The Real Ladies social group is a way to get to know each other and to be sure that you're talking to a verified woman. If you'd like to join, please follow the process as outlined in the links below: Verification process Guide to verification photos Once you have been verified, you will be accepted into the group. If you don't want to publish any pics online, you can verify with the moderator of the group (me) personally by: - Emailing the verification pic to me - Webcam with me or another verified woman in the chat room Ultimately it is up to the moderator of the group to accept a request from a member and I'm flexible as to how that happens. In the future, these verification processes may change if someone else becomes moderator. Thanks, Patch PS. Just women please. Men requesting to join will be declined.