It never ceases to amaze me how people spend more time planning their outfit for the club than they spend planning to have kids. Matter of fact, they don't plan to have kids. They're either not careful and accidently end up with one, or they wake up and decide "Hey, I'm gonna have some babies!" I have a friend in Chicago, he lives with his girlfriend and her parents. She tells me she might be pregnant, I'm think a condom broke. Nope, they've been TRYING to have kids. First of all, their relationship is the typical whirlwind puppy-dog romance. Beyond that, they can barely afford to keep their phones turned on. How are you planning on having a kid when nothing in your life is stable? They're unhappy living with her parents, so are they going to pack up their baby and buy a house on, what, credit? They don't have enough to make a deposit for a light bill let alone their own crib. A baby isn't some little doll you can dress up in Sean Jean and show off to the neighbors, babies are expensive. Neither of them have a dime saved up, so what are you going to do when your baby graduates high-school and don't have 2 cents to spend on a college education? What if, halfway through the pregnancy, you decide you don't want to be together anymore? Both of you have expressed doubts in the relationship, so how do you go from that to "We're having a baby"? I'm sick and tired of people reproducing like it's no big deal. I just wish people knew how much they're screwin' up the world by irresponsibly bringing children in it that they're ill-equipped to raise properly. The little bastard you bring into the world today is going to be robbing me in 15 years so PLEASE stop treating reproduction like it's a sitcom where any problems that are introduced meet a happy ending in 20 minutes. Rant over, that is all.