Well said.Originally posted by Britannic@Feb 21 2005, 09:48 PM
If you want to stop racism, stop it on all sides of the "race" issue. Because, truly, we're all ONE race. The human race.
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Your right naughty it is my choice which is my preference, not racist. Things like Jet Magazine, Black Entertainment Television, Miss Black America and The United Negro College Fund, now those are racist!! I'll probably catch hell over that statement but it is the truth.Originally posted by naughty@Feb 21 2005, 09:48 PM
Pene,
I think it is safe to say that you are an equal opportunity lover from your comments. It is ultimately each person's choice to decide who fits them best and who they will spend time with.
Pappy,
I assume you are talking about gay black males? I could see you saying that to some extent, however I think it is more about the personality than the race.Being in a field that has a high number of gay and lesbian individuals, I think it really is a case by case basis. I have gay men black and white that I work with that you would never suspect and others who have no problem expressing themselves quite flamboyantly. I can not speak for gay males, but I know that in the black community gay males have a hard way to go. So I suspect there may be some degree of defiant over compensation at work there.Also there are many different ways in which people express their sexuality. You may have come upon a great number of more flamboyant gay black males. Whatever the case, your choice is your own.
Dee,
I take my hat off to you. You are one fine example of manhood! Oooh la la! I can not say anything you have said better than you have said it.
I myself basically talk with and date those who I can relate to on a number of levels. Though as I get older I have become a bit more outgoing in my talking to men, those with whom I have had lasting conversation or friendship have usually had a similar mindset and interests. I have, however. had some major surprises along the way. Beauty, integrity, intelligence, and that certain je ne sais quoi have no color.
Naughty
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Originally posted by Pappy@Feb 22 2005, 12:27 AM
Your right naughty it is my choice which is my preference, not racist. Things like Jet Magazine, Black Entertainment Television, Miss Black America and The United Negro College Fund, now those are racist!! I'll probably catch hell over that statement but it is the truth.
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Originally posted by naughty@Feb 21 2005, 11:47 PM
Pappy,
Do I detect a wee bit of anger here? The magazines, organizations ,and events you sited came into being as a result of the people which they represent not being traditionally represented in other more mainstream activities.They have been in existence even back into the time of segregation and continue to serve portions of the population. They are just examples of publications,activities and organizations that serves special interest groups . How are they really different from those that support the opinions of say conservtives, liberals, latinos, gun enthusiasts, etc ? they merely cater to the opinions and concerns of their constituents. As for you choices for a sexual partner. I am sure that most black men would not have any problem with you not desiring them as a partner. The feeling might actually be mutual.
Naughty
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Originally posted by Pappy+Feb 22 2005, 05:09 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Pappy @ Feb 22 2005, 05:09 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-naughty@Feb 21 2005, 11:47 PM
Pappy,
Do I detect a wee bit of anger here? The magazines, organizations ,and events you sited came into being as a result of the people which they represent not being traditionally represented in other more mainstream activities.They have been in existence even back into the time of segregation and continue to serve portions of the population. They are just examples of publications,activities and organizations that serves special interest groups . How are they really different from those that support the opinions of say conservtives, liberals, latinos, gun enthusiasts, etc ? they merely cater to the opinions and concerns of their constituents. As for you choices for a sexual partner. I am sure that most black men would not have any problem with you not desiring them as a partner. The feeling might actually be mutual.
Naughty
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Originally posted by Pene_Negro_Grande+Feb 22 2005, 12:05 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Pene_Negro_Grande @ Feb 22 2005, 12:05 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-Pappy@Feb 22 2005, 12:27 AM
Your right naughty it is my choice which is my preference, not racist. Things like Jet Magazine, Black Entertainment Television, Miss Black America and The United Negro College Fund, now those are racist!! I'll probably catch hell over that statement but it is the truth.
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Originally posted by Pappy@Feb 22 2005, 01:09 AM
Not a bit naughty just stating facts. I do believe that some one needs to look up the definition of racist. These magazines, organizations and events , as you call them, completely exclude people that are not of African-American descent. That is not only racist it's also discriminatory. And unless you were around during the times of segregation you have no idea of what things were like then. How do they differ you ask?? Well the others don't exclude on the basis of race.
As for your statement "I am sure that most black men would not have any problem with you not desiring them as a partner. The feeling might actually be mutual." How would you know what a gay black man would want sexually??
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Pappy,
I have always enjoyed your comments. Segregation and discrimination did not end in 1954. It is alive and well in America today.I guess I can understand your feeling about them being totally about Blacks but did you look at my other examples which pretty much do similar things. You are very right I can not speak for Black men but I can speak as someone who probably wiould not go for someone who had an obvious disdain for me.
naughty
Naughty,
It's not disdain, it's a preference based on passed experiences. Nothing more, nothing less.
Pappy,
I have always enjoyed your comments. Segregation and discrimination did not end in 1954. It is alive and well in America today.I guess I can understand your feeling about them being totally about Blacks but did you look at my other examples which pretty much do similar things. You are very right I can not speak for Black men but I can speak as someone who probably wiould not go for someone who had an obvious disdain for me.
naughty
Naughty,
It's not disdain, it's a preference based on passed experiences. Nothing more, nothing less.
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And that is that is what I thought this was coming from and I mentioned that to Naughty from your first comments...And Pappy I went to a "Historically Black University" and I had a lot of white and non-blacks friends who went there on minority scholarships because they were the minority on campus but were getting a free ride because they were smart and wanted to be educated and didn't care what color the professor was or that the majority of their peers when of a different color...We also had whites who pledged (traditional black fraternities and sororities)...And all students of all colors were under the same student union...And the other university about a mile away (a majority white university) had a black student union and I going to call it a white student union in this day and age which was 2 or 3 yrs ago...Like I said I try to look at the bigger picture...
And Pappy - question - have you had any situation w/non-blacks that were not the best situation...Like I said before I have got burnt by just as many minorities as non-minorities and I still folks an equal chance...But like I said before I don't have a problem w/folks preferences - we all have them...This thread is really starting to get a little serious - huh...
Originally posted by Pene_Negro_Grande@Feb 22 2005, 01:09 AM
And Pappy - question - have you had any situation w/non-blacks that were not the best situation...Like I said before I have got burnt by just as many minorities as non-minorities and I still folks an equal chance...But like I said before I don't have a problem w/folks preferences - we all have them...This thread is really starting to get a little serious - huh...
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