"reading" My Sauna/gym Shower Buddy (advice?)

[Saint Raphael]

Hi guys,

We had the dinner last night (Monday; had reschedule from Sunday). We had a great time, a solid two hours of chatting about a litany of different topics. We will definitely remain in touch while I'm away, and I can see this being the start of a friendship. Also, I think I'll get my mutual jack session in by Friday.

I won't bore you all with the mundane, but some of the highlights from him included: a very long hug (my knees almost buckled lol); how we have to stay in touch while I'm away and even try to visit each other; the opinion that I'm the most fit guy in the gym; how I encouraged him to be comfortable nude in the sauna; and (randomly) how communal showering should be encouraged and stalls need to be done away with.

We sat closer than ever before in the sauna this morning, but other people came in shortly after so any hoped for action couldn't go down. I inspected his body at length and realized for the first time how muscular his legs are...and how much I want to get between them! He finally shaved his balls; I wonder why he hadn't done that last time.

Anyway, I'm happy overall. The jack session/letting him know I'm physically attracted is technically the last thing in the docket. But for those who doubted the dinner would even take place, you can pay me back by reading my dissertation draft for edits.

 

[sunandfun]

Glad your dinner went well. In fact, very well. A long hug? Male "buddies" don't hug for a long time (usually just and awkward hald hug with a pat on the back). Now its "go time"...next time you are in the shower across from him, start stoking your cock and look his way -- I bet he will reciprocate. You have a week left to make this happen. Start with the shower stoking ASAP, so if that goes well, you still have a few days for some "alone time" outside of the gym. CHEERS!

 

[RJ5on1]

Yeah, what sunandfun said!

 

[1016480]

Exciting!

 

[phillipeantony]

God that energy of the pursuit! Good luck man!

 

[Mister2101]

GO FOR GOLD!!!

 

[george2323]

Still want to see him

 

[Saint Raphael]

Still want to see him

In terms of physical appearance, he's a perfect crossover between Alex Jones (the str8 pornstar) and Ravin Patel (Instagram fitness guy). He's 6'5" and 179 lbs, so he's very lean. For context, I know both Alex and Ravin are both 6'5", but Ravin is over 200 lbs; not sure about Alex.

My guy is visibly more metrosexual and also wears earrings. He talks very much like what you'd associate the stereotypical white west coast frat jock with. He says "like" every other word, and "dude", "gnarly", and "fantastic" make appearances way too often in his speech.

Besides my admiration for his body, he seriously has the most sculpted chest, torso, and core I've ever seen in person.

He's nowhere near as hung as Alex is btw.

 

[george2323]

In terms of physical appearance, he's a perfect crossover between Alex Jones (the str8 pornstar) and Ravin Patel (Instagram fitness guy). He's 6'5" and 179 lbs, so he's very lean. For context, I know both Alex and Ravin are both 6'5", but Ravin is over 200 lbs; not sure about Alex.

My guy is visibly more metrosexual and also wears earrings. He talks very much like what you'd associate the stereotypical white west coast frat jock with. He says "like" every other word, and "dude", "gnarly", and "fantastic" make appearances way too often in his speech.

Besides my admiration for his body, he seriously has the most sculpted chest, torso, and core I've ever seen in person.

He's nowhere near as hung as Alex is btw.

Soooo can you sneak a pic?

 

[MarcoJock]

In terms of physical appearance, he's a perfect crossover between Alex Jones (the str8 pornstar) and Ravin Patel (Instagram fitness guy). He's 6'5" and 179 lbs, so he's very lean. For context, I know both Alex and Ravin are both 6'5", but Ravin is over 200 lbs; not sure about Alex.

My guy is visibly more metrosexual and also wears earrings. He talks very much like what you'd associate the stereotypical white west coast frat jock with. He says "like" every other word, and "dude", "gnarly", and "fantastic" make appearances way too often in his speech.

Besides my admiration for his body, he seriously has the most sculpted chest, torso, and core I've ever seen in person.

He's nowhere near as hung as Alex is btw.

How’s his ass??

 

[MarcoJock]

Soooo can you sneak a pic?

Dude! That would be so NOT cool!

 

[Saint Raphael]

@george2323 I definitely wouldn't do that! Wouldn't want anyone doing that to me.

@MarcoJock It's small, but very nicely toned for a guy his size and with his proportions. He does a lot of squats, so he definitely has a little hump back there. If it says anything, I'd be surprised if his waist is bigger than 32-33", which again is very slim considering his height.

 

[sunandfun]

@Saint Raphael --- what's your "next move?"

 

[Sexybadger]

Waiting for a potentially exciting update

 

[1368056]

Is no news good or bad? Either way, if you did not manage to get that jack session in, seems like you may become good friends.

Seriously though, do update us!

 

[MarcoJock]

I’m thinking that @Saint Raphael ’s hole is so worn out and sore from a fuckfest with Gym Crush that he can’t think straight enough to type an update.

Or... he’s busy packing for his move.

