Race in a Video Chat

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by DanDingo, Sep 10, 2010.

  1. DanDingo

    DanDingo New Member

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    Why do I have to disclose my race in a video chat. I feel like that if I don't and whoever it is "isnt into black guys" , I've done them some mis-service. Ifeel obligated like crying "unclean".

    Curious to hear any other thoughts on the matter
     
  2. irox19

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    sorry you feel that way.

    i don't know why but i always volunteer info about my race (hispanic) because...i don't know why, but i feel like i am supposed to do it or like i would be lying if i didn't disclose it up front.
     
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    B_subgirrl New Member

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    I find it sad that you guys feel this way. As far as I am concerned, people are just people. If I like them, I like them, and it wouldn't matter if they were purple aliens.
     
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    I agree with subgirrl, race doesn't matter for me, especially not when i am just looking to cam with a person. then again, it also wouldn't factor into my wanting to date them either . .
     
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