Real reasons why bigger is better

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  1. osprey1987

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    Name 2 real reasons why a bigger dick would improve anyone's life? And I mean real reasons like effect on urinating or masturbation, duration in bed, number of sexual positions, anything not bullshit or ego.

    Cos if not, why are people vain enough to go through the ridiculous and humiliating procedures available instead of asking the girl how big her vagina is?
     
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    1. You can reach more spots in the vagina more easily with a longer penis
    2. Many females claim "stereotypically" that they love that feeling of being filled up, thus a thicker penis will do that.

    Do note that this is based on what I've read and made up my own opinion of, I do not have any experience my self to base this on.
     
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    haha i like how you try to make this real/unreal divide, as if a guy's confidence had nothing to do with his actual sexual performance, and as if a girl's perception of a guy's dick as being big could have nothing to do with her enjoyment of it.
     
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    I think even "ego" is a good reason, but if "ego" isn't a good reason for you, then consider your partner satisfaction.

    Partner satisfaction is a good reason when you consider that sexual performance should be something enjoyable for more than just yourself. And many statistics indicate that a bigger penis is more enjoyable than a smaller one.
     
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    Large penises are masculine and attractive and carry a powerful cultural stigma that will undoubtedly benefit its owner.
     
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    Well i don't know if you are writting that because you are insecure, but you shouldn't be even if you have small penis... because i mean i watch big dick porn and its the only thing that get me off porn wise... i am tottaly happy with my size, on many occasions it has hurt girls from the shear hardness even... a penis is meant to be average 5-6 inches, it works fine that way... however even if you have a 9 inch dick, your woman will get use to it anyway, i have read womans comments how true that is... so in essence, PE and pumping is really the way to go if you have a commited partner, because that way you will gradualy get larger and thus stimulate your partner more and more though out your sexual relations.
     
  7. osprey1987

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    A I, like most people have a normal sized penis that is as long as almost any woman's vagina.
    B Porn is fantasy, not reality: that's why people watch it. Trying to get a woman who isn't sex mad through your size will make you seem like an egotistical dick.
    C How does size give you confidence?. Do men with no job, home or math skills swagger around the streets because of their dick size? Does anyone really think confident men are that way without experience, imagination or endurance?
    D Many large penises are considered ugly, freakishly long, thin, or lacking in sensitivity because they're circumcised. Only a few carry any seductive power.
    E You think sex can last merely because the woman feel's full. How long will that satisfy her?

    Lastly, has it occurred to you that men in porn have big dicks for the visual spectacle, not because it makes for better sex?
     
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    oh, what hatred, almost as biased as the big-cock-lovers in here. I am not huge, but started out around 18 cm in length and 14 cm girth before PE, and sex worked well. Now I'm 19.6-20 and 14.5 in girth, and even though that isnt great difference it makes the sex feel completely different. Both me and my girlfriend are amazed. It is not that it makes sex greater, but the feeling is very different, and I reckon that even 0.5 more girth or 1 cm more length would make sex problematic. Already I have to take it easy and cannot pound her. But I do understand how some men/women can become obsessed with freakish cocks, because frankly, it is another feeling. But I haven't tried to sex anybody with a 9 incher, so naturally, that is for a secluded few to evaluate.

    Anyways, I believe some of the hype is fetiscism, but the feeling of hitting bottom, and feeling the walls of the vagina and the friction going in and out, and being able to poke different angles and really feel how it stirs shit up, that is something that cannot be done with a 15 cm (I tried that back in the days;) ). I guess fucking with a 9 incher must feel like lifting the girl and owning her - it must give a sense of empowerment. But that is also a weird feeling that might only satisfy a special group of people (who are all gathered here, lol).
     
  9. blutrane

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    I, unlike most people (in real life, not LPSG) have a very long and thick penis. It is as long as most women's vaginas when they are aroused, which they usually are when I'm making love to them. The female vagina tents. It can accommodate penises much larger than what is necessary with the proper arousal. I emphasize that because I think there are some big guys who think they can just ram it home without doing the work.

    I agree, and I would have no way of getting a woman through my size. I am skinny, short, white, and nerdy. Handsome though I may be, most women would not expect me to be packing what I'm packing. Trying to get a girl through size is moronic. If you understand women in any dimension, you'll know that they don't operate on that level.

    Size gives me confidence because I know what kind of effect it has on a woman during sex, both psychologically and and physically. It also gives me confidence in regards to other men, with whom I'm always in competition. I'm short, which is a MUCH bigger problem than having a small dick in my opinion, but at least I have a big dick. I've even been told that my cock size makes up for my height, which was almost insulting to me. I don't need my penis size to feel confident, or perform well in bed. Those are separate things. But it helps.

