I’m not sure what your experiences have been. I’m hoping I’m not alone in mine. I’ve always been bi, just too afraid to say or do anything about it. So recently I’ve been going through the process of coming out if you will. Whenever I tell a female (friend) I’m bi, they seem fine with it. Now that seems to change if it’s a female I’m trying date they seem off put by the idea. If I tell a guy (friend) that I’m bi they seem to think it’s some sort of weird phase that’s too gross for them to consider. And when I tell a guy who I’m trying to pursue on some level that I’m bi they seem to find it hot. Now understand how there can be different reactions. However at times it’s confusing for me. Part of which makes me regret telling anyone and part of it almost reinforces the lie in my head that I hate myself for who I am. Long and short I hope my experiences are more common than I think?