Race Rant

Discussion in 'Et Cetera, Et Cetera' started by marleyisalegend, Apr 10, 2008.

  1. marleyisalegend

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    okay it's 2008 but you'd swear it were 1875 the way some people talk about "black guys having big dicks" like we're still out in the field picking cotton and serving master's homosexual desires in the dark (yes this happened frequently although it's not often spoke of). anyway every other post i read about a black celebrity ALWAYS has someone saying "well he's black he must be hung". you might as well say "he's black so he's probably on welfare" it's the same damn thing. grow up people and LEARN
     
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    Sounds like someone got the short end of the stick to me...
     
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    Someone also forgot when the slaves were freed.
     
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    Hey I know how to keep the idea going but make it more interesting. He's black so he must be swinging low. I've noticed a few serious low hanging sacks on black men. I know people aren't even all "black" anymore because the races have been mingling for generations, particularly in the states - for centuries. I don't even believe in "race" per se, because what people perceive as race is an amalgam of traits that often have more to do with culture than inheritance. Like when you really get down to it, race is more ethnicity. Like when you say this guy or girl is Asian, people have only a broad sense of what that may mean. When you say this guy or girl is Indonesian, people get a better sense of what you mean. But Indonesia is a nation, not a race. The more you break it down, the more it becomes a question of nationality or culture. People in Indonesia probably see "racial" divisions that we cannot perceive. Why? Because they don't really exist. Perhaps they can tell by behavior or accent. Is that racial? It's more behavioral. What if someone has one "white" parent and one "black" parent? Then the whole thing just begins to break out into what "culture" you want to emulate.

    So I have a video, Cocoadorm or something like that. I've never seen such slack sacks. All in fun, do you think that has anything to do with having some African ancestors? Maybe it's the heat [?]
     
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    Wow... well put. Very well put.

    I'll say "asian" "black" or "white" as a descriptor to identify someone... if it gets to Vietnamese or Liberian or Greek.. it's to color their background.

    In the US it's more demographic a black or white from Fresno leads to certain (usually correct) assumption vs an asian or white or indian from San Jose.... always keeping in mind, "room for error".
     
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    first of all, although most of my exes are bigger than me, i'm happy with 8 inches. second i didn't think a bunch of ignorant, wealthy, well-to-do, corny, immature, white queers who have never faced a second of adversity in their lives would understand. this thread was for older black people who have MINDS and THOUGHTS and don't like being treated like a giant walking penis, we (black people) contribute A LOT more to your comfortable lifestyles than our big penises. none of you who responded came close to understanding what i'm talking about, go back to your big houses and cars your parents bought you and i'll continue talking to REAL people who know color doesn't determine penis size and being angry at that stereotype doesn't make someone small. any stereotype upsets me and i'm sure there are more swimming around in your empty little heads than you speak on. the only one you mention is black=big penis but i'm sure the well of you bigotry runs deep. you guys probably get nervous when you're walking after dark and you see a black or mexican coming your way. you probably assume all asian people have small penises. like i said, mindless ignorant sheltered queers are NOT the ones who should be responding to posts about actual topics. you all need to go back to arguing about whether or not a fold in orlando bloom's pants is a bulge or just the pants
     
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    I'm black, grew up in the inner city and have a big dick, so what do *I* know?


    (kidding)


    I do not support these big-dicked stereotypes.
     
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    All people are prejudiced.

    Its how you survive in the world, by learning stereotypes..
    Stoves burn

    Cross at the light

    Tigers are dangerous

    I have never met a black person who was free of white stereotypes, nor vice versa.

    Never met a woman without an opinion of men and vice versa...

    And, lemme tell you... don't think for one second that black men out to get laid do not PLAY on the hung sterotype every chance they get.


    People need to relax and lighten the fuck up.

    What pisses us off the most is the fact that stereotypes do not come out of thin air... they all contain a nugget of truth... or they wouldn't have ever been coined.

    But the difference between predjudice and racism is found in how easily people drop their stereotypic perspective when they actually MEET a black person... an Asian, a Woman.

    It is one thing to judge a group as a whole... and anther to treat each individual in that group as an equal.


    You can't maintain a separate identity as Black or Hispanic... holding yourself aloof from the mean... and still be thought of as just another guy.

    How many black guys with grill work and their pants around the knees does it take to create a stereotype?

    How many rednecks with mullets?


    If foilks did not tend to band together and express group behaviors fully intended to separate them from the rest of the crowd... then stereotypes would be harder to form...


    So, hey... I will stop stereotyping when every dumb white jackass stops wearing the exact same narrow little specks... when every jackass under a certain age is Not wearing his hat backwards...

    ... When folks stop behaving in identifiable group dynamics... when they stop stereotyping themselves... then maybe I can stop stereotyping them, too.


    Or--- we could just laugh more... at ourselves.
     
