RE: Closing of the thread?

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I have no other choice. Am I supposed to just take their abuse? I cannot say or do anything on this forum without this group of six or so people popping in and calling me a troll. Any rational person would just do what I'm thinking is the only thing I can do: change my name, hide my past, so as to avoid abuse.

You think you have the right to be accepted? You have to earn acceptance, and part of that is by treating other people respectfully. You completely missed the boat on the Herbert analogy I was making, by focusing solely on the age issue. Herbert's fetish leads him to sexually harass children; your fetish isn't for "children", but for heterosexuals and "youth". There's a difference between "paying a compliment" to heterosexuals, and fetishizing them, and you haven't quite hit the right balance. It's your behavior, not your name, that gives you away.

Saying "Dude, nice pecs", is a compliment. Saying you're "in love with [his] masculinity" -- that's about an 8 on the creep-o-meter. It sounds like something a stalker might say. With all seriousness, find a friend you can trust and have that person read your posts to the forum from the perspective of the straight people you're talking about and offer feedback.

Let them know that they can't do this anymore. If you can assure me that you can make them stop, then I won't change my name and hide my identity. But I don't think I need to pay for the rest of my life for having pissed this group off a few months ago.
Our TOS protects you from harassment. It doesn't guarantee you the right to have a golden reputation. You don't get to wipe the slate clean just to make your life easier. You've pissed people off -- you've admitted this, and you have to re-earn people's trust and confidence -- doing that doesn't take "the rest of your life", but it'll take a while.
 

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I never said I deserved to be "accepted." I said I deserve to not be "harassed." You have agreed.

If we are going to talk about stalking, let's talk about people who follow me in to every thread I start and then proceed to harass me.

It is your personal interpretation that my comments are creepy. There are people who find this entire FORUM creepy. Everyone's got an opinion. My opinion is that my comments were fine. That's why I made them.

You didn't elaborate on the Herbet analogy so I had no choice but to interpret it along the lines of what he is most famous for.

I might add, however, that youth and heterosexuality are not my own personal fetishes; they are fetishes of the entire country and world. Look at advertising. Look at art. It is usually depicting young people. Look at the gay community. Their erotic images are usually of straight looking men. In fact, look at this forum and you will see this all over.

See, it's THIS sort of intellectualism that got me in trouble to begin with. I'm not a troll, but an intellectual.
 

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Aye Caramba! After the hullaballoo of the last few days I think I need to take a break from posting or posting about people. I seem to be leaving a wide swath of hurt feelings and banned bodies. :frown1: :redface: njqt466

WOW! What is going on here?
I wanted to post about what was essentially njqt's incorrect assumption about"Guy Love", who has been a nasty presence on lpsg when folks don't buy his version of things, and I find that you, have had it locked Mindseye?!!
Since when is outing someone a reason to close a thread?
Hypolimnas,and Novice bottom correctly identified him,but that is somehow a problem?
WTF? I don't think I have ever seen a thread closed this fast.
Geez!:mad:
cigarbabe:saevilw:
 

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... skipping straight to it. It's my preferred way to deal with threads that look like they're developing into personal attacks, as it interrupts the attack without censoring any of the participants.
Ok thanks for your reply, I appreciate the good will.

It was my perception that the thread had the potential to become explosive and/or hurtful as other members in timezones where they were just waking up logged in and added on to the bandwagon.

Yes there are risks, did you anticipate the response (and all its implications) that your input here has attracted from he who shall not be named? Some of us are prepared to articulate our point of view and let it go, others have to rant, continue to miss the point and threaten to come back with a new identity. Why is any of that an asset here? Anyone with a natural sense of justice can see that tolerance of obnoxious behaviour while appearing to censor people who have a coherent honest, thoughtful and on balance, positive contribution, is not right. I really hope you can consider this, whatever you wish to say publicly about it. I still think this the root of many issues here. I don't think you can let the statements and approach of 'he shall not be named' go on (this is not the first time), and still justify closing a thread because Novice and I made a couple of honest posts about board history.

