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Hi everyone when I was in my teens and 20s and even 30s I've always been able to keep a solid hard on I've got a big cock and the ladies love it and the odd guy too however since i reached 40 I've noticed my erection not as hard as before and also on the odd occasion my cock as gone soft half way through sex it also goes soft when masturbating is this psychological or something else can anyone tell me how to keep a solid hard on again please x
 

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Being seen by a urologist who treats ED seriously would be your first step. There are several diagnostics they can perform to ascertain whether you have a physical problem, and they can recommend treatment. It isn't unusual to start experiencing ED symptoms into your forties. By age 50 about half of men have some level of ED.
 
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There are some thing you can look into yourself:

1. Do you get morning wood? Night time erections are on way to test whether there is something physical that stops you or whether it is psychological. Essentially, if you still get erect during sleep then there is nothing physically wrong.

2. Has age caused you to have a long term health condition that has erectile dysfunction as an effect of the disease?

3. Are you taking medication that has erectile dysfunction as a side effect?
 
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how many times do you masturbate a day, do you have voluntary erections or night time emissions?
Older than you and I don't have problems in that area so maybe I'm lucky - in fact sporting a nice woody right now!
 
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Hi everyone when I was in my teens and 20s and even 30s I've always been able to keep a solid hard on I've got a big cock and the ladies love it and the odd guy too however since i reached 40 I've noticed my erection not as hard as before and also on the odd occasion my cock as gone soft half way through sex it also goes soft when masturbating is this psychological or something else can anyone tell me how to keep a solid hard on again please x

One thing to try possibly would be l'arginine. It helps boosts Nitric Oxide in the blood giving a stronger erection. Many people find this of use as there are little side effects such a flushing which you may get from Viagra and it is available cheaply and without proscription. It may be of use if you do get erections just not to the same degree. I’d recommend starting with 1000mg in the morning and working the dose to your needs. It will still have some effect in boosting an erection even in the evening but for fuller coverage you could take morning and late afternoon. Let us know how you get on.
 

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In addition to the many helpful comments here, I suggest working hard on overall physical fitness and health. Research good quality nutritional supplements, and not just ones for your dick. Proper diet, good quality sleep, working out, minimize body fat content, upgrade your nutrition. Find natural ways to increase testosterone production. Good luck!
 
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Could be any number of things, psychological or physical. Or both. I've gone through periods like you describe. Started when I was in my early 40's as well. I don't think it's unusual, as once upon a time, life expectancy was mid 40's.

Over the past ten years I've tried just about every combination of supplements, exercises, and diet. Best part of this is that I've learned to live a healthier lifestyle (diet, exercise, quitting smoking). Long story short, I have low testosterone which was only recently diagnosed within the past two months.

Speak with your doctor about it. And know that there are standard blood tests and extensive blood tests that not only look for testosterone but estrogens and free T. Find the knowns through proper testing then go after the unknowns.
 

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I recently dated a guy in his early 50's. He could not get hard because of medications he was taking, and thought his sex life was over. I do not need penetration so we had some other fun together. We would sit and talk about sex, stories, play, touch, massage, etc. He loved to look and touch my boobs while I simply massaged his soft penis and balls, He would be so excited knowing I would masturbate for him after. He eventually ejaculated and there was a lot too (a real shocker the first time). It is a lot of fum without the pressure of performance, I do know how healthy is it for men to ejaculate, soft penis or not.
 

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I found it interesting that you found a way to have your partner ejaculate while limp.....especially since you said you don't need penetration. I think it would be fun to like you say have no pressure of performance but still have sensual play and have a release of semen. Did you have an orgasm while playing? I hope so!
 
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Happens. Dave Chappelle said along the lines

"I'm 44. I was in my hotel room I was uh- I was jerking off. I'm just going at it, breaking a sweat and this is how you know you're getting old- you just stop all of a sudden! Nothings coming out!"
 

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Try a cock ring. Some guys go with the stainless steel ones, I went with adjustable leather. Stainless ones require an absolutely correct size/fit, whereas adjustable leather are just that - adjustable. I went from struggling to get a full erection and then keeping it hard to absolutely rock hard just by putting the cock ring on. As an added bonus, when I cum it seems like it won't stop. No meds, no different sexual activities, just the cock ring did it all for me - and more.
 

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Go to GNC and purchase Men's Arginmax.. It recommends you take 6 capsules a day (3 capsules at different times) I only take 4 total and my cock is super hard for long periods of time.. It takes a month before it kicks in.. Now here's the thing, you don't get hard throughout the day.. You just get instantly hard when your with your girl or guy.. Any type of physical contact and this stuff kicks in and your cock gets hard, stays hard and the orgasm is much more powerful..
 
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Go to GNC and purchase Men's Arginmax.. It recommends you take 6 capsules a day (3 capsules at different times) I only take 4 total and my cock is super hard for long periods of time.. It takes a month before it kicks in.. Now here's the thing, you don't get hard throughout the day.. You just get instantly hard when your with your girl or guy.. Any type of physical contact and this stuff kicks in and your cock gets hard, stays hard and the orgasm is much more powerful..

Works great for me... :)

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