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    Frankly I'm tired of people grouped together by race or gender on almost any issue. Every time I hear "____ wins the black/white/Asian/female vote" on the news it makes me cringe. It's a subtle way to keep us forever divided, and this big dick stereotype is no different.
     
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    OK, Mr. Cultural Sensitivity...care to tell us how you reconcile this:


    ...with all of this:

     
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    The thing is, whenever a new person comes into this forum, they have so many questions to ask and many of them have been asked time and time again, but they don't know that.

    They also don't know that if they wanted to know if said question had been asked before, they can go search for it in the search bar. That's why we have multiple posts with the same information that many of the "lifers" have already known about.

    Yes, it's tiring to see the same questions being asked like "Black men have the biggest penises, right?" or "If a guy is totally straight, can he still suck dick?" but the reality is, there's someone who has that question and will ask it because they don't know the answer. Once they find out that it's been asked (and they will...no one lets reposting slide on this forum) they'll be edjucated and know not to ask a question without searching for the answer first.
     
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    whether you are tired of it or not (as I am , as well)... it's still quite an honest fact/outcome.
     
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    And it's going to stay that way as long as the people pay attention to stats like that.
     
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    wasn't it 1864-1865... somewhere between that time? :confused:

    EDIT: I'm googling it but nothing is coming up
     
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    I've noticed this stereotyping as well and it never dies.

    I saw some ads on here stating something like, "looking for a big black one." But I've also seen the same ads with the word "white" instead of "black." Do white men get offended by that? Probably not because it's not a white stereotype.

    I would think black men would consider it a compliment, yet you compare it to someone insinuating someone black must be on welfare. I guess it would depend on the person and how they take it.

    I think a lot of this has to do with the porn featuring big black men with petite white women. There appears to be a big market for it.

    There's something they used to say about black women, and maybe they still do. A white man would say, "once you go black, you never go back." You never hear it the other way around with a black guy saying that about a white woman.
     
  16. marleyisalegend

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    you can't argue that it's not a stereotype to say all black men are big so here's the problem. ignorance on the surface is usually the tip of the iceberg. if you think every black man has a big penis then you probably believe other stereotypes which to me sounds like borderline racism, SEEING AS HOW YOU'RE MAKING JUDGMENTS ABOUT SOMEONE (be it penis size, intelligence, etc...) BASED SOLELY ON THEIR RACE. say it with me, RACISM. the reason i compared it to welfare is because that's another stereotype. whether it's a compliment or not, name one person on this planet who WANTS to be stereotyped. i'm waiting.... the stereotype doesn't matter, what does matter is what other kind of ignorant thoughts are rattling around in your feeble little minds. maybe i'm overlooking something. possibly the reason you CRAVE big black penises is because that's the only pleasure you understand. you know nothing about intellectual stimulation or romanticism, all you care about is busting a quick nut, on behalf of the black race, don't make us the scapegoat for your shortcomings. as far as the white thing, that's a dead argument. white americans have NEVER suffered ANY form of oppression. you guys came here and stole this land from the people who were already here and you've been ravaging throughout hsitory taking what you wanted and giving no regard or respect to anything that doesn't please your agenda. gay white boys are the same ESPECIALLY the young ones, you listen to nothing but your raging hormones which is exactly why HIV is infecting this planet at a mass rate, because a group of white men in new york had to have them some big black penises. congratulations you got what you wanted, oh yeah, at the expense of MILLIONS OF LIVES A YEAR. hope the big black dick was good. my biggest problem with the "big black dick" phenomenon, and i'm not speaking for every black man, just myself, but as as black man to read shit like that makes me feel like when every gay white person looks at me all they see is a good lay. i'm on my way to obtaining my Post-Doctorate in Psychology, i'm a writer, i play sports, i compose music, there's a lot more to me and every other black man in this country than big penises, that's all i was trying to say. i didn't convey it the correct way but basically from the inside looking out, it looks like you're all a bunch of hungry horny wolves looking for "big black men" to appease your sexual appetites because, according to your line of thought, that's the only part of you we can please
     
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    A couple years before...try Emancipation Proclamation.
     
  18. D_Ivana Dickenside

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    that's what i was looking for! i knew proclamation was in there some where.
     
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    Kinda sounds like nobody is going to feel you very well here Marley. I'm sure there is a lot more to you, but you are not showing it very well here so far.

    People have to see something in you to want to get to know the real person, which is more difficult when you just show up scolding with all your post-doctorate credentials. You know this stuff. What's up doc?
     
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    okay, let me put it into simpler terms. this mythology about black men and size feels to me probably the same way women feel when men objectify them cuz that's exactly what you're doing when you feed into that stereotype, objectifying black men. i dunno how many ways i can make this point but being black has NOTHING to do with penis size. some white men have big ones, some black guys have small ones, this stereotype stems from archaic beliefs that black men were ravenous sexual wolves good for nothing more than sexual satisfaction. the "legend" that black men are big is rooted in post civil rights racism, a racism that you ignorant people casually throw around like it's cute
     
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