I've come to accept on here that there are a few members who will support me no matter what, slightly more members who will oppose me no matter what, and a large "movable middle" that decide these things on a case by case basis.

Well lets just say the majority support the board (which is why they are here) and your good intentions, I think there are real dangers in personalising things too much. Somehow there needs to be some development to ensure things don't get to this point too often.

You have given 'he who shall not be named' a little "warning", if you don't follow it up privately or publicly, and take a definite course of action I feel you will lose the respect of the middle ground, that is my opinion but a justifiable one, I feel.

For them, I've already made the offer a few posts back to re-open the thread if someone feels strongly about contributing to it, and I hope they'll regard that offer as fair. Well it is an offer that I won't be taking up. I do accept the intention here.

You're the first to ask. *hugs*

Thanks bud. I like to be the first for any man
 

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This is all surreal, folks. Good-God. This is "LARGE PENIS SUPPORT GROUP." This is not brain surgery. This is not rocket science. This isn't cramming for finals. This is a fuckin' discussion group about cocks. The only people who should be taking this forum that seriously are the people who are making money off of it.

Off to start another account, anonymously.
 

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This situation has been overblown soooo much, it's not even funny. I find it amazing that some mods will quickly intervene to close down a thread like that one and still would allow some members (who shall remain nameless) to continue to spew inflammatory comments almost on a daily basis when everybody complains about them all the time.

Guy Love has been really nice to me and to Andyo, and it seems that him being attacked by all parts by other members amounts to character assassination, which is against the TOS. I don't know about his past history and, quite frankly, I don't give a flying fuck. Now, I'm not trying to put down the other guys who were after him, but it seems to me that the mods here aren't exactly consistent in their closing of threads/banning of members/warnings. At one point in here, I was given a warning for telling another member to shut the fuck up, then later, another mod told me I was free to tell anyone to shut the fuck - WTF???

Get your act together, mods - this is starting to look like a goddamn joke.
 

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Shut the fuck up burns1de!!

*waits for warning*

Closing threads should be an absolute last resort.

Maybe a request for calm on the original thread would have been a better idea - or PMs to individuals from Mindseye rather than his closing it down. He did what he felt he should on this thread - same as on the thread I started, which was actually moving closer to a reasonable debate not further away by the time it got shut down... but there you go!
 

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This is a fuckin' discussion group about cocks.
Man, I really could not place you until I read some of your posts in this thread then I skipped over to the other one. You can start out again as many times as you like and I do not think I have ever directly responded to you nor am I likely to again. I will give you the same (type) of advice I gave DMW when I told him to come back. Do not let you personality show though quite so much as you are too easy to place. For him I said to keep his intelligence and wit hidden; to you I would suggest you tone down the level of your infatuation with certain people. Good-luck.
 

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I'm gonna have to spank you really HARD, since you've been such a naughty girl... and stop grinding into my crotch! This ain't supposed to be fun for you! :wink:

Oh, and... :hijacked:

*continues wriggling*

I guess I haven't learned my lesson yet :biggrin1:


Oh and damn right :hijacked: - make love not war! :wink:
 

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I'm gonna have to spank you really HARD, since you've been such a naughty girl... and stop grinding into my crotch! This ain't supposed to be fun for you! :wink:

Oh, and... :hijacked:

*continues wriggling*

I guess I haven't learned my lesson yet :biggrin1:


Oh and damn right :hijacked: - make love not war! :wink:

I was going to post on Spoiled Princess's comments and how great they were, but now I don't recall what I was going to say....:confused:

I think it's the hot flashes.......:biggrin1: please continue!
 

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I was going to post on Spoiled Princess's comments and how great they were, but now I don't recall what I was going to say....:confused:

I think it's the hot flashes.......:biggrin1: please continue!

Only if you promise to join in on the fun. :wink: I can place both of you on each of my thighs - that way, I can spank you both at the same time. :up:
 

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Only if you promise to join in on the fun. :wink: I can place both of you on each of my thighs - that way, I can spank you both at the same time. :up:

Don't forget Kochinski! I'm pretty sure she needs one for some naughty reason or another....:biggrin1: