Rape, a turn on?

[TheRob]

I'm ashamed to say that I used to have the rape fantasy thing. With me, I think it was more that I was fighting the whole same sex attraction thing and being taken against my will would then be someone elses fault, not mine.

I can honestly say, that when real life struck and it happened, that fantasy completely disappeared and now I even have a difficult time with any type of dominance during sex. My last gf liked having her hair pulled hard during sex, and I couldn't even do that comfortably.

you shouldn't be any more ashamed then the women with the same fantasy

btw it is one of the most common sexual fantacies amoung women

 

[TheRob]

I think that wanting the control to be out of your hands, placed in the other persons hands and enjoy them having their way with you is probably want the OP is really wanting. Rape is just a common word used by people who don't know how to explain exactly what it is they are looking for. Even though rape would include psychophysiological damage, the rape fantasizer doesn't really want that. This would fall under the category of more surprise submission domination techniques. Which I'm all for.

I'd love to suprise you my dear

 

[TheRob]

It must be rare.

it isn't as rare as you might think
which dosn't mean that it's common just well, most people would be suprised