Ok, I have been dating this guy for 6 months now and he is very well endowed..more so than any other person ive been with (ive only been with 3 other people) and im kinda a small person. Well we have been having a very hard time having sex because it hurts me..we have tried lubes, we have had a lot of luck with Astroglide..but it still rips me and makes me swell and we can only do it once maybe twice then I need a few days to get over it..it doesnt help that he is in the navy and away at times so we cant for weeks at the time. Does anyone have any advice..it would be greatly apreciated.:frown1: