Rape fantasy? Women, men str8t or gay your feelings?

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  1. Wyldgusechaz

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    I understand a common fantasy of women is rape.

    I have linked here clips to what I think is one of the hottest rape scenes ever, from Peckinpahs movie *Straw Dogs* Hope they work.

    Susan George Movies featuring Susan George nude naked movies videos clips mpegs.

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    Its a mainstream movie with Dustin Hoffman. If my subconscious mind wants to mess with my conscious mind it pushes this scene into the front and I get hard in a second at the most awkward times. After viewing it just now I can barely think.

    Disclaimer: I would never even consider raping a women in reality but the thought turns me on and I use in my fantasy world.

    All my fantasies of rape involve the guy having a huge cock. A small cock just doesn't work for me. This scene heats me up because I like the idea of transformation. I imagine the rapist has a thick cock and and he pushes it past her pussy *ring* as Chrysalis imagined in another post, and after a few thrusts the woman's body betrays her and she starts to fuck him back, pissing away her marriage, her family, her standing in the community as a good girl and now she is a slut for big cock.

    Ladies if you could watch the clips, they aren't hard core and tell me what you think. Guys do you ever think about rape, either gay or str8t? I have never thought about raping a good girl but there have been some snooty ass bitches that have acted so high and mighty and I have thought needed a good forceable fucking( just thought never ever do). You really well hung guys have you ever been confronted by some arrogant woman and wanted to just whip out your cock cuz its huge and generate a little respect from her? do gay men fantasize raping or being raped by a huge cock?

    By the way, this scene basically ruined the actress Susan George's career it was so graphic but its one of the seminal movie scenes ever. She was only 21. Great primal rush to me and shockingly acted so well by a young woman. Transcendant movie by one of the best directors ever.
     
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    Wow, you picked a bad time to do this.
     
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    Why? What did I miss?
     
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    Yeah. Not going to touch this right now. Even though my final paper in one of my psych classes was about female rape fantasy.
     
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    WHAT? I seriously doubt THAT. Where did you come to this understanding?

    I won't tell anyone what to fantasize about, but I will nto participate in anyone's rape fanatsy.

    End of story.
     
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    Alright fine I'll say at least this much

    it's an extremely common fantasy, Lex. Among the most common, actually. Of course, in the context of the fantasy, the woman is not ACTUALLY being raped, and they control absolutely everything because it is their own fantasy. Having a rape fantasy is completely different from actually wishing to be raped.
     
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    Indeed this was not the right time. See here.
     
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    Sorry I posted it now. I missed the other rape thread.

    However Lex I don't post stuff generally without a firm knowledge of whence I speak.

    Rape fantasy - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

    I wouldn't have posted it if I didn't think it was important. Maybe it isn't but it sure isn't one of the endless *look at my cock do you thnk its big?* Watch the clips and let me know your thoughts. We are adults, lets talk as active vital adults with sexual drives. Not every secret is happy or pleasant.

    BTW this isn't a crude porn film, its a piece of film art by talented artists. I think we can discuss art.
     
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    If we are still allowed to air our views, I would put a fantasy about watching a real rape in the oh dear oh dear oh dear category and would also consider it very different to "rape" fantasies such as Nic discusses.

    There was an horrific rape scene in a French film I once saw, ending with the girl having - actually I can't bring my self to talk about it - it makes me feel physically sick.

    Just my opinion.
     
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    It's just bad timing, that's all.
     
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    Thanks for the clarification. Still not participating in it, however.
     
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    Nowhere did I say that we should not or could not talk about it. If I choose to not want to talk about something, that makes me no more of less adult than anyone else.

    I certainly have my own sexual fantasies. Some of them involve agressive play, verbal shit talk, etc.

    Carry on.
     
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    I haven't studied the phenomenon, so I can't really comment. I'm trying to distinguish between a domination/submission fantasy, and a rape fantasy. If you are using the terms interchangeably, I understand it. If there is a distinction, I find it fairly horrifying.
     
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    Wyldgusechaz said: "I understand a common fantasy of women is rape.
    I have linked here clips to what I think is one of the hottest rape scenes ever, from Peckinpahs movie *Straw Dogs* Hope they work."

    [quote=Lex;659142]WHAT? I seriously doubt THAT. Where did you come to this understanding?

    I won't tell anyone what to fantasize about, but I will nto participate in anyone's rape fanatsy.

    End of story.[/quote]

    There is a HUGE difference between having a fantasy in which the fantasizer is in total control of the situation, and actual (or realistic portrayals of) rape as the sordid drama it is in the real world.
    Better to let those on this board who have this fantasy, explain it to you -- but I bet you'll find in 99.9% of those cases that the appeal is in testing their psychological limits, imagining being so overwhelmed that they'd not to have to "think" about what's happening, relinquishing control, etc. They should be "allowed" to have this fantasy if they wish and in no way, shape of form should it be taken as an indicator that they approve of the dreadful violation of actual rape or would enjoy viewing the clips you provided in your link.
     
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    I am thinking more along the lines of dom/sub stuff when I talk about aggressive play with verbal stuff. I did not, however, think that is what that OP was aiming for.
     
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    My bad. I never saw the other threads or read them and the feelings they have generated. However I might choose to disagree that its not really a good time.

    Exposing raw feelings about darker subjects might be the best way to understand them.

    Pin the thread, pull it i don't care. But running from feelings doesn't solve a thing. For other reasons I have horrible post traumatic shock syndrome. I used to think it was a bogus bullshit idea floated by psyche docs until it happened to me. Now I understand and have great empathy for people like soldiers and fire fighters because i was there.

    BTW this was a very disturbing film and remains so to this day. Films, art, that generate strong feelings are what make us alive, IMO. On the flip side I have seen 2 paintings, in person, Sandro Botticellis *Birth of Venus* and Jean Renoir's *Luncheon of the Boating Party* that are so beautiful that it would be hard to share the emotion they create in me.

    I was honest in what I said about how I feel. I wish I had chosen a different time certainly.
     
  18. Wyldgusechaz

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    r would enjoy viewing the clips you provided in your link.[/quote]

    No where did I say these are enjoyable. Charlie Browns Christmas Story is enjoyable.

    But on some level a darker level in me, who is by nature a pretty low key affable non confrontational guy, its affects me.
     
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    I haven't read the other thread.

    I do seem to think this is an interesting post by wyldguse though. A lady friend of mine fantasizes about this. She wants to think of me as a stranger and basically 'rape' her, overpowering her as she tries her hardest to fight me off. I don't think there is anything particularly out of the ordinary in this fantasy (compared to some of the shit I read about here). Especially about the part that it turns her into a big cock lover. I also agree with the Guse that hiding or ignoring issues are not ways to deal with things. Like I said, I didn't read the other thread and maybe it got Deep. But I think we are all grown.

    Its very primal, we were all cavemen at some point in our genes history.
     
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    Yep, I do agree with DC..as being want to be 'taken' as dominated and to take in a safe situation is cool to play, there is rules limits and etc.

    Even myself had experience of molestation when was a child for sure the line and distintion is very clear drawn in my mind of what is horrifying and what is roleplay, play etc.
     
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