 

[Saint Raphael]

Hey guys,

Apologies for the delay, I've been in the process of moving.

Here is the "conclusion":

We did a mutual jack in the sauna, but couldn't make it to climax since we were interrupted by another guy who had been cock-blocking for the past week. (The other guy is actually a friend of mine and trainer at the gym. A mutual friend told me that he was interested in me.) I was obviously annoyed, but nevertheless happy that I got to touch him intimately. I played with his foreskin, his sac, his taint...I wanted to finger him but he wouldn't let me. I got to suck one his nipples and we kissed, although with no tongue; I tried to open his mouth with mine, but he wouldn't budge.

In hindsight, I think I might be the first guy he's actually played with.

When the other guy came in, we covered ourselves and I don't think anything "inappropriate" was noticeable. We showered as normal, but our chatter was somewhat awkward and forced (more so on my end). I told him I would meet up with him later in the day to give him my parking pass.

When that time came, I was going over different scenarios in my mind about how I intended to ask him some iteration of, "I noticed you checking me out for months, why did you never make a move?" But sadly, he came with one of his friends - they were on their way to Starbucks. We did another awkward goodbye (no hug this time just a handshake), he told me to keep in touch, and wished me well in my studies. I did the same but couldn't really gather my words because I was sad that it would be our last time seeing each other, possibly forever. I wanted to ask for his social media details, but decided against it since his friend was there.

I went back to work to close up my office and then got a friendship notification from him on Facebook. The next morning (Saturday), I woke up to an Instagram follow from him. Both put a huge smile on my face and were unexpected because I use different names on both; I'm actually somewhat curious as to how he found me, especially since we didn't have any mutual friends nor affiliations in common). But I'm definitely not complaining!

I still kinda want to ask him my question and also see if there's any possibility of having a second encounter. What do you guys think, should I do it or leave it?

Thanks for all your support, encouragement, tips, and suggestions over the past couple of months. If nothing else, I know I'll be better prepared should I find myself in a similar situation at my new gym!

 

[Charmer85]

Hey guys,

Apologies for the delay, I've been in the process of moving.

Here is the "conclusion":

We did a mutual jack in the sauna, but couldn't make it to climax since we were interrupted by another guy who had been cock-blocking for the past week. (The other guy is actually a friend of mine and trainer at the gym. A mutual friend told me that he was interested in me.) I was obviously annoyed, but nevertheless happy that I got to touch him intimately. I played with his foreskin, his sac, his taint...I wanted to finger him but he wouldn't let me. I got to suck one his nipples and we kissed, although with no tongue; I tried to open his mouth with mine, but he wouldn't budge.

In hindsight, I think I might be the first guy he's actually played with.

When the other guy came in, we covered ourselves and I don't think anything "inappropriate" was noticeable. We showered as normal, but our chatter was somewhat awkward and forced (more so on my end). I told him I would meet up with him later in the day to give him my parking pass.

When that time came, I was going over different scenarios in my mind about how I intended to ask him some iteration of, "I noticed you checking me out for months, why did you never make a move?" But sadly, he came with one of his friends - they were on their way to Starbucks. We did another awkward goodbye (no hug this time just a handshake), he told me to keep in touch, and wished me well in my studies. I did the same but couldn't really gather my words because I was sad that it would be our last time seeing each other, possibly forever. I wanted to ask for his social media details, but decided against it since his friend was there.

I went back to work to close up my office and then got a friendship notification from him on Facebook. The next morning (Saturday), I woke up to an Instagram follow from him. Both put a huge smile on my face and were unexpected because I use different names on both; I'm actually somewhat curious as to how he found me, especially since we didn't have any mutual friends nor affiliations in common). But I'm definitely not complaining!

I still kinda want to ask him my question and also see if there's any possibility of having a second encounter. What do you guys think, should I do it or leave it?

Thanks for all your support, encouragement, tips, and suggestions over the past couple of months. If nothing else, I know I'll be better prepared should I find myself in a similar situation at my new gym!

How did the mutual jack come about? What was said/done prior to that? Details dude!? Lol

 

[Saint Raphael]

How did the mutual jack come about? What was said/done prior to that? Details dude!? Lol

I was chubbing myself up for when he came in and I saw him looking out the side of his eye. I simply said "Do you wanna jack?" He was hesitant and visibly nervous but then said "Sure", and I told him I would keep an eye out and make sure he wasn't compromised lol.

 

[MIGayGuy]

I still kinda want to ask him my question and also see if there's any possibility of having a second encounter. What do you guys think, should I do it or leave it?

I think this is a conversation you *must* have. I don't think you're being fair to yourself or to him by not getting definitive answers as to where things are going. Of course it will suck if you're not on the same page, or if you get rejected, but in the long run it's 1000x worse to be left wondering what if, or the friendship having a 'weird' feel because you guys haven't cleared the air with each other. (And I should really use the advice I'm giving you because I would totally be doing what you're doing and not what I'm telling you to do. )