[quote author=Alan7 link=board=clothing;num=1050181517;start=0#0 date=04/12/03 at 14:05:17]
"...Do you sometimes see a guy who obviously has a huge package yet something about him tells you he isn't interested in it. It's just attached to him like his nose or ears; maybe the clear bulge is an embarrassment.
... I saw an early 20's guy, tall and skinny, packing at least seven inches hanging softly down the right thigh of his jeans, either wearing boxers or free. He seemed quite unaware of the great package he was carrying; perhaps he even found it an encumbrance. As it happened ... sitting down he showed no bulge at all..."
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Alan,
I chose the portions of your post deliberately to note that I somewhat match that description of the guy you described (except I'm older) and I found it interesting that he too "doesn't show a bulge when sitting".
...Neither do I many times.
Seems strange, that being the case (?)
But, thats neither "here nor there" I suppose.
Sometimes, I tend to ignore or even forget (?) that I am
(apparently) quite revealing down the leg when I walk, pretty much no matter what kind of pants or jeans I choose.
Maybe I do take it all for granted. In earlier threads and posts, I was made aware how I had become so accustomed to the "weight of it all" and the "swing" and so on and so forth. It's such a part of me that I tend to not even think about it (constantly) like many other guys feel that I should (?)
Sure. I'm conscious of it "being there" a good bit of the time. I can't and I won't deny that. (No one would believe me if I did!)
Alan, I really don't know. I think there are an awful lot of men (who are endowed) who really don't WANT alot of undue attention. I suppose I am one of them.
But, don't hold that against us, friend.
And, I (for one) am learning here not to hold it against those who notice, admire, wish for, agonize over,--whatever, although admittedly, I still feel quite a bit uncomfortable when other guys hint, insinuate, or
otherwise make comments...puts me "on edge" somehow.
I find it's those reactions that are embarrassing to me and NOT necessarily my size.
I'm certainly not ashamed of my size... far from it.
But, I don't want that part of "me" to dominate what others think of me (or remember me for.) And, as I have declared in previous posts, that's true for the women in my life, too.
There will no doubt be others to follow me in yet other comments who will say they LOVE all the attention and the "idolizing".
That's them and not me.
And...that's okay, too.
As men, none of us can help how we're made or "how big it is".
Afterall, we ARE individual human beings.
And, we're not all going to be the same in our attitudes about being "hung".