Reality check: can you always make your parter cum?

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some huge guys claim they can always make their partner cum as they have that extra huge girth to spread them more or that extra inch to go deeper than any other normal guy. but is it really true and realistic?

i wonder if some of you hung guys would actually admit, that it doesn't always mean they can make their partner orgasm. in my case for example it depends a lot on how aroused my partner is in order for her to cum, so she often orgasms just from intercourse but by far not always. thus we often make sure she gets there in other ways by licking or fingering her etc.

who's next to admit that it is not always?
 

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I won’t quit either until my wife cums. It’s such s great feeling to feel her Pussy cum hard on my cock. I love how her Pussy clinches down on my Cock as she screams and moans as her body writhes in pleasure from my Cock buried deep in her pussy. It’s usually a long orgasm.
 
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I was with one woman who was pre- non-orgasmic, or whatever the correct term is. Nothing we did worked. I have no doubt there could have been some fakery with other previous partners, and my current wife will flat out tell me beforehand, "I'm tired/not-yet-awake/feeling-lousy, so just go for it and don't try to make me cum". We also have a standing agreement that either of us can "do" the other while they're asleep. I have often awakened to her stroking or sucking me and fingering herself, and I have "rolled her over" and had a quickie when the mood strikes.

And there are just times when for whatever reason she or I can't orgasm. Stress, illness, previous sex was too soon, etc. We have an arsenal of toys, fantasies, porn, techniques...but sometimes it ain't happening. No biggie. We love each other, we know we still excite each other, and age happens if you're lucky.
 

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Me and the wife don’t really try to have traditional sex anymore, intercourse anyway, but she cums a lot from oral and using my fingers. Usually she taps out after 5 or 6 orally and when I’m using my finger 1 or 2. I always do my best to give the orgasm I can. I figure if I’m going to put forth the effort I mine as well go for it. She told me a couple months ago “ an orgasm a day keeps the doctor away ..and the wife happy”. Sometimes she tells me I am overdoing it and it feels like she is going to pass out but I am always trying to compensate for other issues. When we did attempt intercourse she might have orgasmed some in certain positions,her on top or missionary in a certain way, but I can’t remember and it definitely wasn’t all the time for sure. Blue moon there. We can always talk about the quality of orgasms too because they can vary a lot.
 

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I’m normal sized and my wife doesn’t always cum. She is more clitoral, so I have to focus on her with that, which I will every time. She wants quickies, she probably won’t cum. I always give her 2-3 each time I can though.
 

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Nice guys! I like the honest and goal oriented vibe in here.

Sure hot to read that "she" cums every time but also nice that some of you try to finger them to heaven etc. Actually, i also like to do that before we fuck. So if she cums or not in intercourse, she had at least already one orgasm anyways for sure. Also good to read that one can be relaxed that not every time it has to be like olympic sex if you know what i mean hehe.
 

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Nice guys! I like the honest and goal oriented vibe in here.

Sure hot to read that "she" cums every time but also nice that some of you try to finger them to heaven etc. Actually, i also like to do that before we fuck. So if she cums or not in intercourse, she had at least already one orgasm anyways for sure. Also good to read that one can be relaxed that not every time it has to be like olympic sex if you know what i mean hehe.
. We’re not machines that’s for sure...:)
 
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Definitely not "always", as that's an absolute. But certainly "most" of the time. Also, remember that many women don't orgasm if there isn't some clitoral stimulation happening during sex, so just having a big cock isn't going to always make a woman orgasm.
 

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Neither of us always reached orgasm every time. As @ItsAll4Kim noted there are lots of reasons it just didn't happen sometimes.

And not to be picky about language, but I didn't "make her cum", nor her me (unless that was the particular game du jour). We enjoyed exploring and using each other's bodies and responses, and orgasm was often the result.
 

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Definitely not "always", as that's an absolute. But certainly "most" of the time. Also, remember that many women don't orgasm if there isn't some clitoral stimulation happening during sex, so just having a big cock isn't going to always make a woman orgasm.

Do you find during intercourse that you have to rub the clit to make her orgasm or the girth you have is enough to rub on the lips and tug the clit? Do you find your extra length helps? Like when you go balls deep vs a more shallow fuck?
 

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i never had any issues making the women that i've been with cum. i think it has a lot to do with stimulating her mental side than her physical. by the time i get my women into bed, they're already very aroused. i will tease my ladies all night or all day so that by the time we get into bed, she's already wet. sexual foreplay is the key and it's all a mind-game.

now the physical aspect does help as it connects the mental fantasy to reality. basically, all day i will tease my woman with sexual gestures (words, touches, etc) and build that energy up so. she will normally go into somewhat of a craze and when we do get to fucking, she's wired to go and cum with minimal work. it's worked every time for me.

i can't speak for women who are uptight or non-orgasmic as i only get into bed with women whom i had the chance to get to know better and know that they are sexually open and sexually adventurous; not to mention sexually confident in themselves and their bodies.

as of today, the wife cums each and every time we fuck. either by me or herself. we enjoy sex together and help each other get off as much as we can.
 
