Rant: Lack of privacy

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Joseph, Oct 27, 2009.

  1. Joseph

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    c2c or a long long jerk off? IMPOSSIBLE!
    I can only run to the bathroom and jerk off as fast as possible, 10-30 seconds.

    Perhaps in the evening, but still it has to be quick... My family is always there and it's presence fills me with anger and hatred :mad:

    They talk, argue, listen to music... I just can't concentrate!

    It feels sometimes to me as if I was cursed! My bro is now 24/7 at home which lowers my chances of being home alone to nearly zero.
    This morning it happened, bro dad gone and mom's at work.
    They said they'd be back around 1 pm.
    That means I can assume there is a risk of them returning at 12.... But to avoid risk I shall end my "fun" at 11 am already...
    It was 8 am, I took my clothes off and sat on my couch with the laptop, I checked lpsg and yahoo etc if any of my friends are online and willing to have some c2c with me........ nope... waiting...
    9 am... still noone... i notice that my dad's greedy and there's barely any heating in the room... BUT FUCK IT! I won't let them win!
    10 am... Noone at all is online... I dont feel in the mood to ask strangers on LPSG and since it's cold I decided to just read a little porn story I wanted to read since 2 months (again... thanks to my family it takes that long) I read the first half page... just introductory text, no erotic stuff yet and then...
    "We're back"
    "THOSE SONS OF BITCHES!" I scream in my mind. They say 1 pm.... And come back 3 hours earlier smiling.... I did nothing erotic... All I did was sit on the couch naked.... and since it was so cold, I couldn't enjoy it, I kept stretching my balls cause the cold made them shrink like hell.



    I feel such anger... I swear I would murder someone just to get out of this house and be free! There's some porn I wanted to watch since 9 months, but I gave up on it... I just save it on my hard drive to PRETEND I watched it... ARGH
     
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    Moving out of home will be a great release (in every sense) for you.
     
  3. Joseph

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    Yeah it's a big dream of mine... planning it since years, but it seems like fate/God throws more shit into my house to motivate me even more to get the hell out... which really isn't necessary...
     
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    I jsut know that a little too much too, hopefully i'll have my own home next summer if i sucess in my first year of medecine, but being so much restrain in that way i have some difficulties to concentrate on my studies -__-
    I think i'll be a "whore" next year lol
     
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    If you don't like it leave. There is nothing that grants you the right to sit alone when it is not your house.

    When you are paying the bills, you can put the heat at whatever level you want.

    Do you realize how much of a spoiled child whinng this looks like?
     
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    I don't know if you was speaking to me, but in my case, it's not like i don't like my parents ( much more the opposite i must say) it's just that i don't, and can't (psychological thing) have sex when they're around, it's a part of me i don't want them to know ( how i am with girl/guy).
    As far as i'm concerned, leaving is not an option for the moment, since my studies does not enable me to work something else than my lessons for that year, so it's just a dead end.
     
  7. Joseph

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    I dont like my family and I wouldn't call myself a spoiled brat, no way, noone is gonna get me down now, I have enough of being emo. I'm not a brat that sits on his ass and demands stuff (as opposed to my brother). I'm learning and making preparations for college, I save up money, I plan to work hard to obtain that apartment somewhere and be free from them.

    I don't want to hear anymore "Your not thankful" or "Your so selfish/materialistic"... (this is what some people tell me, seriously) If you think a person should just accept life as it is, just take it and not complain, then go ahead, if that suits you... Yet I reach out for the stars! I have my desires and I want them to be fulfilled and I shall have to (and want to) fulfill them myself with hard work.

    And you might be saying that being home alone is such a simple thing and I make it sound like it's some holy Grail........ well this house/family made me think of it as such.

    I'm gonna have sex, I'm gonna have fun, I'll be free and independent!
     
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    Yes you are acting like a spoiled brat, you're able to save money because your parents are subsidising you, it's their house, their heating, their couch on which you want to jerk off.

    In any case why do you need to sit naked in their sitting room, why can't you jerk off in your bedroom like everyone else?
     
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    In this forum as well as in his parents home, this boy needs some alone time. My suggestion is to let this guy alone and not respond to his posts. He is reaching for the stars....I suppose that is what he calls his penis. Tiptoe out of t his forum and leave him be.
     
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    Yeah, that is what I don't understand either, can't u just wank off in ur room. I just wank off in my bedroom... My family is at home too, but my room is my room and I do whatever I want there. And I can't lock my door... So they can enter. Just ask for more privacy, that they leave u alone when u are in your room. they understand, you are 19, all youth need their privacy.

    And if that isn't possible, then a young adult their mind must be full of ideas to wank off. Go to the swimmingpool, do some laps, get in your cabine and jo or go for a walk in the forest and wank on a private place. Or when you take a shower, wank. It doesn't have to be that hard or there don't have to be porn involved to wank off.
     
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    As far as i'm concerned, i am really grateful of them to raise me and provide me everything to live my life correctly...
    In my case it's just that both family and sex are to separate matter, and cannot have that while i'm still at my family home ( and i'm talking about sex, not jerking which i can do fine btw)...
     
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    Want some cheese with that whine? :p

    Seriously though, if you're trying to have actual sex with a person, just go to their place.

    If you're just looking for a good wank, why not just let the family catch you mid-wank on the sofa, and maybe then they'll have second thoughts about coming home so much earlier than stated.
     
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    I can remember the frustration and anxiety I felt during several periods of my life that were characterized by chronic lack-of-privacy. It sometimes seemed as if I had no escape from prying eyes, snooping hands, and eavesdropping ears. Maddening, really.

    All I can say is things will improve when you are able to get out on your own.
     
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    anger and hatred? yikes. that seems a little too intense because of something like not being able to fuck yourself properly.
     
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    If you have your own room..then the whole night is there t wank...
    Else.. go to a mall or something and use the public restroom...I know it's a lotta work, but one gotta improvise...
    Growing up, I had to share my room with my sis and bro..luckily we had our own beds by the time I was in my teens... so I learned how to jack quietly...
    Then they moved out.. and I had the rom to myself... but then I had to share the room in college.... by that time it was understood..if I or my roommate's taking long time in bathroom... what could possibly be happening...
    Just print out the LPSG stories... and use public restroom.... or pretend you you are taking a looong bath in bath tub... :D
     
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    your family should stay out until the exact hour they stated, never change their plans...out of consideration for your wanking practices???

    give me a fucking break. seriously.
    it's their home too. if you're free to come and go then so are they.

    are you taking pains to make sure they all get wank/sex time? staying out of the house for set amounts of time or babysitting younger siblings so that the others can wank? of course you're bloody not.

    just grow up.
     
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    and on top of all this...

    i'm pretty sure you won't fucking die from not jerking off.
    stop being so petty, dude.

    there's way more important shit in life than jerking your meat around,
    and the fact that you even got mad to the point of "hatred" is disturbing.
     
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    and how many times do you suppose their sex lives were interrupted because you were crying all night with colic, or peed the bed, or had a nightmare, or wanted a glass of water, or woke up early?
     
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    :eek:

    [breathless [gasp]
     
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    oh yeah, and i'm totally grossed out that you're sitting your bare arse on the sofa.
    i seriously hope you showered first! because nobody wants to sit in your buttsweat.
     
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