Principessa
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When I was in the 7th grade my dad nicknamed me Dear Abby, because all the girls would call me for advice, which I easily gave. It was always good advice and spot on. My dad was amazed but my mom said she knew I was an old soul in a little girls body.I have something to confess but i don't quite know how to say it. After reading all the odd foibles, quirks, and neurotic tendencies of everyone here, I now understand why I love it here. :smile:
My oddity is that I love people who have oddities. Although I am pretty normal, I seem to gravitate towards and also attract people who are messed up in different ways. People like that are usually far more interesting than people who seem to be normal, and the interesting qualities are not just due to their afflictions.
Part of this quality is from the fact that except for those that harm others, I have a marked inability to pass judgement on people. Somehow people sense this and want to tell me all the bad parts of their life story. It happens to me on airplanes all the time.
As a result, I am the one who people call as they are comtemplating suicide or in the process of doing it. For some reason, when this happens, I get eerily calm and I am able to listen to their story and usually save the situation. It has happen to me quite a few times.
I think it has to do with a concern for anyone who might be marginalized for any particular reason. For example, although I am as straight as they come, if I lived in an urban area (and not the boonies of Ohio), I probably would have a lot of gay friends.
Does this all sound odd, or can anyone relate to this?
When we all get together my nearest and dearest friends look like a modern day cast list for misfit island. :tongue: