Okay the past couple of weeks have been totally crazy in my world. So I haven't stopped in and read much here but I finally got a breather. So I thought I would share a few bazaar thoughts that have ran through my head. If a straight person can be a homophob, then can a gay person be a hetrophob. or If a man has a problem with ladies posting ladies issues here is he considered a Femaphob. I told it you it was bazaar shit. I recently told another adult site fuck you cancel my user name because of what I considered very child like behavior. Had my pictures removed and everything. I am only 36yrs old but I don't care for people who give advice to a gal who wants to get a guy drunk in order to do something with him sexually that he wouldn't do otherwise. She never even bothered to say what it was. Yet the admin and moderators all join in with dozens of regulars to help her get this guy drunk. They never even bothered to find out what she wanted to do with him till a page later. And when a voice of reason said now what a minute isn't this consider illegal in some states every one just ignored it. I found myself truelly discussed. Later the gal who made the thread said she wanted to get him drunk so she could give him a BJ. Now in my book if this guy needed to be drunk in order for her to do this, tells me he don't trust her and she is making things worse for herself by tricking him. For me a BJ is something very intimate and you have to have certian degree of trust to allow a woman to touch you in this matter. I know for myself I love playing with my hubby's package orally but I do it only when I have the presents of mind to fully pay attention to that part of his anatomy. I have injured him in the past when I wasn't totally focus on the tasked at hand and vowed never to harm my precious toy again. So when I read that this gal wants to trick him into something he clearly doesn't feel comfortable with her doing just sicken me. Of course that was the final stray to my desire to be with The forum. There had been some other things as well. Sorry if I sound like a bitch but I have my values and I am not going to stay somewhere that goes against them. I told my husband the lpsg has been the only place I truly feel comfortable sharing my opinion and be myself. I thank you all for allowing me this small rant and good night.