Chris Rock once joked that "[SIZE=-1]Women want a man to think he's got a good woman, but they don't want him to think he's got a freak. Their solution is rationing the pussy[/SIZE]: [SIZE=-1]"Okay, I'm gonna fuck him now, but then I'm not gonna [/SIZE]suck his dick for two weeks. [SIZE=-1]All right I'll suck his dick now, but I won't lick his balls for the next two months.[/SIZE] I'll lick his balls now, but I'm not gonna lick his ass till next year." :biggrin1: So, do you do it? Is there anything you hold back in a first time sexual encounter? Are you more likely to hold out on someone you want a relationship with versus a booty call or one nighter? Or do you just put it down like a champ each new encounter? What has been the reaction when you let them experience your best trick?
Yes, I do it. Ive noticed that I dont deep throat early on, allow any kind of butt play, or anything too freaky. Also, when I have really liked a guy, sometimes I'll wait a bit longer for sex. After banging him for a while I then start to incorporate the freakier things. Sometimes they're shocked because I held back and it adds a nice element of surprise... kinda similar to the mo=oment when Bo Jackson ran on the wall, like "Heyyy, you can do that?!?!?" :icon12:
LMAO! Chris Rock and Dane Cook are two comedians I respect when it comes to their thoughts on women. It also depends for me with the guy. Some guys I hold off for a long time, others I tease incessently, while others could've been my best friend for 4 years and didn't tell me he was that hung. Ooops! May have slept with that last one right away. But regardless, I don't do anything "freaky" (or risqué as I prefer ) either for a while. You don't want to put yourself all out there right away!
Suspicions are confirmed by the above statements. But why do women continue to ration pussy in long term relationships and marriage?
I never do it, I like sex as much as any man I've ever come across so it'd be just plain stupid of me.
Don't get me started on THIS topic. I think they're worried about their guy losing interest so they cut off their nose to spite their face! I just wanted my SO to get hornier and wilder as our marriage went on - not put a clamp on the V. Didn't work out that way...
God how I love Chris Rock! I know that bit well, and laugh at it everytime it's on, because it's true! If I did everything on the first date I'd never have a relationship more than a few months long! I do differ from the Chris Rock bit in that if I am in an exclusive relationship and really care for the guy there is no way I am holding out years to do something. Besides men are notorious for getting bored by plain old vanilla sex.
I don't do this. Depends on the depth of my feelings. If I feel very deeply about the person, but do not get the same vibe or indication from them, I won't add sex into the mix until I sense we are on the same page.
when starting a relationship things have to progress to a point where we explore our sexuality together... but after that, no. i do what i want when i want to, or when asked, simple as that.
Not true NJ - the wrong men may have no respect for or interest in a woman who does 'everything' the first time. The right men don't have negative feelings about it. I'm very fluid with sex - I just do whatever feels good at the time, whatever I want, what he seems to want - I let it happen. If he is the kind of guy who's going to think he's a big shot and /or I'm easy cos we did anal then he is not the kind of guy I want to see again anyway. I never do anything I am uncomfortable with or that I think he would be uncomfortable and, likewise, I never hold back from anything I think we will both enjoy - regardless of where we're at, if anywhere, in our relationship. The kind of men I enjoy most of all are the kind who respect my sexuality for what it is - something that gives both me and them pleasure.
^ If he gets bored waiting the, at longest, month or two into a sexual relationship it would take before I was comfortable with him cumming on my face or sticking it in my ass; he would not be worth the effort and could, with my blessing, be out.
This is true, I try to let the moment flow as well. However, I do not allow butt play and other things early on. I guess it is just a personal preference. To this point, I have not had any complaints, though. I've found the men I date enjoy us getting to know each other and basic sucking and fucking early on, and appreciate the surprise of my inner freak.:biggrin1:
i dont go down on girls unless ive known them for awhile. also with my girlfriend the sex seems to be better when i wait for her to make a move, i can usually wait a couple of days before i get tired of waiting and go for it tho
Weird that you mentioned this, I know more than a few guys who only go down on women they know very well. I guess guys are rationing stuff too. :wink:
I save all my freaky stuff for when they are tied to the bed and I've never had a guy run screaming from the bedroom yet!(giggles) I have a very low threshold for boredom so I will mix it up during an encounter regardless if it is the first time. Life is too short to ration your self sexually.
Well said. Hmm - I've managed to talk Red into readjusting her %s - how do you feel about that silly lil 0% you have in your profile. Surely that's a rationing of sorts? No? :biggrin: :wink:
