I'm 47 and I was a total top until two years ago. I've still only bottomed a total of three times. I have found ass play to be enjoyable and I liked the few times I bottomed well enough (it was unlike topping in so many ways that I cannot describe it). When I was in my twenties and thirties I wouldn't even suck cock and enjoyed getting serviced, fucking, and so on. I understand the total top attraction, but, frankly, I feel I'm a more well-rounded fbud because I've bottomed a few times. And, frankly, I've come to enjoy sucking cock--at least a little. I don't get off on it like some. I have a guy whom I meet about once a week just so he can suck me off and swallow, and he's in hog heaven doing so. I don't see the appeal of that, but, hey, I'm really glad he likes it. ;-0