Rare find? Purely (would never consider bottoming) tops?

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While I enjoy topping, too, I do have a strong preference to bottom. I would be perfectly content to be with a total top, provided he was still affectionate and passionate. I have a hunch that many total tops make love in a very vanilla arm's length kind of way. I want to be intertwined and enmeshed with my undulating and pounding partner, not just poked and prodded.

THIS! ^ A BF years ago was totally versatile. We'd switch fuck all the time and it was truly the best love making ever.
 

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Any other guys out there total tops? You never get fucked and don't suck dick?

I was a total top from age 20 to age 65. The exception was that I did suck my bottoms' cocks while fucking them. Mother Nature effected a change in me though and now I consider myself versatile; she went overboard a bit and my preference now is for sex with guys with huge endowments! You can read between the lines what I enjoy doing with them!:biggrin1:
 

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my ex was a total top. He only wanted to fuck nothing more. Hell, he didn't even like kissing. Sometimes I wondered what the hell THAT was about. I'm not sure if he's the same today as he was two years ago but I'm guess he is. In bed he was a total bore. He fucked finished and went to sleep.

Is is crazy that I find that super attractive? Of course, with a guy like this I'd still need love and affection, for him to hold me in bed and kiss me. But I think tending to this guys every need, sucking him whenever he asks, having sex whenever and only when he decides, etc, etc, in exchange of him being affectionate outside of sex--would be a really interesting and hot dynamic. Being equal outside of sex, but tending to his every sexual need without him tending to yours (which he still, clearly, is if this is something you enjoy).

Any thoughts on that concept?
 

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I usually get off from just sucking the top, I prefer a total top when I'm in the mood for one and it's fine with me if he doesn't like to give a bj as long as he has a great cock then I'm fine but maybe I don't count since I'm not attracted to guys I just like to suck a hard cock.
 
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A total top not of interest to me, I am mainly top in this relationship - previously I've been vers and just bottom.. I think as a relationship developes it is nice to do what you enjoy.
Unfortunately my boyfriend is total bottom, I like to suck, kiss, hug, use toys as I fuck - its all about the pleasure of it all for both - rather than labels I think though.
 

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About 4-yrs ago met a 45-something Cuban totally as you describe.
GoodLooking-8" uncut-no seduction or small talk-do not touch my ass kind of guy-Suck My Dick-Slam-Bam-Pop-zip up-Out the Door. He requires to be in total control. I personally found him to be a total bore yet he seems to have great success around town. Have never met anyone before nor since. I also have not returned any of his calls or internet messages.

I usually get off from just sucking the top, I prefer a total top when I'm in the mood for one and it's fine with me if he doesn't like to give a bj as long as he has a great cock then I'm fine but maybe I don't count since I'm not attracted to guys I just like to suck a hard cock.

Not attracted to guys at all? What makes you like sucking dick?
 

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I started out vers. then I went 7 years only as a top. I hadn't had a good experience as a bottom so I only topped and it was a lot of fun. Now I am back to being vers because I am in a relationship and want my partner to enjoy being a top too.

Looks like my dream of being with a top only guy is just a dream then:(
 

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Is is crazy that I find that super attractive? Of course, with a guy like this I'd still need love and affection, for him to hold me in bed and kiss me. But I think tending to this guys every need, sucking him whenever he asks, having sex whenever and only when he decides, etc, etc, in exchange of him being affectionate outside of sex--would be a really interesting and hot dynamic. Being equal outside of sex, but tending to his every sexual need without him tending to yours (which he still, clearly, is if this is something you enjoy).

Any thoughts on that concept?

This is a dominance and submission fantasy/fetish. You are a Sub looking for Dom. Shouldn't be hard to find except when combining it with affection outside of the bedroom. This is quite possible but you might have to lay down clear ground rules to get what you want, otherwise you might find that total top pretty cold and boring.

For me, I've had several total tops in the Middle East. It seems to be quite common and quite acceptable there, though bottoming is frowned upon (or sentenced to death as the case may be). You might want to look for an Arab man. They're sexy in all kinds of ways. Among Arab tops the only difference I found between straight and gay was the straights won't kiss you. Neither will suck your cock.

I want a top that I can tease, no bootay until he rims me and sits on my face, then I'll think about it. I'll suck his cock for a little while but I get bored easily.
 

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This is a dominance and submission fantasy/fetish. You are a Sub looking for Dom. Shouldn't be hard to find except when combining it with affection outside of the bedroom. This is quite possible but you might have to lay down clear ground rules to get what you want, otherwise you might find that total top pretty cold and boring.

For me, I've had several total tops in the Middle East. It seems to be quite common and quite acceptable there, though bottoming is frowned upon (or sentenced to death as the case may be). You might want to look for an Arab man. They're sexy in all kinds of ways. Among Arab tops the only difference I found between straight and gay was the straights won't kiss you. Neither will suck your cock.

I want a top that I can tease, no bootay until he rims me and sits on my face, then I'll think about it. I'll suck his cock for a little while but I get bored easily.

Yeah for sure, that makes sense. I couldn't handle him being like that outside of sex though. I can imagine that would be very boring. Sure, I can be a bit domestic if he wants and cook etc, but still needs to treat a guy right!!

Sr8 girls have it so easy, they don't even know it lol. They've got what I want!
 

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Ive only had my dick sucked once by a guy, and once by a TS..

Thats about it... I have no interest in actually doing anything for a guy..plus i'm really into TS and less so guys..The guy who sucked my cock wore make up..

But I think I am the type of guy who wouldn't give an inch in certain things..
I don't even eat pussy so I guess i'm overall quite selfish, and every girl I fuck complain about it..Ohwell.. I think it's possible tho to meet someone as selfish as I am..

I am afraid of fucking ass tho, I think I might send someone to the hospital .. plus I wouldn't do that with just anyone!! Fucking pussy causes enough problem already in terms of bleeding lol..No idea what would happen to ass.
 

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Ive only had my dick sucked once by a guy, and once by a TS..

Thats about it... I have no interest in actually doing anything for a guy..plus i'm really into TS and less so guys..The guy who sucked my cock wore make up..

But I think I am the type of guy who wouldn't give an inch in certain things..
I don't even eat pussy so I guess i'm overall quite selfish, and every girl I fuck complain about it..Ohwell.. I think it's possible tho to meet someone as selfish as I am..

I am afraid of fucking ass tho, I think I might send someone to the hospital .. plus I wouldn't do that with just anyone!! Fucking pussy causes enough problem already in terms of bleeding lol..No idea what would happen to ass.

How big is it? I'm young, but I'm sure some of these experienced guys could take you..?
 

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How big is it? I'm young, but I'm sure some of these experienced guys could take you..?

I only know the girth!! which 6.5inches when I measured, dick usually gets bigger with the help of others .. I live in Toronto too :biggrin1: