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i had this discussion with a friend today...

cigarettes
bad teeth
bad breath
body odor
gay-for-pay porn
shallow people
overly effeminate men
shaved bodies (including arms and legs)
over-processed look (dyed hair, plucked eyebrows, etc...)
fake tans
fake hair
trendy anything (jeans, sunglasses, haircuts, etc...)

please feel free to add yours to the list
 

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i think you got it all,,, how about too much cologne? even if its good too much is bad.
 

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baby talk
lack of originality
(if I know what you're gonna say or do before you do it - it's a wrap)
no sense of humor
smoking or smell like they do
people too into their pets
judgmental/knee jerk responses
unwarranted emotionality
Ewww, dirty towels!

like Dcw4, too much perfume, lotion, hair spray, etc.
I want to lean and get a whiff, not smell 'em coming a block away.

:tdown: Fake hair and excessive make up
In the pic I sent you, the hair is all real and I am sans makeup. :naughty: :biggrin1:
 
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baby talk
lack of originality
(if I know what you're gonna say or do before you do it - it's a wrap)
no sense of humor
smoking or smell like they do
people too into their pets
judgmental/knee jerk responses
unwarranted emotionality
Ewww, dirty towels!

like Dcw4, too much perfume, lotion, hair spray, etc.
I want to lean and get a whiff, not smell 'em coming a block away.


In the pic I sent you, the hair is all real and I am sans makeup
. :naughty: :biggrin1:

...and you looked delicious, too :yumyum: :smile:
 

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...and you looked delicious, too :yumyum: :smile:

Ok. I'm officially jealous! :tongue:

My biggest turn off is when a girl just sits there.
Oh that ruins everything. And when a girl won't participate. Once I went soft when this girl refused to put the condom on. It totally ruined the moment. Especially after all the foreplay we did. Just so disappointing to say no to something like that.

Why would someone do that? To this day I dont know and I still want to.
 

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Bad conversationalists, people who bring in heated controversial topics expecting you to side with them just because they're hot (no freaking way), racists, people who tell me "I know you think I'm hot", guys who are shorter than me, guys who are too hairy (sorry, just personal preference), guys with very feminine voice...
 

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hairy knuckles & toes
comb overs
monobrows
Guys that tuck sweaters into their pants & wear a belt. Sweaters belong outside the pant.
 
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Arrogance.
Superficiality.
Body odor.
Unconscious behavior.
Ear Wax build up. When you can see gold in them there ear canals, q-tip that mess out!
Excessive body hair. I just can't face it. No offense but it's not my thing personally.
Smoking. I detest the odor, end of story.

All of my turn off's amount to bad grooming habits.


Most everything can be fixed cosmetically, so I understand the bad teeth bit being a turn off but that is not always the person's fault. Dental work is so very exspensive. This why we have so many make over shows in the United States.
 

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i had this discussion with a friend today...

cigarettes
bad teeth
bad breath
body odor
gay-for-pay porn
shallow people
overly effeminate men
shaved bodies (including arms and legs)
over-processed look (dyed hair, plucked eyebrows, etc...)
fake tans
fake hair
trendy anything (jeans, sunglasses, haircuts, etc...)

please feel free to add yours to the list
let me add a few..
walk like a girl, wig, trim eye browns, to skinny, spend way to much time at a gym.
 

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I too love men. MEN.
Turnoffs:

a Man shaving any part of his skin except his face (shaved pubic areas are epidemic on this site - I absolutely can't even look at that)

smoking

femininity in a male human animal...I want a supermale, 100% boy

talking (just not necessary)

gay culture, all of it

the ridiculous in gay porn: like a guy giving another guy a blowjob while he keeps looking flirtatiously at the camera - wtf?
OR all the excessive, over-the-top moaning, grunting and screaming...in real sex, guys are normally generally pretty quiet when it's feeling right and good

the gay-for-pay sites had some convincing characters back at the beginning, but that idea is long gone...flaming queens sold as straight is just ridiculous, I can't look at that either
 

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Ok. I'm officially jealous! :tongue:

My biggest turn off is when a girl just sits there.
Oh that ruins everything. And when a girl won't participate. Once I went soft when this girl refused to put the condom on. It totally ruined the moment. Especially after all the foreplay we did. Just so disappointing to say no to something like that.

Why would someone do that? To this day I dont know and I still want to.

she probably freaked when she saw the size of that monster of yours!

I would have been speechless! Dude, your huge! (and very blessed)..
 

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I too love men. MEN.
Turnoffs:

a Man shaving any part of his skin except his face (shaved pubic areas are epidemic on this site - I absolutely can't even look at that)

smoking

femininity in a male human animal...I want a supermale, 100% boy

talking (just not necessary)

gay culture, all of it

the ridiculous in gay porn: like a guy giving another guy a blowjob while he keeps looking flirtatiously at the camera - wtf?
OR all the excessive, over-the-top moaning, grunting and screaming...in real sex, guys are normally generally pretty quiet when it's feeling right and good

the gay-for-pay sites had some convincing characters back at the beginning, but that idea is long gone...flaming queens sold as straight is just ridiculous, I can't look at that either

I totally agree Steinway! ON everything you wrote!