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Women may have got away with this once upon a time but now lone parents have to go on Jobseeker's Allowance. They have to sign on. And they have to seek work once their children are at nursery/school. The problem area is those women who have more than one child with the same partner and who persist in presenting themselves as lone parents. These tend to be women who have been on benefits for a number of years and have learned how to work the system.
I know this is the theory. But we are just going into a recession and the jobs are not there, so women in this position are very often not getting jobs.
Actually I doubt whether they should necessarily be working, and I'm not in favour of dragooning into work. Children from a single family need all the care they can get, and that may well mean they need a mum at home. My problem is that single mums are making the decision to have children in the first place. Today we have contraception. Most ofthe time it works.