Rare find? Purely (would never consider bottoming) tops?

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I'm a completely queer non-versatile top, and the older I get the less interested I am in sucking cock.

Just my two pennies...
 
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I am a total top but have tried bottoming a few times only because if 90% of guys are into it then there must be something to it. However I have never gotten off on it because every time I have tried it hurts like its the first time.

As for sucking dick, i find it extremely boring. It's the ass that turns me on. However the only time I get into sucking dick is when its helping my index finger enlarge your prostate. It's a total turn on being able to tell the guy is about to come before he can since the load drops into the prostate sack first. There is no better sex organ than the prostate IMHO.

Btw about the dick sucking, its just one small part of the "process" since its the finger that's giving most of the pleasure.... Here's the recipe for the most intense blowjob.

1. Receiver laying back on couch or bed.
2. Right index finger shoved all the way in, slightly bent so its massaging the prostate.
3. Balls massaged with the other four fingers
4. Dick being stroked with the left hand.
5. Mouth following the direction of the left hand.
 
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I am a total top but have tried bottoming a few times only because if 90% of guys are into it then there must be something to it. However I have never gotten off on it because every time I have tried it hurts like its the first time.

As for sucking dick, i find it extremely boring. It's the ass that turns me on. However the only time I get into sucking dick is when its helping my index finger enlarge your prostate. It's a total turn on being able to tell the guy is about to come before he can since the load drops into the prostate sack first. There is no better sex organ than the prostate IMHO.

Btw about the dick sucking, its just one small part of the "process" since its the finger that's giving most of the pleasure.... Here's the recipe for the most intense blowjob.

1. Receiver laying back on couch or bed.
2. Right index finger shoved all the way in, slightly bent so its massaging the prostate.
3. Balls massaged with the other four fingers
4. Dick being stroked with the left hand.
5. Mouth following the direction of the left hand.
Agreed. I am more into the ass than sucking which I'll do for him, not usually for my own pleasure unless he's huge which I will then deep throat.

Great recipe for a BJ done right.
I'd throw in some rimming - can't lose.

You sound like I guy I'd love to fuck real slow. I really enjoy fucking a new bottom - guys told me they never thought they could take it before me and that they didn't know they'd like it. I always rim, then massage, then rim, then a bit of fingering and then a very slow steady entrance. I have a small dick so they're not afraid to try it.

All the better if they have a huge dick cause my ass can take it - they often say they never had anyone take it all before...
 

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Nowadays it seems pretty rare to find a guy that just wants to get his cock sucked without any recip. It really does appear that a 100% pure top is coming close to being nonexistent. I prefer a guy that's only interested in getting sucked and fucking me...no talk of stroking, sucking or even looking at my cock. I've really only been with one guy that was like that and it was truly hot. All he could talk about was fucking my face and ass, and that's what he did. I even wore a jockstrap to hide my cock like he wanted me to. He showed absolutely no interest in rather I came or not. Some of the hottest sex I've ever had. If I were to ever date a guy, he would have to have that same attitude...one who understands that getting him off is the way I get myself off.
 

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I'm a total top and a bi one. There's absolutely no truth in the "tops are better if they also know how to take it". If so, straight guys would be lousy fucks for women. No, it's about sensing your partner, reading the signs, being there with them. A selfish top is just as bad as a selfish bottom; the keyword being "selfish". A good top knows when to hammer away, but then it's for the pleasure of both.

I've tried to bottom once or twice, but it's really not my cup of tea. I love fucking other people, though - I mean, *really* love it. I get off on seeing my partner crazy with lust; I thrive on them crossing borders and forgetting about themselves and me.

Will I go down on another guy? Sure, if I like the cock (and it helps if it's similar to my own in size, but that's not all that counts). For me, the same considerations applies to women: I'll go down on a woman if I like the pussy.

Being a total top is not about trying to occupy the top rung of the sexual ladder. Tops are not more masculine than bottoms. The sooner everyone gets this idea out of their heads, the better.
 

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TOTAL TOP - in bed, it's all about my dick and your mouth or hole. Getting me off should get you off. Never been fucked, never will, just doesn't turn me on. I am focused on getting my cock orally serviced/sucked off and/or plowing a hot bubble butt tili blow. No recip works best for me. I don't like to suck dick or even touch dick. Just being honest about what I like and don't like. Some guys are total bottoms who get off on TOTAL TOPS like me.
 
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100% top guys are my biggest turn-on, but I feel like it's a rare find..true?

I mean a guy that wouldn't even suck your dick, he's just interested in having his dick sucked and fucking.

I could be totally wrong, I'm 21 and don't have much experience but I find it extremely hot. :smile:
you just described my BF of 2 years. it's hot but at times i wished he liked to suck me.
 

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I've Toped a couple of times and enjoyed it very much but I much prefer to Bottom. The two guys that I'm currently seeing are strictly Tops. I suck their cocks and then they fuck me in the ass. And I love it. Both guys are are least 2 inches in diameter and 8-9+ long. I've had some really intense orgasms masturbating while being fucked hard and deep. I don't consider them to being selfish at all. We both get what we want. And when I'm in the mood for a blow job, I go to someone else. The most intense orgasm I've ever had was while riding one of them reverse cowboy.
 

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I've Toped a couple of times and enjoyed it very much but I much prefer to Bottom. The two guys that I'm currently seeing are strictly Tops. I suck their cocks and then they fuck me in the ass. And I love it. Both guys are are least 2 inches in diameter and 8-9+ long. I've had some really intense orgasms masturbating while being fucked hard and deep. I don't consider them to being selfish at all. We both get what we want. And when I'm in the mood for a blow job, I go to someone else. The most intense orgasm I've ever had was while riding one of them reverse cowboy.

sounds hot!!!!
 

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I'm more bottom and crave cock on a fairly regular basis but then there are those moments when I need to fuck someone. An ex many years ago was versatile enough to accommodate that desire and we had a great sex life.

I find most tops are not that good. They climb aboard more for themselves not even thinking of whether or not I'm enjoying it, get off and get out. My last ex was like this but I chalked it up to being young and inexperienced. Though I tried he just never got it.

Do any of my fellow bottoms feel like they need cock every day? Because I do and I'm wondering if it's normal.
 

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100% top guys are my biggest turn-on, but I feel like it's a rare find..true?

I mean a guy that wouldn't even suck your dick, he's just interested in having his dick sucked and fucking.

I could be totally wrong, I'm 21 and don't have much experience but I find it extremely hot. :smile:

A friend of mine is like this.
 

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100% top guys are my biggest turn-on, but I feel like it's a rare find..true?

I mean a guy that wouldn't even suck your dick, he's just interested in having his dick sucked and fucking.

I could be totally wrong, I'm 21 and don't have much experience but I find it extremely hot. :smile:
well i love guys with big cocks that dont suck i love to suck them