I just came across this interesting story about two young boys who both were obsessed with playing with "girl's" toys and wanting to be girls. Their parents sought two different counselors, one family was encouraged to let their son identify as a girl, the other family was encouraged to remove anything girl-related from their son's life. Heartbreaking parental decisions. You can read or listen to the story here: Two Families Grapple with Sons' Gender Preferences : NPR If your son or daughter was obsessed with being identified as the opposite gender, how would you handle it? Let them do what they want with it or force them to be the "correct" gender?