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I’m normal sized and my wife doesn’t always cum. She is more clitoral, so I have to focus on her with that, which I will every time. She wants quickies, she probably won’t cum. I always give her 2-3 each time I can though.
Same here my wife needs to have her clitoris stimulated to reach orgasm. She’s multiorgasmic and needs to come at least three times before she satisfied. If she only cums once or twice with me she will use her favorite clitoris vibe to make herself cum until she’s done. Pretty hot actually.

But when she’s riding some guys big cock she doesn’t need to have her clitoris stimulated. She says it’s because their cocks are stretching her pussy and stimulating her clitoris at the same time. Again pretty hot.
 

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Do you find during intercourse that you have to rub the clit to make her orgasm or the girth you have is enough to rub on the lips and tug the clit? Do you find your extra length helps? Like when you go balls deep vs a more shallow fuck?
Since every woman's anatomy is different, and since each position does something different, yes to all. Sometimes I'll rub her clit and sometimes the position is enough to engage her clit without having to rub it with fingers. And sometimes you don't have to do anything at all as the length and girth is enough to make her cum. Lots of "depends", but I do what I need to do to make her cum.
 

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My wife can cum from just a few seconds of nipple play, before we even start to touch each other's genitals. She cums over and over and over, it's quite insane. I don't know how or why she's able to have so many Os, but she just does. Position, how big/swollen I am, duration of intercourse, amount of foreplay, etc. It doesn't matter, she is having Os nonstop the whole time we're together. Sometimes I can make her cum from just inserting and pushing my cock into her only one time, one inward stroke, that's all. And then after that it's cumtown! If I rub her clit while I'm in her she'll entertain it for a little bit, at least for one or two Os, but then she forces me to stop because she's cumming too much?! She's ridiculous like that in bed lol
She's certainly not a "one and done" girl. More like a "one and then countless" kind of girl ;) I won the lottery big time with her!
 

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Same here my wife needs to have her clitoris stimulated to reach orgasm. She’s multiorgasmic and needs to come at least three times before she satisfied. If she only cums once or twice with me she will use her favorite clitoris vibe to make herself cum until she’s done. Pretty hot actually.

But when she’s riding some guys big cock she doesn’t need to have her clitoris stimulated. She says it’s because their cocks are stretching her pussy and stimulating her clitoris at the same time. Again pretty hot.

You know what's hot about it? It's that she knows what she wants and will do what it takes to fully satisfy herself... Sounds like she wants and needs those orgasms to feel fully satisfied... I like how she is driven and even selfish(but not in a bad way) to get what when needs(3 orgasms) to satisfy her pussy...totally hot.
 
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You know what's hot about it? It's that she knows what she wants and will do what it takes to fully satisfy herself... Sounds like she wants and needs those orgasms to feel fully satisfied... I like how she is driven and even selfish(but not in a bad way) to get what when needs(3 orgasms) to satisfy her pussy...totally hot.
Thanks man you and a lot of guys get that. When a woman knows what she wants sexually it makes sex more satisfying.

When MHTACH was fucking his girlfriend before the other guy showed up. It made it easier for him to enter her. My wife has had me do that a number of times when the guys have had really thick cocks.

She was the one that suggested it after the first couple of times we first started inviting guys to join us. She kept having difficulties when they were extra thick. Note: She’s only 5 foot 2 inches 38-27-36/38 Spanish Filipino Chinese mix.

Anyway communication both ways is the key to great sex. Talk then try it out. If you don’t like it, try something else.
 

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Thanks man you and a lot of guys get that. When a woman knows what she wants sexually it makes sex more satisfying.

When MHTACH was fucking his girlfriend before the other guy showed up. It made it easier for him to enter her. My wife has had me do that a number of times when the guys have had really thick cocks.

She was the one that suggested it after the first couple of times we first started inviting guys to join us. She kept having difficulties when they were extra thick. Note: She’s only 5 foot 2 inches 38-27-36/38 Spanish Filipino Chinese mix.

Anyway communication both ways is the key to great sex. Talk then try it out. If you don’t like it, try something else.


Yeah that sounds hot that she gets off on really well endowed guys. I remember a old pornography series called dirty debutantes. One guy was ed powers that use to have first time women on his videos. He would have sex with them first and him being smaller than average, he could slide his cock in easily. Then when he was done, a huge guy named Jake steed would fuck them with spectacular results. They would cum hard and often and would be completely spent and satisfied after Jake had fucked them. Yet if he fucked them first they would have would struggle to accommodate his huge cock
 
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