    I have been told by every girl who's seen it that my cock is beautiful. And trust me, along with my size, the seductive power is palpable. HOWEVER, if I were to be a jerk or lack any sense of romance I'm sure it would have less. Some girls are into size. Some aren't. I think it's more about the girl's preference. Some girls want or even need a big dick. Sorry mate. Find one who doesn't.

    I doesn't last longer because she feels full. She cums more quickly, in my experience, because she feels full. And I have never left a girl unsatisfied. Your performance and sensitivity still make a bigger difference. But if you're bigger and you perform well, what do you think she's gonna choose?

    Obviously.

    It would appear that you have several insecurities regarding men who are larger than you. Please know that it's not that big of a deal, especially not to women (unless your freakishly huge or freakishly small). If you treat a woman's body like a temple, and fuck her RIGHT, it won't matter that you aren't hung like a horse. Really. At the end of the day, size matters, but an inch ain't so big of a distance.
     
  10. osprey1987

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    Blutrane's reply seems plausible but can hardly believe that his confidence is really to do with his size.

    You could argue stupid people tend to be much more likely to be ugly. Conversely, does that mean intelligent people work harder at things because they have more confidence: no, it means they want their brains to match up to their looks and not end up getting a girlfriend who mainly wants them for their body.

    The so-called confidence issues are more to do with flaccid size, peeing in public, i.e. negative not positive. I don't why people keep going on about tenting, that still doesn't disprove that an average sized penis

    I don't have issues around size, I just find it annoying considering if penis enlargement works if there turns out to be no tangible overall benefit at the end of it. Perhaps its hard to imagine that wearing some inconvenient ridiculous device for several months isn't worth the effort but for me, and I suggest, 90% of men, it isn't.

    According to every source, almost no girl's vagina is longer than 6 inches when aroused. The concept of being stretched is just a particular fantasy that once performed cannot be repeated.

    It just annoys me than men blessed with bigger dicks can only make blase statements about confidence. If I had gained a bigger dick, I'd list every extra position that it allowed and how that had improved my sex life.
    Instead, people drone on about "impressive" "stretching" "bottoming" and other nebulous concepts.
     
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    LOL @ blutrane

    Even on a large penis website on the women's section I seen the size question asked over and over again and every single time women just don't give a shit. Haha I don't know what kind of "women" you talking about there blutrane, nice fantasy-land you got there tho :laugh2:.

    I say since I started PE 2 years ago I have made very good gains (1.5in lenth, .5 in girth) without a hassle, its simple and safe if done properly. But it was nothing to do with women or sex. It's just something I wanted to do for my self and see if it actually really worked. Besides it's just another part of the body, like biceps, triceps, shoulders, etc. So why can't we train them??
     
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    i would really have to say that the biggest difference is sexual postitions, you can just do way more stuff... i mean i know you can get away with different positions with a smaller dick but the main thing about that is, does you partner feel it, is it getting them off? you can struggle for a position just to do it, but its pointless if your not getting your partner off on it... ever since i started PE sex has been so much better, i am harder thicker and longer already, it has really changed my sex life and my girl really feels the difference, and its not even a bit difference, just a few cm's if that... i think average penis is tottaly ok and i know most girls don't care, but in my experience, when you pull out a slightly larger then average penis, there's always a reaction, a smile, maybe ever a look of worry or fear, but in anycase, this makes me feel good! it makes me feel confident... i'm not a hobo or nothin either i could have a small dick and still be ok and get hot girls sure, but haveing a nice sized cock is a big bonus all around!
     
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    @noob: You should read my whole post. Here, I'll quote it for you.

    End of discussion. Yes, when you're big, girls are going to comment. It doesn't mean it becomes the center of their universe. Just because a girl says my dick is huge or pretty or whatever doesn't mean she automatically becomes obsessed with it. Some girls value size, some don't, most fall in between. That's all there is to it IMO.

    If penises and penis size weren't objects of fascination this site wouldn't exist. But an object of fascination is not necessarily an aphrodisiac. It just...is. Penises are there. Some are big some are not. Size makes a difference. I have seen it make a difference, for better and for worse. But it's not the be all and end all. It just...is.

    PS - @osprey: You're right. My confidence does not come from my size. It comes from me. But my size does add to that confidence, however superficial that may make me look. I just can't help it. It feels good to be well endowed. That might be the main reason that anybody does PE. Just to feel like you have a big dick. That and the benefits to your circulation and stamina. It rarely has much to do with the girl at all. I'm glad PE is out there for the small percentage of guys who are just super tiny, and the whatever percentage of girls who need to be smashed by a forearm to get off. Otherwise, it's mainly there for the male ego, I think.
     
