I didn't know what a monolith heel was and I'm practically obsessive about shoes.
I suss out if someone's a fake by a few ways, men and women communicate very differently, if you look at sexual stories written by men and women it's often said the women's stories avoid hard sexual language and are more romantic, I think that's rubbish, my stories are full of hard sexual language, I find the men's stories are full of much more concrete detail related to setting and appearance, while the women's stories are more focused on how things feel, of course that's a generalisation and doesn't always hold true but it usually does. Of course there's how they communicate, the times a real woman will offer to cam for all comers are so rare that I can only think of it happening once on here, and it's very rare (it can happen, usually in women new to the net) that a woman will ask in an open chat room for guys to cam - let's be honest, we're women, we're snowed under with offers of guys asking to cam for us, we have no need to go and ask. In the case of people who post pics although they say don't judge by appearances quite often the persona that's presented simply doesn't fit in with the photos, and for me that's quite a strong indication that they're faking. These might all be justifications though to cover the fact that mainly it's just a feeling which I can't explain.
No one can ever be 100% accurate in saying who's fake and who isn't but we have to play the odds if we're someone who does want some honesty as the basis of any kind of conversation.
