!" from a lot of stupid people. It is possible that the white men I dated were mostly just smart enough not to say things like that to my face.
 
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According to my personal experience, and statistics released by OkCupid, black women are the least chosen by all ethnicities.

I get a lot of, "You don't seem black!" from a lot of stupid people. It is possible that the white men I dated were mostly just smart enough not to say things like that to my face.
I thought no that's at least partially a geographic divide. I've always experienced the opposite in Europe. Not just personally but I've always seen native Europeans paying extra notice to darker women.

Think it's the difference between the novelty of a different skin tone vs. racist undertones.
 

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According to my personal experience, and statistics released by OkCupid, black women are the least chosen by all ethnicities.

I get a lot of, "You don't seem black!" from a lot of stupid people. It is possible that the white men I dated were mostly just smart enough not to say things like that to my face.
To be clear: I'm definitely black by appearance, which is to be expected, since, as I pointed out above, I'm almost totally black.
 

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I thought no that's at least partially a geographic divide. I've always experienced the opposite in Europe. Not just personally but I've always seen native Europeans paying extra notice to darker women.

Think it's the difference between the novelty of a different skin tone vs. racist undertones.
My experience with European and Australian men has been a mixed bag. Sometimes I just seem like a refreshing change, or an interesting difference, and sometimes I have been very definitely exotified. It's hard to explain the difference, but perhaps you've experienced it too, and know what I mean. The closest I can come to describing it is, one is more like, "Wow. You don't see a woman like HER every day! I have to get to know her." The other is more like, "I always wanted to try out a Negress. Here comes one now, and since her manners are not like what I've seen in movies, I might be able to tolerate parading her around my associates for a while. I want people to see what I've found and intend to fuck for a while."
 
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In my country interracial couples are not so common, I guess less than 5% and the majority of them are black male and white female. Around Europe is a bit different from what I know and i've seen. In France and UK I believe that interracial couples are way more common, maybe because the black community has been around there for a long time. In my town or area I've only seen one black female-white male couple.
 

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Sidenote to TnJ (and other Americans), it always strikes me how Hispanics are considered a race in the US. You're the only country in the world with this racial definition for people with the slightest olive tone in their skin.

It's because of the way the Spaniards and native American population melted together (let's not get into how fucked up the Spaniards were in their conquests. I fully acknowledge how fucked up my ancestors were). A whole lot of the population is dark in complexion because of the native genetics but takes on the Spanish name/culture.

A whole lot of "Hispanics" here are actually much darker than those in other parts of the world.
 

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My great grandmother was Mexican. My mother is a Brit. I consider myself 100% Texan.

Interracial couples are becoming more and more common where I live now. It's a university town and quite a bit more liberal than the rest of the state.

I remember when I was much younger the first time I saw a "mixed" couple, as my grandma called them. My Mum didn't understand what I was talking about. So I explained that they were different colors. She honestly hadn't noticed. And she never offered an explanation or comment other than to say "Oh, so they are." And then she went about her business.

I imagine I was surprised at first, but seeing how she reacted taught me that it wasn't a big deal. Actually, it was quite a big deal for the couple, whom I came to know later. This was the 60s and early 70s in Central Texas, which was not a hotbed of social progress.