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    i know you said like physical or sexual reasons but in reality it very much a psychological thing, a confidence booster that allows for better sex
     
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    Penises are objects of fascination for men.

    I disagree on this, I don't think size makes a difference. It's your skills that makes the difference. I say this because there been websites linked on here before that have surveys about women's size preference, and both of those websites showed that the size with most fans is around the average/6" mark. Haven't you really heard it before "average is king". Before I started PE I asked a lot of women and they told me the same thing over and over. (these women were not on this site)

    I'm not trying to be an ass, but you come off someone insecure about your height? And trying to add that confidence by your penis size?? That my friend not healthy. I suggest try boosting your confidence by education/career. But what ever floats your boat, right?:smile:

    If you ask me why I started PE, well it's not because of confidence. I did it just to see if it really works, and so far its getting bigger and bigger.:biggrin1:
     
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    Excellent post.
     
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    ^^^^ This
     
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    First, I doubt you are going to charm the panties off of many females by asking them "how big is your vagina?" Even those who don't slap you and do give you the time of day will probably not know, or will say "it depends".

    Secondly, if you consider PE ridiculous and humiliating you aren't going to do it anyway so why ask the question?

    I probably shouldn't waste my time answering, but I will give you the benefit of the doubt.

    I have been married quite a few years. My wife had 2 children by vaginal delivery and gained quite a bit of vaginal capacity afterward. I wouldn't describe her as "loose" after childbirth, but there was clearly a difference. I no longer reached to the depth of her vaginal canal as I had before, and she was significantly less snug. With age, I also felt I had lost some size probably due to decreased erection quality.

    I started PE with the primary goal of improving EQ but I also gained size from it, about 1.5 inch in length from my starting size and about .5 inch in girth. Don't bother asking for pictures or proof. I don't post pictures of my cock on the internet, and there is no proof that can be offered that cannot be discounted. If you want proof, try it yourself and see if it works.

    So how is sex better with increased size? It feels better for me. How's that for a reason?

    I can now reach the depth of my wife's pussy again and she feels as tight to me as she did before having kids. As for my wife, I cannot absolutely say sex feels better for her, but she seems to take more interest in it than before, and she makes a deep, throaty "mmmmmmmmm" sound every time I press up against the end of her vaginal tunnel.

    My wife has never been terribly vaginally orgasmic. She had at least 25 lovers before we met, and said she had never had an orgasm with vaginal intercourse without direct clitoral stimulation before me. I am one of her bigger partners, although she did have one who was quite significantly bigger, so I don't know what role size plays for her in triggering vaginal orgasms. She seldom has a major orgasm (the type she always has with cunnilingus) with vaginal intercourse, but she says she has frequent "little ones"

    I did have several partners before marriage who were very vaginally orgasmic, coming nearly every time we had intercourse without direct clitoral stimulation. Three of them told me that they had a hard time reaching orgasm unless the guy was bigger than average. One of these women had another male lover at the same time who was a bit smaller than I was, and she admitted to me that she came a lot more often with me than she did with him (although she would have left me in a heartbeat to marry him if he had asked her).

    On the other hand, I had other lovers who I filled up to capacity who did not orgasm with vaginal intercourse who seemed to find very deep penetration distracting or uncomfortable. Based on my direct experience, what I have been told by women with whom I was not intimate, and the accounts of women given on the internet, I believe there are women, probably a minority, who do require deep vaginal stimulation to achieve orgasm regularly with vaginal intercourse.

    But I have been told by quite a few women, whether they were vaginally orgasmic or not, that they really relished the sensation of being completely "filled up".
     
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    Most replies seem to focus on vaginal sex. But I find size is a big plus in foreplay. It's just more fun. Girls can reach around and grab from many angles. You can go torso to torso and still bury your cock in her breasts while you kiss. And some girls enjoy hand play and oral more when they can get two hands into the action. I've also observed a sense of pride women feel when they see the full hard on they've created. It all adds up.
     
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    You make a good point. I believe that lots of women are turned on at the site of a larger than average penis, although some profess to be intimidated (fortunately, I have never been large enough to intimidate anyone).

    I always felt like a stud when I got a girl's panties off after some kissing and rubbing and found that she was soaking wet already. I'm sure that women feel smoking hot when they pull down a guy's pants and see a large penis that is fully erect before they have even touched it.
     
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