Rationing The P*ssy?

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  1. D_Fiona_Farvel

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    Chris Rock once joked that "[SIZE=-1]Women want a man to think he's got a good woman, but they don't want him to think he's got a freak.

    Their solution is rationing the pussy[/SIZE]: [SIZE=-1]"Okay, I'm gonna fuck him now, but then I'm not gonna [/SIZE]suck his dick for two weeks. [SIZE=-1]All right I'll suck his dick now, but I won't lick his balls for the next two months.[/SIZE] I'll lick his balls now, but I'm not gonna lick his ass till next year." :biggrin1:

    So, do you do it?

    Is there anything you hold back in a first time sexual encounter?
    Are you more likely to hold out on someone you want a relationship with versus a booty call or one nighter? Or do you just put it down like a champ each new encounter? What has been the reaction when you let them experience your best trick?
     
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    Yes, I do it.
    I’ve noticed that I don’t deep throat early on, allow any kind of butt play, or anything too freaky. Also, when I have really liked a guy, sometimes I'll wait a bit longer for sex.

    After banging him for a while I then start to incorporate the freakier things. Sometimes they're shocked because I held back and it adds a nice element of surprise... kinda similar to the mo=oment when Bo Jackson ran on the wall, like "Heyyy, you can do that?!?!?" :icon12:
     
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    LMAO! Chris Rock and Dane Cook are two comedians I respect when it comes to their thoughts on women.

    It also depends for me with the guy. Some guys I hold off for a long time, others I tease incessently, while others could've been my best friend for 4 years and didn't tell me he was that hung. Ooops! May have slept with that last one right away. But regardless, I don't do anything "freaky" (or risqué as I prefer :p) either for a while. You don't want to put yourself all out there right away!
     
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    Suspicions are confirmed by the above statements.

    But why do women continue to ration pussy in long term relationships and marriage?
     
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    I never do it, I like sex as much as any man I've ever come across so it'd be just plain stupid of me.
     
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    Don't get me started on THIS topic. I think they're worried about their guy losing interest so they cut off their nose to spite their face! I just wanted my SO to get hornier and wilder as our marriage went on - not put a clamp on the V. Didn't work out that way...
     
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    God how I love Chris Rock! I know that bit well, and laugh at it everytime it's on, because it's true!
    If I did everything on the first date I'd never have a relationship more than a few months long! I do differ from the Chris Rock bit in that if I am in an exclusive relationship and really care for the guy there is no way I am holding out years to do something. Besides men are notorious for getting bored by plain old vanilla sex.

     
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    I don't do this.

    Depends on the depth of my feelings. If I feel very deeply about the person, but do not get the same vibe or indication from them, I won't add sex into the mix until I sense we are on the same page.
     
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    when starting a relationship things have to progress to a point where we explore our sexuality together... but after that, no. i do what i want when i want to, or when asked, simple as that.
     
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    Not true NJ - the wrong men may have no respect for or interest in a woman who does 'everything' the first time. The right men don't have negative feelings about it.

    I'm very fluid with sex - I just do whatever feels good at the time, whatever I want, what he seems to want - I let it happen. If he is the kind of guy who's going to think he's a big shot and /or I'm easy cos we did anal then he is not the kind of guy I want to see again anyway.

    I never do anything I am uncomfortable with or that I think he would be uncomfortable and, likewise, I never hold back from anything I think we will both enjoy - regardless of where we're at, if anywhere, in our relationship.

    The kind of men I enjoy most of all are the kind who respect my sexuality for what it is - something that gives both me and them pleasure.
     
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    By the time she feels she can stop rationing, he's gotten bored with the sex anyway. :rolleyes:
     
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    ^
    If he gets bored waiting the, at longest, month or two into a sexual relationship it would take before I was comfortable with him cumming on my face or sticking it in my ass; he would not be worth the effort and could, with my blessing, be out.
     
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    This is true, I try to let the moment flow as well. However, I do not allow butt play and other things early on. I guess it is just a personal preference.

    To this point, I have not had any complaints, though. I've found the men I date enjoy us getting to know each other and basic sucking and fucking early on, and appreciate the surprise of my inner freak.:biggrin1:
     
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    i dont go down on girls unless ive known them for awhile. also with my girlfriend the sex seems to be better when i wait for her to make a move, i can usually wait a couple of days before i get tired of waiting and go for it tho
     
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    Weird that you mentioned this, I know more than a few guys who only go down on women they know very well. I guess guys are rationing stuff too. :wink:
     
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    I save all my freaky stuff for when they are tied to the bed and I've never had a guy run screaming from the bedroom yet!(giggles)
    I have a very low threshold for boredom so I will mix it up during an encounter regardless if it is the first time.
    Life is too short to ration your self sexually.
     
  17. ManlyBanisters

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    Well said.

    Hmm - I've managed to talk Red into readjusting her %s - how do you feel about that silly lil 0% you have in your profile. Surely that's a rationing of sorts? No? :biggrin: :wink:
     
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    MMMM Tell me Manly, do I make you moist?
     
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    I usually go all out if I'm into a person. No games for me.
     
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    You have good tits and you like playing tie up - these are traits I admire in a woman...
     
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