rant

so there is a female coworker that i guess you can say we flirt with back and forth. it's more like banter as everyone perceives it. but she says quite a bit of suggestive things to people and they have finally just come to terms it's her form of humor. problem is i like the attention. of course i act like she is a pain in the ass and she is the type of person who wants to be liked by everyone. she is single, bipolar and runs through men like water through fingers. she has already fucked two guys at work (been there a year) and is divorced 3 times and has a 7 year old daughter before the age of 30. the things that i like about her is that she seems to be close to her family and her daughter seems like a good kid. she is crazy like me and i like that. but i guess i'm just lonely as i would like a woman in my life now and it isn't easy being a northerner in armpit, alabama.

 

aw, well...i suppose you have a decision to make, sir.

 

Don't shit where you eat.

 

hell yes! and run from her! fast!

 

bipolar for serious? as in medicated or...?

it is REALLY hard to be in a relationship with someone suffering from mental illness. it is not something to be taken lightly. i know this from personal experience. you have to throw your own ego out the window and make your way through it as a couple.

i wish you the best of luck if you decide to pursue.

 

I agree, and while I have been living with depression for many years I have to say even I would be hesitant to enter a relationship with a bi-polar person. They are just too unpredictable for me, as I don't adjust well to change. :redface: In lieu of taking your advice, I highly recommend Dougielongfellows.

Also, having a 7 year old at age 30 is not that big a deal. I wouldn't cast aspersions on her for that. Having a 7 year old at 23 would raise my eyebrows. Oh wait a sec, just re-read the OP. Three divorces by the age of 30?!?! :yikes: RUN!!! RUN far and fast! Don't even think about doing just the sex thing or you will get sucked into her world of crazy.

 

run away. now. and don't look back. if you feel like you need some company, don't turn to this woman. she's bi-polar, has a kid, has already banged two guys you work with, and "goes through men like water through her fingers." do you really think anything good is gonna happen if you hook up with her?

 

The condom fairy always speaks the truth!

 

i'll listen to the condom fairy. thanks for the responses.

 

i'm glad someone said it.

 

I notice you said she's "crazy like me". Two crazies in a relationship is one too many, at least. Don't you think? If you think you're lonely now, wait 'til she spits you out. Oh boy.

 

yep, condom fairy's words are the law!

 

i was hoping she swallowed. haha